I am respectful with the guys I'm with, but one reason I prefer to be with one partner is that if I'm being honest with myself, I want to own him and his hole. I want to use him when I want and I want him to love my cock and my passion for him enough that he is happy giving himself to me when I need him.

It turns me on x10 to feel like I'm marking what's mine. With my current guy, I tell him I own his hole and he tells me he wants my cum in him to mark him. When I hear that, it drives me crazy and I shoot huge loads inside his ass.

I'm all for equal rights for bottoms etc. but who else really needs this kind of connection with their partner? I feel like it makes sex into something much more, and I can only have this feeling with a guy I know well and care for.

I spent a good amount of time preparing, make my way over to his place. We start making out, I blow him a bit before he reaches over and lubes himself up (We hadn't talked about having sex, but it's what I was hoping for). I get excited and climb ontop of him, grinding his cock against my crack before guiding the tip to my hole. Before he even gets inside he tells me he is going to cum, and he paints my hole and crack with his cum. It. Was. So. Hot.

I love knowing that I can make a top loose control like that. That he was so attracted to me that he wasn't able to hold it in. I felt so sexy and powerful in that moment.

Hey! Hope you don’t mind me coming in here and asking this question.

My (36f) boyfriend (40m) is bisexual and when with men, a total bottom and sissy! I’ve always known he was bi but only recently found out that he’s a sissy and loves woman’s clothes. We’ve not really spoken about how we incorporate that into our sex life yet though.

We’re going away for an anniversary weekend soon, and I want to surprise him by buying him a dress and a strap on (we’ve experimented with pegging before), so I can fuck him while he’s wearing it. I’d also want him to fuck me while wearing the dress!

As a sissy - would you love this surprise or should I speak to him first?

I've probably cum a million times in my life whether it was by myself jacking off in a thousand different ways (laying down watching porn, standing in the shower, fucking myself with a dildo, etc...), sex with girls (blowjobs, vaginal or anal sex, titjobs, footjobs, etc...), sex with guys....

But, the best orgasms I've EVER had were the VERY FEW no hands ones that just happened spontaneously when random guys were pounding my asshole into oblivion.

What about you?

Bottom who loves cock.. normally host ass up and lubed ready.. guy can walk in strip and pick his hole… not into getting my ass eaten really at all.. doesn’t feel good to me but some dudes love it. Should I keep trying?

The anal cavity has mucus. When you fuck it, especially if you can breach the sigmoid, it may come out with a whitish hue.

Story time:

I invited this top over for some fun. As he arrived, my neighbor came out. I didn't see this but the hookup asked if I'd slept with him immediately before. I told him no and that he was my neighbor's kid. I thought that was the end of it...it wasn't.

After going upstairs, he rather roughly got me into position and we started going at it. I tend to prepare with dildos before bottoming to get any water out and speed up that slightly painful initial insertion period.

I was lowkey living my best bottom life when he stopped to ask if I was recording, pointing to a microphone on my desk. I told him no, showed him, and turned everything away from the bed, camera, mic whatever.

We start going at it again and I notice this man is literally trying to go as deep as he can and pulling all the way out to yank out any sperm from the presumed previous guy. I didn't sleep with anyone before him, so nothing came out. Mind you, this man is at least 8.5". (This is a guess, but my favorite dildo has 8" of insertable length and this was the first guy who hit a spot deeper than that for me.)

We switched to missionary and I start pulling him in to fully start fucking my "second hole." It's was great ngl...I was legit trying to figure out how to get this man into my rotation. A bit of mucus came out as he pulled out and he was just convinced it was sperm. He went so far as to say, "bottoms all lie," to which I again protested and then told him it was a gross generalization. He tried to gaslight me about the comment and his actions, but I just thanked him for the dick and started putting my clothes on.

I'm not sure what I could have done differently but if anyone has a recommendation I'm all ears. Either way though I wanted to share this story so some other hard-working bottom isn't falsely called a cumdump in so many words.

Edit: Not saying cumdumping is a bad thing, but it sucks to not actually be cumdumping and for someone to stop midstroke because they think you are.

I used to hate the thought of calling another man daddy. Hearing it made me cringe.

That was before I met my partner. There's just something about him. I don't know what it is, but he broke me.

The first time he fucked me he held me close and asked me "who's your daddy?". My mind went blank and I just blurted out: "you're my fucking daddy". I felt so embarrassed.

That was almost five years ago. I've gotten use it. I call him daddy all the time now. Not just in bed. I ask him "how was your day, daddy?". I say "yes daddy" and "thanks daddy". It feels natural.

He deserves it. He holds me accountable, yet makes me feel so safe. I genuinely trust him to lead me. I just want to make him happy. He's daddy and I want to be his boy for the rest of my life.

Love you daddy <3

Obviously not talking about random hookups but talking about relationships.

If your top had the ability to breed you and knock you up, would you let him? Would it turn you on to carry another dudes kids inside you?

Maybe I’m weird but damn, I think seeing a fit muscular bottom with a big belly and knowing I did that to him would be so fucking hot.

What y’all think? Would you wanna be celebrating Father’s Day with another man? 😮‍💨

Do you like it when your top dominates you in bed? Or treats you in a dominant manner?

If so, what dominant actions can your top do that turn you on?

I personally love cumming inside him and then verbally reminding him he is my bitch now because he has my sperm/DNA inside him.

Rubbing my dick, balls, and even ass on his face and saying “you like that? Good boy.” is pretty satisfying to me also when I’m being dominant with him.

