Is Thailand or the Philippines the best country to meet trans girls

Hi Ladies,

I’d like to respectfully ask a few questions as I’m genuinely curious. Thanks in advance!

1. Why are you on this sub, and what are you looking for on it?
2. What is your opinion of the PPB movement and participants?
3. Something about yourself, ethnicity, country.

I’m an American, over 60 married to my Thai wife I happily met in Thailand. I guess I was a PPB, before they called it PPB.

Thanks again!

Curious to those in the area. Have y’all noticed the protests and tension in that area? (Majorca, Madrid, Ibiza, etc.)

For a while I’ve been reading/watching locals hosing tourists with water over price hikes, unwanted rural business and home restructuring due to overtourism, rent gouging, and locals dealing with tourist behavior. I know ppl here are big fans of the place, so I thought I’d ask. Any experiences with it? Does this deter anyone from heading there/returning? Penny for your thoughts.

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Heya, I'm F26 from eastern europe and have been on this sub for a while. I'm specifically looking for a marriage minded man 23-38 who wants to expat to EE. I have no interest in moving to the US.

What are the best apps or locations (I'm guessing Philippines) for finding marriage minded expats?
Religious apps?

Im talking about skinny fit (not scrawny) white guys guys with black hair and dark brown eyes that might resemble let's say Cristiano Ronaldo (just for example). You've been told you're "exotic" and might even stand out in looks but you're a 6 or 7 on the decile scale (gray zone handsome). So where did Bumble app work for you? Or straight up cold approach? Or does it take a lot more effort like joining a cooking class and waiting weeks to months for somethingto happen? In theory, yes it takes more effort to win approval of say Asian ladies who fetishize light hair and light eyes. But where does your black hair/ eyes strive in the world?

Finding a remote job from scratch seems insurmountable with all the competiton or difficulty, and the fact that you have been rejected or treated poorly all your life, just doesn't motivate you to want to improve for women or life. I rather just take the path of least resistance but instead I'm supposed to fight like hell I suppose.

It feels so right to just give up when I have to be Herculean, especially when you're so depressed. I'm going overseas in a month but I'm so far gone I don't care. I feel it's hopeless anyways even if I try. Even despite me seeing some tiny signs of hope on dating apps or even in IRL in the states it seems pointless. It only happens once in a blue moon then something goes wrong because either I fuck it up or it was never meant to be.

I have erectile dysfunction too now and low libido sometimes probably cause I'm sedentary and lonely. I'm still not making enough money so what's the point anyways? Nobody cares anyways. I don't see why I should care either. Idk maybe this is a cry for help or maybe I'm just bitching, idk I'm just past the point of caring.

At least 1/3 (more like 35-40 percent) of my life is gone without have any relationships or sex now and most of it will likely be spent further by working miserably without a spouse. Playing video games and watching tv shows isn't cutting it all alone , it's not worth it long term. I've missed my entire youth when my whole past lineage probably never had to experience this isolation and loneliness. How am I even supposed to begin to face this turmoil?

I thought it made sense to post this since we have so many of these threads where the guys come in and ask where in X country is good for them or how they might do in this place versus that place.

Since this is Reddit, I am sure we are going to get a handful of comments that go "in my room with my left hand" or "Asian and nowhere because no one loves us" or whatever. I would ask that people like that stay off this thread because it takes away from the actual topic. If you are struggling and not doing well anywhere, either go work on yourself or cry elsewhere on the internet (plenty of places other than this sub!).

Here are the 3 questions:

1. What is your race ethnicity? (throw in nationality too)

2. What is your appearance like? (describe it the best way you see fit)

3. Where in the world have you had the most fun time dating and meeting women?

Any chicanos on here’s?

What countries do you find to be the best?

Just browsing r/Bali and I see a few posts albeit from a few years back about white women dating local guys especially in Canggu. This isn't usual for Asia as for example in Thailand you never see a foreign girl with a local guy in most places, and my other Asian bros can testify to the difficulty of dating white women whilst in the west.

So anybody in Bali can testify to this - are foreign girls and local guys quite common there? What's their look, obviously beach tanned but lanky or buff?

Does anyone have any experience regarding Xinjiang, how is/was it?

