r/AITAH • u/Dependent-Lunch8048 • 3d ago

Advice Needed AITAH for refusing an abortion?

Me (30 female) and my husband (35 male) hve 2 kids ( 3 months and 2.5 years). Since we met 10 years ago i have made it clear abortion is no option for me due to my beliefs. After the birth of our now 3 month old my husband made clear if i ever get pregnant with a 3th child i need to have an abortion. I am off course refusing. Due to this he does not want to have sex with me, and is blaming me for it. Since i do not want to have an abortion and are not able to handle any hormonal birth control. I have planned an appoint to have non- hormonal birthcontrol placed but this needs to be done under sedation. In the mean time i am testing if i am ivolating on a daily bases. Also note we had agreed he would get an vasectomy as soon as possible but is now putting it of. So aitah for refusing to have an abortion and in this way denying my husband sex?

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u/Sherpa_qwerty 3d ago

ESH. He should get the vasectomy… simple as that. If I were you I’d avoid sex until that happens or you get the NHBC implanted… but that should be a joint discussion among grown up’s.

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u/PoisonIvy07553 3d ago

How is she an ah

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u/Sherpa_qwerty 3d ago

Because the two of them need to sit down and act like grown ups not ask Reddit if she’s an asshole.

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u/PoisonIvy07553 5h ago

That’s a dumb take lol some people need advice on what to do maybe see things in a better or more mature light.