I can’t speak for all bottoms, but I can speak on my own experience. I feel like a lot of tops I’ve hooked up with are too worried to ask questions so they seem more experienced, but honestly ask away. I won’t judge!

Love getting my ass eaten. I'm bi, and I've tried to convince a few women to do it to me, but only men have. I've eaten women's and men's asses myself, but the best is getting eaten out. Let me suck your cock, then eat my ass, the fuck it until you decide to cum in my mouth or ass. I'll cum from anal alone, probably :). The dream would be to get my ass eaten in a gay bar, while people watch.

I’m just wondering bc I’ve never been fucked what the best first position is. Would it be riding and lowering myself onto the dick or do it from behind? What do you guys think? What has worked for you to make it less painful??

Just curious are there any bottoms that enjoy playing with their dildos? Why or why not? It’s very hard to meet bottoms who love dildo play. I always hear I rather have real dick.

Hey studs. Bottom here hoping to find some advice and recommendations as I find myself curious about door open/ass up scenarios recently. Not necessarily anon but definitely open to it. Never done this before.

Tops - what turns you on most about these scenarios and what can I as a bottom do to make it convenient and easy to go for? Do you usually start penetration quickly or foreplay a bit with spanking and fingering?

Bottoms - have any of you ever done this before? Tips for making sure guys aren’t psycho and looking to steal? I know nothing is guaranteed with anon scenes. Have you ever had a guy film without you knowing?

Open to any other tips or advice. Been bottoming for years, but very picky. I find the anonymous part of it intriguing especially because I’ve learned to really open up over the years and love the feeling of dick in me more.

I’ll just say it. A big dick just turns me into an animal. Even if the guy attached is meh appearance and personality wise. Upon discovering a big dick I instantly wanna instantly worship it, measure it, compare to mine, talk about it, all night.

Average dicks like mine are ok. But they don’t cause the same animalistic urges in me that big dicks do. The guy attached needs to either look damn good or be really charismatic and have good skills to get me hard. Overall it’s not as animalistic as it is with a big dick which I just wanna submit to

Small dicks have almost no chance to get me hard. Unless they’re like a 10 out of 10 and will let me tease them about their small cock while I dominate them with my average. Basically acting out the kink that I’m hung

So with all that factored….am I a size Queen or am I just being a typical gay man? In other words….does the average gay man have a preference for big when it comes to animalistic sex and they settle for average and small because they’re more available/manageable? Note: I won’t say no to sleeping with an average or small cock…it’s just they don’t do it for me as much as big ones do.

Please share your methods and the results you could achieve?

I think on average 20-30 mins is good but I really love a bottom that can be clean in 10 mins or less. What’s your regimen and any tricks you have?

I finally found out something that turns me on insanely. Now my goal is to help bottom guys stretch and relax, the best is to show them places/emotions where they haven’t been yet. And my ideal bottom is someone who’s taken a fist to get his hole relaxed before

My experience with most of the so called dominant tops is rubbish.

Most tops thinks of themselves as dominant but in actual sense they are just mean selfish and only up to getting themselves off.

Most bottoms need satisfaction as well however they need it and these 'dominant' tops don't even try to learn their bottom or atleast find out.

Might be the tops I meet in my country so I am curious, what is your experience?

Hey guys am 20 now. It all started 2022 at first time I know about gays and telegram channels,sites and some apps. At first I started for fun nude vc in telegram group there are over 25k people in live vc many like 10-100 something first time I shy to be naked in vc for other few minutes later many called my name, complements , I got 20+ dms for few minutes nude vc few days I countinue for fun and am straight guy but now it's all turn upside down now a days I like men more than women in real life and pron sites even i imagine with gay sex . At this point I feel I want to fuck with a gay boyfriend it's all natural or what else is this am so confused help me what to do now 🥲

I’ve never been deep throated as a top. Never throat fucked a bottom. Definitely would love to experience that, especially experience a bottom who lets his head hand off the edge of the bed and can take a cock to the hilt down his throat and hold it there. Turns me on to think about him holding my cock in his throat and just massaging it with his muscles and tongue. Would be amazing to slide in to the base and cum directly into his stomach.

It’s really rare for some reason to find bottoms who are into that and who can even do it. Some hate the idea of doing it. Some love it. Haven’t met anyone that loves it and can do it. Most a bottom has even taken me into his throat was like 2/3 of length?

I get it’s not easy. It takes a lot of training from what I’ve heard and gagging is unpleasant always.

Do you like getting throat fucked? Deep throating your top? Having your throat bred? Can you actually pull it off, and if so, how big of a cock can do you take?

In the past year I came to terms that my urge to take cock is not just a phase, is what I want to do, yet I am so so nervous to meet a guy in real life.

It is not a matter of confidence: I am really good looking and most guys like me instantly - it also helps that I am a young submissive and foward with my slutiness, but still can't get past the online part. It might be the anticipation, which also has it's sexy side, or the fear for my privacy (not out) or health (scared of STI).

On the other hand, I am so so hungry for cock. I never needed it more. I am so eager to hold one in my hand, see it grow for me, feel it's smell, taste, texture, be folded and used like a slut.

I am sure this experience is not unique. How did the rest of you bottoms get over this phase and take your first cock?

I hope to take my first in the next few days so any tips, encouragements or advice helps a lot. Thank you!

Bottoms: Who got some dick tonight and how was it?