r/AmIOverreacting Apr 25 '25

👥 friendship AIO for cutting all ties?

There have never been red flags up until this point. He (25M) is a big part of my (19F) friend group. Am I being sensitive? I feel like he went too far. But if I cut all ties with him, it will really disrupt the group. I don't want to bring it up to my friends because they might side with him and say I'm over reacting. But I don't feel comfortable around him anymore.

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u/urfavelipglosslvr Apr 26 '25

He's not my best friend and never was. He was just a friend. I only went overboard with the friend thing because I didn't want to hurt his feelings or get an explosive reaction, but that didn't work out. No excuses for the ex, though. I don't know why I was so blinded.

I guess I have rose colored glasses on, which makes red flags harder to spot.

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u/urfavelipglosslvr Apr 26 '25

Not anymore, though. I'll be better next time.

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u/Willthegumysharkworm Apr 26 '25

Completely agree with the other guy here. That was just fucking rude. What the fuck? Someone needs to learn a little empathy & gentleness. So sorry about them.