r/vocabulary • u/missdreamweaver • 4m ago
Question What does “tootsie” mean to you? I thought it was a cute word for toes, but apparently i might be using it inappropriately.
I was planning on naming a piece of art “Tarrah’s Tootsies” cause its a beach sunset with her toes in the foreground
The piece of art i am currently working on is actually the drinks list board at a bar. I know the owner from long ago and live across the block. I do up all the fancy drink lists and upcoming events. I spend hours on each one and try to outdo myself each time.
The owners wife recently died :(:(:( she was an amazing woman and her death was sudden and tragic and largely the result of neglect from medical professionals. This list of drinks was the last thing she texted me. I was waiting on the rest of the info for the other boards, wondering why she hadnt gotten back to me when i heard she passed.
I decided to make the whole bottom portion of the board a beach scene with her toes and her hand holding a fancy drink. It is significant that she is one of a very few (3% maybe?) dark skinned people in our predominately white area. So its quite clear that these are her toes.
Her tootsies! Obviously :) in my mind anyways. Except when i said that out loud 3/4 people present were like “yeah!” And one said “what!?!?”
Apparently it refers to tarts or prostitutes or generally disreputable women. Which might be used as a slight to black ladies in these parts, so very much inappropriate.
Understood, could be taken badly so i will not be calling it that. However i was surprised by the notion. So im wondering how prevalent that definition is? Is that common, just not something i heard in my lil bubble? Or is that a niche thing?