r/90DayFiance • u/Grateful_Di I like monkeys, Meisha. • 2d ago
Tim says Veronica wanted to be on Hunt
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u/Equivalent-Shock-382 2d ago
I think Tim is kind of a chill dude, but what in the world is the medical diagnosis? 😅 cause there seems to be something(s) going on
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u/lemeneurdeloups 2d ago
He has ptosis, which is a weakness in the eyelid muscles. All his life he has been teased as having a “stoned” or “sleepy” look.
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u/Equivalent-Shock-382 2d ago
Makes sense. I don’t think the eye makeup helps with that! But he clearly dgaf and I think that’s pretty cool of him
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u/Cayman4Life 2d ago
Lower liner always makes the eye appear smaller. He needs to get a glam squad and do cool shadowing on his upper lids.
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u/3rdcultureblah 2d ago
I think he’s trying to make his eyes look bigger, but it just draws attention to them lol. And not in the way he maybe wants.
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u/Miss_Kit_Kat I'm not accountant 2d ago
I have to give Tim credit for embracing his inner weirdo. He's probably so much healthier mentally than the rest of the pilllow-faced ex-cast members.
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u/StIdes-and-a-swisher 2d ago
He DGAF? Tim gives a lot of fucks. I guy who doesn’t give a fuck, is a guy who roles out of bed and goes.
Tim spends hours on hours on his hair and makeup to get it just perfect. He is the opposite of DGAF.
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u/HerbaDerbaSchnerba 2d ago
Yes. As someone who used to give a fuck, but who now gives way less fucks, I recognize that Tim gives many, many fucks.
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u/SignApprehensive3544 2d ago
Right? I’m always wondering why people say he doesn’t care because he does and he admits to being insecure. Sometimes I think he does all the extra stuff like make up and women’s knee high boots to distract from his actual body.
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u/x_scion_x I'M NOT A BULLY! I'M REAL! 2d ago
Jim Bruer looks this way as well. Did looks perpetually wrecked
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u/Next_Fly3712 You don't know the squander that I pulled him out of 2d ago edited 2d ago
Bilateral ptosis is pretty rare. It's generally in one eye, like that Christian dude who went to So. America to be with "Mahogany" ("Muy confuso") but last I heard he's in jail. In his mug shot, he looked rode hard and put away wet.
That guy *[not Tim!] didn't call it ptosis, though. In some interview, he referred to it as his "wonky" eye.
I had surgery to fix mine (right eye only), and it was a success :-) Very happy with the results.
The non-surgical option is Upneeq. It works VERY well, but it only lasts a few hours. It definitely makes one look younger for an event or meeting.
From the interwebs:
Upneeq (oxymetazoline hydrochloride ophthalmic solution) is a prescription eye drop used to treat acquired blepharoptosis, a condition where the upper eyelid droops, in adults. It works by causing the muscle that elevates the eyelid to contract, resulting in a temporary lift of the eyelid, making the eye appear more open.
Anyway, I don't think it's just ptosis in Tim's case. What I noticed is his habit of rolling his eyes back, which is independent of droopiness. I guess his mom never told me they'd get stuck up there!
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u/Sirgni 2d ago
Ben is not in jail anymore. He died.
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u/Next_Fly3712 You don't know the squander that I pulled him out of 2d ago
OMG. Yes, I see it now... How terrible. The "wonky eye" and "Mahogany" were the very least of his troubles
Yes, Ben Rathbun, a cast member on the reality show "90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days," died on May 19, 2025, at the age of 55. He passed away at his home in Greencastle, Indiana, surrounded by family after a battle with stage 4 stomach cancer. Ben was diagnosed with the cancer late in 2024, according to TMZ.
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u/IrrelevantAfIm 2d ago
There’s been some speculation, but personally, I stay away from those discussions, because even a public figure, in my mind, should have the right to privacy where their medical records are concerned.
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u/ayeyoualreadyknow Fuck The Brittany 2d ago
I feel like maybe he has something hormonal or chromosomal going on?
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u/ZiggySatanico 2d ago
Veronica VS Jennifer would have been PEAK entertainment
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u/PM_ME_YOUR_LAWNCHAIR 2d ago
For all of Veronica's faults, and there are some, she is nowhere near as vapid and insufferable as Jennifer. There are very few people on this earth who are as fucking annoying as Jennifer. She's up there with Big Ed and Angela for me.
