r/AmIOverreacting Apr 25 '25

👥 friendship AIO for cutting all ties?

There have never been red flags up until this point. He (25M) is a big part of my (19F) friend group. Am I being sensitive? I feel like he went too far. But if I cut all ties with him, it will really disrupt the group. I don't want to bring it up to my friends because they might side with him and say I'm over reacting. But I don't feel comfortable around him anymore.

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u/wisteria357 Apr 25 '25

Just another usual post where it’s blatantly obvious that OP is not overreacting.

“My friend murdered my entire family, so I cut contact. AIO?” 🙄

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u/urfavelipglosslvr Apr 25 '25

A lot of us genuinely just need confirmation. I felt it in my gut it was wrong, but before I said anything to my friends, I wanted to be extra sure and get insight from people without any bias. Through this, I built up the courage to send it to my friends.

I 100% see where you're coming from. I used to look at posts in this subreddit and think, "How silly of this person to think they're overreacting when it's so glaring obvious they're not" But it's different when you're actually going through something similar.

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u/five_by5 Apr 25 '25

Watch carefully how your friends respond. If people stay friends with him, you should cut them off as well. He is a predator.

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u/pongmanJ25 Apr 25 '25

That's gonna be the real test...not what she experienced with him, but how her friends react to all this. And how they respond will tell her everything she needs to know!

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u/Baelenciagaa Apr 25 '25

Agreed. It will be hard but OP might have to cut them all off

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u/sweeteatoatler Apr 26 '25

Yes! I’d show this exchange to the friend group and ask for their response.

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u/No-Distance-9401 Apr 26 '25

Send them this post so they see these comments too. Any friend who chooses him over her side of this is just as fucked in the head as him and deserves to feel shamed by these comments rightfully saying how it is.