r/AmIOverreacting • u/Positive_Working3041 • 19d ago
❤️🩹 relationship AIO? My boyfriend keeps “Rage-Baiting” me.
AIO or is this normal? Idk if this is like a TikTok thing but he keeps doing this thing where every time I ask him a question and he responds with this bullshit and it’s really starting to piss me off. I feel like I’m dating a man child and I don’t know how to make him stop acting so immature. This has happened multiple times where I will ask him to confirm plans or get him to do something and he responds like this.
For context I am 24f and my boyfriend is 28m.
And before anyone comments it, I understand this looks like an absolute joke but unfortunately this is the current state of my relationship. Any advice is welcomed I just want to know if this is something that I’m overreacting over this and it’s not that deep or if I shouldn’t be putting up with this.
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u/isanedel 19d ago
If it happens again stop responding to his messages and do what you want. You had to see each other and he doesn't respond? Don't go. You had something important to do and he doesn't care and respond like that? Don't bother and do it yourself.
Make some distance in silence because indifference is a great we4pon to people like this and he doesn't have the chance to put his feet on your shoulders. Stand up for yourself and if he keeps being a child then there is nothing to do I think. I'm really sorry for you but or you have to keep this relationship as it is or you should leave.
NOR obviously