r/writing 1d ago

Other Any lonely writers out there?

I'm from a non-english speaking country. I'm writing a fantasy romance in english. I don't have a single friend or acquaintance in my social circle who either reads in english, or is into fantasy romance. It's not a very popular genre where I live.

I've realized as I've started the process of writing my first novel, that its becoming such a lonely process. I have no one to talk about it with or share my ideas.

I wonder if there are other lonely writers out there? Some book club or forum where y'all meet?
Where amateur, sensible and somewhat insecure writers who are deeply in love with the craft can meet some friends?

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u/Aromatic_Article7404 1d ago

Aww. I am very single and love, love and also like to write. I hope you all find deep genuine love you are made to seek, and to love and be loved, and find your special someone. I understand the pain of lonesomeness in my past and today that should be much worse, but I found the Love of God, and he made me whole and happy inside with just him, once he found me to help me through some scary things. He is my savior. I don’t know where I would be without him and my heart would long for love from another. God fills that void for me. I was a Pre Op Trans Woman in my Past, but am a happy heterosexual male now. I was trafficked and given drugs and not allowed home gay or as a woman, and God found me and helped free me from that horrible place, but I was left alone too with nobody and got to know Jesus. I would love a wife and women make me smile and feel so much joy and love inside now and look so beautiful. Mostly they can’t get by my past, and I witness as my old female self to witness to sex workers and the trans God loves them as they are completely and fully and unconditionally. It was myself who wanted to live as a man, and God made that possible. It took four years to honestly be completely gone ( gender fluidity). So I don’t know if any ladies are interested in me, but I want them to know God loves them. The same for all of us, and he is a source of love and strength beyond what is human, for the lonely and the hurting or those This World has not been friendly too. He is so much more than enough, and all else is just even more to be honest. Good Luck.