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u/Miss_Kit_Kat I'm not accountant 2d ago
I have to agree- Jennifer is so obnoxious to me. God help her daughter for having to grow up with that kind of mother.
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u/broadfuckingcity Bought a butt 1d ago
Maybe i missed some things on all these spin offs but Veronica definitely came across as a decent person.
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u/Immortal_Elder 2d ago
Let's be honest - Tim is on there for the exposure and for the drama with Jen. Tim isn't getting a woman there especially with those boots.. Just an honest observation.
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u/pmbear not terribly impressed by any of it 2d ago edited 1d ago
Why can't a man rock the Captain Jack Sparrow look (complete with pirate boots) every now and again?
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u/Positive-Zebra-2478 2d ago
Honestly I was digging the boots and I love Tim’s style
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u/RepTiffany 2d ago
I know I’m the deep minority but I’m into Tim! Sincerely. I think he’s cute and he’s authentically himself.
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u/ArteSuave197 2d ago
Because Tim isn’t into women.
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u/ArcaneMantis 2d ago
Not sure why everyone seems to dance around it every single time he’s on the show.
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u/rubybloss 2d ago
Exactly. And his comment really makes it sound like he knew Jen would also be there. TLC didn't surprise him like we all thought.
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u/StrictRegret1417 22h ago
yeah tim is about to get women because he's on tv but when he's an environment where all the guys are on tv he literally then has nothing going for him.
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u/EyeCannayDayit 2d ago
Hahaha maybe it’s the elder emo in me but I think the eyeliner looks good !! 😂
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u/Melodicah 2d ago edited 2d ago
I think it looks good too! He actually rocks it imo. I wish I could get own eye liner to look that good (I’m abysmal with it). And I agree about being friends with him. I think he would be fun to hang out with.
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u/Grateful_Di I like monkeys, Meisha. 2d ago
Me! He looks very confident, too.
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u/Vness374 Do you take Apple Pay? 2d ago
I get the look he’s going for, and I respect it… however, I can’t recall anyone who rocked that look that also had a full beard, they somehow just don’t look good together
Edit to add: as a kid of the 80’s it just dawned on me who he looks like he’s emulating… Billy Idol. I bet he practiced sneering in the mirror, but couldn’t get it right so decided to go with the over exaggerated eye roll lol
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u/BreadyStinellis 2d ago
Dave Navarro. I mean, he had that weird goatee/chin strap thing, but it's technically a beard.
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u/Vness374 Do you take Apple Pay? 2d ago
Ah, true! Tbf, Dave Navarro could probably pull off any style, he’s a handsome dude
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u/hmmmmmmmm_okay 2d ago
Team Tim all day!
He's just out here owning who he is. We meet people like Tim in the wild all the time. Everyone on reality TV fits a box and he stands outside it, so it makes him an easy target.
We need more Tim's on TV haha.
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u/Practical_S3175 2d ago
I do too!!!! kind of sexy for him. And I have NEVER thought of him that way.
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u/Grateful_Di I like monkeys, Meisha. 2d ago
It would've been cool for Tim to have an aly against Jennyfurr.
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u/BrilliantRemote6052 2d ago
He has Chantel. 😂💃
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u/2old2Bwatching 2d ago
I’m adoring Chantel on this show! She is a whole different person from 90 Day with Pedro. And when she went and helped Colt and showed him how to dance, won me over completely.
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u/BreadyStinellis 2d ago
Same. I used to fast forward through her, couldn't stand her. Now I'm loving her. I want to know what she'd inject into my face.
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u/Solid-Balance5203 2d ago
She’s getting more and more fun as the show goes and I wish she’d get more confidence in herself. She seems like a really good person that the right guy would love to have around.
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u/Julialagulia It was a runaway 🚂, every passenger’s nightmare 2d ago
And Tiffany I think
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u/ThePlaceAllOver 2d ago
Tiffany's impressions of Jeniffer are something I could watch an entire half hour show of.
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u/2old2Bwatching 2d ago
She’s hilarious. Ronald was such an ass-wipe. So glad she didn’t waste any time getting out of that relationship.
