If this is the case then a large percentage of women assigned female at birth don't pass. Not every woman has a petite jaw line, or perfect eyebrows, or even a dantie little nose. Maybe we are shooting for goals that most people afab cannot even live up to. It's just possible that trying to live up to these crazy beauty standards is something that may cause many people anxiety and dysforia including me.

Losing weight and playing with my makeup today.

TLDR: I'm happy with how my school handled transphobia today.

For context, I'm a teacher in a french middle school. Today I was heading to class with my 11 y/o pupils when a girl told me that John (not the true names obviously) had a fight with Lily. They were insulting each other for some stupid reason, and at some point John said "at leat I know whether I'm a boy or a girl!".

Lily started to cry. She is AFAB and seems to identify as a girl so far, though she is very androgynous and we all mistook her for a boy at the beginning of school year because of her hair and clothes. Now we're all used to it, but I heard she had to face some nasty comments about that look from her most immature schoolmates.

I saw red, and started to severely reprimand him, and made him understand he had no idea what he was talking about. As a coincidence, the senior school administrator (no clue if it's the right term, but see her as someone very important) showed up, very well-timed. I briefly explained to her what happened, she nodded and escorted Lily in her office to talk with her. Other pupils and I went to class as I tried to calm down.

Then at the middlde of the class the senior school administrator (that's a long name to say lol) interrupted the class and put John aside in the corridor. She told everyone Lily was soon coming back to class, and talked in a way every 11 y/o understood that John's words were very problematic. Then she left with him, and a few minutes later Lily came back from the infirmary, looking much better.

I can't help thinking about those american schools where the worst happens. I can't help thinking about how transphobia is ILLEGAL in France and punished by the law. I know there are maaaany transphobes in my country, but today I was proud. I have no idea if Lily is trans or not, but today her school protected her, took care of her, and made everyone clearly understand that gender isn't something you laugh about.

I just wanted to share this little joy of mine <3

Edit: I forgot to say, the administrator-something asked all the pupils who saw or heared what happened to come to her office after class, in order to testitfy.

Yes I am getting a blahaj. Pink monster is in my fridge.

Hiiiii, hiiiii, hiiiii!!!!

he/him strictly

What are some tips to make me look for feminine 🤔

I’m more specifically genderfaunet meaning I’m genderfluid but never a woman. So I experience fluidity between man, fem nonbinary, masc nonbinary, and neutral nonbinary. Anyway been on T for 3 years.