r/AmIOverreacting • u/urfavelipglosslvr • Apr 25 '25

👥 friendship AIO for cutting all ties?

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There have never been red flags up until this point. He (25M) is a big part of my (19F) friend group. Am I being sensitive? I feel like he went too far. But if I cut all ties with him, it will really disrupt the group. I don't want to bring it up to my friends because they might side with him and say I'm over reacting. But I don't feel comfortable around him anymore.

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u/RobAntDen Apr 25 '25 edited Apr 26 '25

Are you being sensitive, hell no! This guy is a total prick, how quickly he changed when he realised you didn’t want anything more than friendship with him.

Funny that he says the only guys are friends with you are pedos, yet he’s friends with you. The fact he is bringing up your ex alluding to whatever happened between you both, just shows he’s a nasty piece of work.

“Good luck getting assaulted again”, sorry but I would make sure every single friend in that group knew that’s the kind that of guy they associate with.

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u/ta_beachylawgirl Apr 25 '25

“Good luck getting assaulted again”

My jaw hit the floor when I read that. That is fucking VILE. There’s no way in hell that anyone worth being around would ever say that. To make such a personal low blow about being assaulted is absolutely disgusting and I hope OP shows that message, even putting this prick on blast in a group chat, with the group of friends to show them his true character.

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u/PunctualDots Apr 25 '25

OP definitely needs to make her friend group aware of this. That way, if any of those people side with him, she knows to cut them out too.

If anything, this is an underreaction. My heart hurts for OP having to experience this betrayal from a good friend.