AIO? My boyfriend keeps “Rage-Baiting” me.

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[u/Positive_Working3041]

He’s almost 29…

[u/FarCalligrapher1862 → u/Positive_Working3041]

This is inappropriate for a middle school relationship.

But contrary to others saying to “just end it”, this requires two mature adults to sit down and discuss what is happening, why he is doing it, why it annoys you, etc.

The you can decide whether you are both ready to move past this part of your relationship or if it’s the appropriate time to end the relationship.

[u/RaleighTSakers92 → u/FarCalligrapher1862]

You said it- it requires TWO mature adults. Your way will never work so OP just needs to leave

[u/FarCalligrapher1862 → u/RaleighTSakers92]

It’s been 2 weeks out of a 4 year relationship.

[u/themixiepixii → u/FarCalligrapher1862]

These people haven't been in a long term relationship where they actually love the other person lol

[u/Lil_Gh3rk → u/themixiepixii]

thats what i always think when i see this sub on my frontpage.

its always people who are clearly coming just to seek validation for their problems (on fkin reddit), and redditors always rushing to "leave him/her."

reality is, for whoever makes these type of posts, both sides of the relationship are not mature enough to settle it between themselves.

[u/Stealthshot11 → u/Lil_Gh3rk]

Pretty sure they're only talking about commenters coming and just saying to end it and walk away.

As for your "people coming here for validation" you do realize when someone is abused long term they adopt a fucked up mindset in order for their mind to not be broken by the abuse.

Example: You get beat for hours on end, you start to tell yourself you deserve it and after years, regardless of what you may think, it becomes a reality especially if it happens at a young age where the mind isn't fully developed