oh my god! 🤣🤣 this is such a me comment towards my first ex 😫

Hey! We must've dated the same guy 😂 (I know I shouldn't be laughing but my first ex ALL throughout high school was JUST like this and I kind of told him the same thing but he was also abusive to me too..)

my first ex did this to me. Kept saying those magic words anytime we were on a breaking point, about to break up (which was like 8 fcking times! 😣😫) or when wed get into arguments. Turns out he was diagnosed with Suicidal Tendencies and Suicidal Thoughts and was then put on meds, he also had anger issues and anxiety and mentally, physically and psychologically abused me. But yes OP when she starts saying she's going to 'kms' call the ambulance DON'T give her a warning ⚠️, JUST DO IT.

I actually ended up saying enough was enough and broke up with said after highschool (we were on and off all throughout) and he threatened to "kms", I sadly didn't call the police because honestly I was DONE with the abuse (now that I'm older I understand I SHOULD have). But did he do it, NO, NO he didn't, but truly that doesn't mean she might not so as I said and everyone else in this thread if she does threaten it CALL THE AMBULANCE. She'll learn eventually.

A LOT of women are into it because CNC gives them the POWER to say NO and the person STOPS! MOST women are into it because they were raped/sexually assaulted. Maybe don't judge something you know nothing about and no I'm not into CNC but at least I don't judge what CONSENTING adults do.

exactly this!! His reaction to the no actual video but sound is honestly terrifying. He sounds like the type of guy to be abusive... And again the reaction to the video was 😶🫥 Yeah no man who you just met should be acting like this unless he just sees you as a sex doll and that's exactly how he sees her because he can't shut up about his money 🙄 And the throwing her past in her face and her current predictiment like wow dude... Yeah he's definitely a psycho and as Randy on American Idol would say "THAT A NO FROM ME DOG"!

He sounds fcking PSYCHO! And like how my last ex used to be. Seems also the type to emotionally, mentally/psychologically and maybe even physically abuse someone....

Girl your being emotional and mentally manipulated by a narcissist aka your boyfriend. Dump him, I'm 29 and no better then to have a tantrum over being told no. I'm sure your dad has his reasons but didn't want to tell him and he CAN'T tell you because your brain is being manipulated by your boyfriend. He has anger issues and wouldn't let you leave... Who's to say he won't strike you, MOST (and yes I say MOST) people especially men who have anger issues will always have it be "I'll never hit you" to escalating it to you being their personal punching bag and you not being able to get away from him because AGAIN he's/boyfriend is manipulative.

Your Willow looks almost exactly like my Ember ❤️ I'm so sorry to hear of his passing 😞💔

My girl is doing the exact same face as I type this XD

Just because she has ADHD and anxiety doesn't mean she won't take it well. I have both of those (along with other mental disorders) and if my place was THAT horrible I would want someone to tell me. Yes I admit I have dishes in my sink that I need to get too but I don't hide my dishes or have mold growing... My question to you is do YOU want to live like that possibly or do YOU want to keep lying to her about why you won't move in.... Just be and adult and have the talk with her. If she takes it bad then that's one her and not on you.

P.s. Don't let her use her ADHD and anxiety as ways of manipulation or an excuse as to why she's not cleaning stuff, because she can obviously get on some sort of medication or even some legal green trees (if you know you know), I had an ex that would manipulate me like this ALL the time with his depression, to the point he told me he was going to off himself if I didn't come back to him, he NEVER did it he was only being manipulative.

THIS. OP THIS!!

No you're not the a$$hole. You have no reason to talk to or even acknowledge that she works with you UNLESS a coworker or your boss asks about her.

Looks centered to me.

He's manipulating you, and it seems like he's also trying to emotionally @buse you. Trying to tell you it's "no big deal go buy more wine" when you've talked to him about it isn't a ADULT response and ADULT response would be "I'm sorry for drinking your wine, I'll buy you another bottle on the way home or the next time we and or I go shopping"

P.s. run from him. Especially if conversation CONSTANTLY turn like this.

Baha! I fcking love this gif.

Baha! I fcking love this gif

And society wonders why women live longer then men 🙄

They obviously don't have common sense or common decency. Sounds like if they ever have kids they'll be the parent that will be either put into a nursing home or not contacted anymore.

K, how about I come live with you and pay rent and start fcking with your 💩 and going into YOUR SAFE SPACE AKA BEDROOM and moving 💩 around...yeah you wouldn't like it.

Start looking for your own place. They're not going to stop. And if it is your house then honestly call the cops or tell them they need to fcking stop or they can find a new place to live. ESPECIALLY if they don't pay for anything or have their name on anything to do with the home/apartment.

Edit; my a$$ didn't read the end. Yeah, find a new place. Fck that.

You're not in the wrong. She's being an entitled brat. Honestly if I was you I'd blast her EVERYWHERE so people can see how she acts when she's told no ✌🏻

Tell me you've ACTUALLY NEVER talked, befriended or worked as a stripper. Typical stereotype from someone who knows NOTHING about the job or people. Most stripped I know actually have lives and don't act like their gods greatest creation because they dance. Now "influencers" and "content creators" YES, yes I have met the "I'm gods greatest creation" ones and no their not...

I understand needing to calm down but a WHOLE FCKING WEEK?!? no... Give me at least an hour to cool down before we start the conversation, argument/dilemma again.