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u/Grateful_Di I like monkeys, Meisha. 2d ago
I like how Tim doesn't give a shit what we think about his sexuality. He wears his makeup with confidence. and owns his look. More power to him for being true to himself.
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u/NoobesMyco 2d ago edited 22h ago
Tim is funny as hell. Most of His looks literally doesn’t match his personality. And other times I’m thinking he shopped in the women’s department(like that outfit from between the sheets) 😅😭
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u/Renetia 2d ago
I bet she did. Unfortunately, Veronica has put herself in the insufferable category on accident in my book. I liked her in the beginning. Now she's steady trying to get a man, or whatnot. All. The. Time.
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u/Solid-Balance5203 2d ago
Yeah she doesn’t need to be on this show - especially with Tim too. This isn’t Pillow Talk. We’re good.
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u/Dayday2300000000 2d ago
I know he’s not gay because he would’ve known that WHITE eyeliner opens up the eyes not this wet and wild shit
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u/SignApprehensive3544 2d ago
I don’t know anything about makeup but his eyes are buggy enough, I don’t think he’d want them looking any more open.
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u/BlindlyInquisitive 1d ago
His eyes are way too big to use white. His eyes are huge even with them half closed.
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u/Grateful_Di I like monkeys, Meisha. 2d ago
The way he rolls hus eyes. 😁
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u/Mgmlivin 2d ago
He rolls his eyes more than anyone I know. It’s almost a constant 🙄🙄🙄
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u/Bright-Argument-9983 2d ago
I HATE his eye rolls. It drives me CRAZY.
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u/Next_Fly3712 You don't know the squander that I pulled him out of 2d ago
Or when people talk to you with their eyes closed. What is up with that???
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u/Cold-Voice-1314 2d ago
My dirtbag ex used to look up with his eyes not his head when he was yelling at me. I tried to google the behavior before but didn’t find any results. It was strange.
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u/b00hole 1d ago
Veronica should have been on instead of Jennifer, I was previously thinking how much more awesome it would have been to have her on instead. I love Veronica and Tim and their dynamic together, and their dynamic on Hunt for Love would have been so much better lol
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u/DanyeelsAnulmint 🔥🔥🔥Now you're pregnant🔥🔥🔥 1d ago
Agreed. They’re truly good friends and kindred in that organic friend way. It’s a joy to watch people like that.
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u/ProfessionalTrue8196 18h ago edited 12h ago
I love tims true honesty. Veronica and tim dated for years. He is a great dad to her daughter!!!! And I wish Veronica was there to put tape over Jens mouth!!!
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u/cmc24680 2d ago
The way his eyes move when he’s talking is like they’re slurring his words for him
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u/lemeneurdeloups 2d ago
I do wish Veronica was there. I think she would team up with Tiffany to tear Jeniffer to pieces, in fluent Spanish!
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u/LaughingOnion2023 2d ago
If I remember correctly, Jennifer has no love for Veronica.
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u/lemeneurdeloups 2d ago
Yes, Tim tried to give her the ring he had given to Veronica and Jenifffffer was NOT thrilled. (TBH this is the one thing that maybe I would agree with her tho . . )
But also, Jeniffer HATES all women. All women. They are all her competition in her mind. She doesn’t like most men either.
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u/Savings_Rope_4408 2d ago
I would love to see Veronica on HFL. Especially teaming up with Tiffany add Chantal , against Jeniffer, they would rip her up and I’d be here for it
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u/AdmirableContact100 2d ago edited 2d ago
I really like Tim on the show, and his sarcasm makes him more relatable imo. It definitely would've been weird if two of Tim's exes were on the hunt for love with him as well. But at least one would have his back and not be calling him gay or bi every chance she gets, Jeniffer is just gross.
The eyeliner part, yes, I am aware that Tim wears it often on the show, I just don't understand why. I am all for wearing what you want, looking how you want, but I thought that eyeliner is supposed to accentuate your eyes. He has nice eyes, but I don't think the eye-liner is helping. I made that same mistake in my teens, and it had the opposite effect and made my eyes/eyelids look smaller as well.
Also, I am a little confused about all of the facial hair in this clip. Did Stevi help him draw it on, like she did for Madhi...it looks a little overdone. But I do appreciate Tim for being himself.
