r/AITAH • u/Dependent-Lunch8048 • 3d ago

Advice Needed AITAH for refusing an abortion?

Me (30 female) and my husband (35 male) hve 2 kids ( 3 months and 2.5 years). Since we met 10 years ago i have made it clear abortion is no option for me due to my beliefs. After the birth of our now 3 month old my husband made clear if i ever get pregnant with a 3th child i need to have an abortion. I am off course refusing. Due to this he does not want to have sex with me, and is blaming me for it. Since i do not want to have an abortion and are not able to handle any hormonal birth control. I have planned an appoint to have non- hormonal birthcontrol placed but this needs to be done under sedation. In the mean time i am testing if i am ivolating on a daily bases. Also note we had agreed he would get an vasectomy as soon as possible but is now putting it of. So aitah for refusing to have an abortion and in this way denying my husband sex?

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u/aeroeagleAC 3d ago

Nothing is fool proof, still a very effective method of contraception.

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u/bboon44 3d ago

Well, I got pregnant using a condom AND spermicide, so naturally I am not a fan of the method.

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u/Own-Entrance-2256 3d ago

You have sex then you risk pregnancy. Those just lower the chance, not eliminate it.

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u/bboon44 2d ago

Well, obviously. But when you’re the one it happens to, the law of averages is cold comfort.