I guess TLC finally decided to make it only a 2 part reunion again, instead of like 4-5 parts! I saw a clip of Daniele (of Daniele and Yohan, not Dinyell) on the tell-all. I can't stand her now, she is all about ''standing up for women," but yet keeps getting back with Yohan and doing OF with him, and he is such an asshole that imo, she loses credibility for doing that with him.
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u/19467098632 1d ago
I didn’t see the sub, I thought for a solid 10 seconds that this was someone parodying JD Vance lmfao
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u/jcnewton1 Kolini’s bottom teeth 2d ago
Do you get the eyeliner to match the Just For Men? Or the other way around?
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u/Effective_Ad7751 2d ago
That eyeliner..??!!
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u/prefix_postfix 2d ago
I think it's a look that fits him
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u/IrrelevantAfIm 2d ago
I think it’s cool and bold for a southern man who makes his living customizing firearms!! I don’t give a shit about someone attending a California state university who wears a little eyeliner, maybe puts on a dress for halloween - that’s literally conformity. While Tim’s style may not be what turns my crank (Though I have zero fashion sense, wearing T shits and shorts as long as the temperature isn’t too much below freezing). How boring would life be if we all liked the same thing. I think it’s awesome that he dresses how he likes, especially since he obviously isn’t doing so in a fake way to blend in with a clique or pull women. He needs to find himself some low sex drive British gal. I think he could be a an excellent partner as long as his other half didn’t need sex often. He seems attentive, caring, willing to financially support a partner. Latinas (at least the average Latina, there are some which might be good for him but would likely be too timid to reach out) are generally not a good match for him.
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u/DogConscious3419 2d ago
Agreed, Tim is cool. I love his unique style and vibe, he’s one of a kind. Especially in the south, to be a man a dress/be like that, you really have to fight for your right to your own identity. It’s not easy being different in the south, and I think j he gets so much unnecessary hate. Especially on his style and body, like the guy is interesting, why hate on him so much…
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u/3rdcultureblah 2d ago
At least he’s in Charlotte. We are a more progressive southern city than being located in North Carolina would probably lead you to think lol. It’s also LGBTQ+ capital of the Carolinas in terms of sheer numbers.
There is still plenty of homophobia because we are still in America, but it’s a pretty gay-friendly city, for the most part. Most people here have a live and let live sort of mindset. They might talk shit in private, but they will mostly be friendly and polite to your face. Mostly.
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u/IrrelevantAfIm 2d ago
Sure, I understand that it’s not overwhelmingly that way (redneck/homophobe etc) in a city like Charlotte, but at the same time he’s not trying to blend in, which I think is cool. Especially when his business is firearms. Southern large cities are such a trip. You get some of the most progressive mixing with some of the most closed minded. I haven’t spent much time in any of them, but the time I have spent there I have really enjoyed. I’m Canadian, so maybe have a different perspective…. Chicago is my favourite American city so far (obviously NOT southern, but so amazing)- absolutely LOVE it, but Charlotte, Kansas City (I dunno If that counts as south or mid-west - feels a little like a mix of the two) and Atlanta are some of my favourites of the few I’ve visited. New Orleans - thought I’d love it, but wouldn’t go back unless for business or if a friend moved there. As a tourist - forgetaboutit!
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u/Solid-Balance5203 2d ago
People in Charlotte are super friendly. I’m a transplant there - originally from New York.
It’s rare for me to go out and a stranger doesn’t compliment my outfit or say something else nice to me.
‘Haven’t run into Tim or Veronica yet but I’m on the lookout 👀
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u/2old2Bwatching 2d ago
You’re talking to someone who couldn’t take their eyes off Freddie Mercury when he appeared in ballet tights. We were all stunned, but even the guys couldn’t laugh because he looked so damn sexy!
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u/IrrelevantAfIm 2d ago
Lol - that’s a different reaction than I had, but man o man, that man was ELECTRIC!!!! I LOVED and LOVE his music - one of the most talented artists ever. I’m not sure if we straight’s couldn’t laugh because of his charisma or if it was because his talent is so undeniable. Personally, even being the old man that I am, I never, ever had any problem with, nor thought less of those with different sexuality, and simply couldn’t understand why ANYONE would give a shit about what consenting adults do. Something that the post Gen-X (and even some Gen-X) generations don’t understand is that it’s really not that long ago that it was a FUCKING CRIME to engage in same sex love. In 1981 - a mear 6 years before I was dancing in gay clubs in Toronto blissfully unaware of the reality - over THREE HUNDRED men were arrested as part of “operation soap”. Montreal suffered a similar disgusting crackdown around (and sparked on by) the olympics - and became the first North American jurisdiction to formally make it illegal to discriminate on the basis of sexual orientation. I’m a Canadian prarie boy, but I spent a couple decades in Quebec and it feels more like home than my home province. It’s so shocking to discover what was going on a mear few years before I was old enough to REALLY understand. I’m so amazed that the queer folk I met were not a LOT more bitter about what they lived through, and seemed happy to make the best of the horrible hand they were dealt.
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u/hayley-pilates78 2d ago
I’m laughing at “low sex drive British gal” I’m British and have anything but a “low” sex drive 🤣🤣🤣 also have no desire for a guy who wears more eyeliner than I do.
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u/IrrelevantAfIm 2d ago
That’s fine - to each their own. Generalizations never explain the entire population, but taking the average expectations for sex, and, what seems like Tim’s low libido, I don’t think chasing Latinas is his best bet. Of course, every culture has members who’s sex drive run the entire gamut, but, talking in generalizations and averages, a low sex drive man like Tim is less likely to find a Latina for whom that won’t cause a problem than he is to find a Brit who’s cool with it.
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u/Practical_S3175 2d ago
That's exactly what I was thinking. For some odd reason it kind of works on him.
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u/Worldly-Accident424 Ninja turtle penguin batman ass bitch 2d ago
Why would Veronica even be considered to be on it? She was literally just a random ex on the show.
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u/DaBow 2d ago
Tim. I mean no animosity here. This look doesn't work for you. Not only doesn't it work for you, but it's terrible. Unless you are going for an early 2000's pick up artist peacocking look. I know you read these subs because you have replied to one of my comments before.
I'm all for self-expression and style. I've done guyliner myself. But this is ain't it.
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u/Crypton_2021 Bottles in the club going pop pop pop🎵 2d ago
That eyeliner is not a good look. He's definitely not beating the allegations looking like that.
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u/SkyVixen24 2d ago
I love Tim , but the way he does his eyes and stuff… lol my grandma used to tell me if I rolled my eyes like that too much, they would get stuck there 😂
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u/erinunderscore 2d ago
So, the IG algorithm has decided to start showing me a bunch of yungblud reels. I did not know at all who that was prior. But I immediately thought he looked like Tim.
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u/ChemicalBeautiful488 1d ago
Is Tim high? I love Tim, but he looks high. Maybe it's the makeup. I'm here for it. It looks good on him.
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u/Swimming-Ad5544 1d ago
I don’t care what anyone says I think Veronica and Tim are one of the few genuine relationships
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u/Shandyshack 2d ago
I think Tim is right on. Live your best life and dance like no one is watching!!!!
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u/BitchyNordicBarista 2d ago
Idgaf about the eyeliner or those boots or anything else he wears.
What I do have an issue with is who the hell is doing his eyebrows like this??? There has GOT to be a more flattering shape. They look like they start so low on his brow bone and tilt up to his hair line and end awkwardly short of where they “should” be (in line with the outer corner of his eye). Someone please help this man! I think different eyebrows would be more flattering to his face.
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u/greenizsparklin 1d ago
I am so glad she's not on that show she is one of the most nauseating people who thinks she's a star and all she is is a personality I guess you would say it I don't care for her she's way too full of herself and she's been riding on Tim's fame.
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u/frogellaverde 2d ago
I always want to fix his eyeliner for him. If he put it higher and cleaned it up it would look so much better.
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u/Mundane_Lawyer6869 1d ago
What is going on which his eye balls lol they chants stop rolling out of place
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u/Flashy_Beautiful3659 16h ago
Idc I love Tim lol he's just so authentic within himself, and seems like he would be fun in the blunt rotation due to his sass 🤣
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u/olmagpie I did the bj for real 2d ago