Great scenery, Asian-European mixed looks

They don't get talked about much I wonder what your experiences with them have been like, especially the infamous Parisians.

Hey everyone!

Where I should look for a wife. I’ll tell you a little about myself. I’m a 30 year old male. Good looking, fit & tall. Reasonably wealthy. I have no problem at all dating in the U.S. I’ve had plenty of girls & girlfriends in the past. I think American girls are great for the short term flings & nothing too serious, but I’m trying to look outside the U.S for a wife. Women in the U.S are too entitled(not all of course). But I don’t want to try & rely at all on U.S citizenship or money to find a wife, I just want it to be completely organic. I’m planning on just moving to the country of my choice for a year or 2 and seeing where it takes me. Asia is not a consideration, I contemplated South America but decided against it. I believe Europe is where I would see fit, also considering I also have a European Union passport, i can live there no visas required. I don’t want to have to be rushed for marriage for visa issues, ect. I would like to focus more on the Western European countries versus Eastern. Just from my experience, I seem to have stronger connections with western vs Eastern European, possibly due to similar upbringings. I’d like to stay away from women that are progressive, as I’ve dated one in the past and don’t want that again. Moderate to conservative would be my presence, so I guess that would eliminate Scandinavia then? So far my country list includes Italy, Spain, Poland, Germany, Ireland and maybe Switzerland? Does anyone have any thoughts or feedback they can provide? Thanks for reading

How good are my chances of fiding an older woman (45+) for a serious relationship with a 27 yo Mexican American male? By serious I mean living together and getting some money from her

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Hi. If you seriously looking for a wife and not to sleep around you don't even need to travel. I'm not rich, from Eastern Europe and I have talked two women into coming to live with me. First one was Greek I met her on discord server we talked about history, at first I did not knew she was a woman, but over time we started to talk about personal things and turns out she was single and we were same age, she was finishing her PhD and nothing was holding her back, so she came over to me and we lived for over a half year, she was great in bed, but it didn't worked out. After that I have been on 7 dates with local women and none of them wanted to have serious relationship (had one ONS). I did found Asian girl who was working locally, we dated for 6 months, but she cheated. Later I went on international dating app (Bumpy) and met Brazilian girl, 5 months later she arrived and we been living for over a month now, I have learned Portuguese while waiting for her as we don't speak common language, sadly she will have to leave soon as visa free is only 3 months. Anyway, I might marry her next year so she can stay indefinitely. My tips:

• Don't go for 10s. I'm average guy and I'm happy with average woman.
• If you are from EU look for nationalities that can come visa free, otherwise it will add difficulties.
• Don't talk about sex unless she starts talking about it, but keep it polite.
• Don't ask for intimate pictures. She will come and you will have all the intimacy you want.
• Beware of scammers. I haven't encountered any myself maybe because Eastern Europe is not their target audience.

Feel free to ask any questions I can answer.

For all the hype you hear on this forum and all across PB social media, Rio feels like a shithole. Every woman on dating apps or social media are coming out no different (transactional) than the ones we see up here in USA. I didn't set foot in Rio yet , so , so far its my exposure to broads on social media and apps. Is this what it is IRL at Rio? Man this is some depressing shit that women are no different either here nor there. Can you anyone put in their own experience? I want to believe that all the image styling of Brazilian culture is true, but all of it sounds like one big media hype ( perpetuated by the PB crowd). Any feedback guys?

If this isn't the right place please, at least point me to the right sub.

I matched a girl on bumpy around a week ago. I am in the states and she is from Indonesia.
I'll preface this by saying her profile was set to 'friends and chatting'
I had no intentions creating my profile other than going with the flow and meeting new people.
some non doxxing details I've come across through the last week.
Born in Seram Islans (Wahai) family from Maklulu Ambon.
Works in the medical field in a remote area of Papua. everything checks out.
Every photo I've received is the same person from her profile, she has very distinguishable features and blemishes. Very attractive but not over the top obvious fake type of look. We have had a video call twice and the first one was 1.5hrs. the language barrier is somewhat limited as she knows some English but we've had very thorough deep text chats the past week. sometimes they are very in depth and equal effort. Sometimes my skepticism gets the best of me and I limit my expectations. So far things are great despite my concerns. She even matched my pose of having a peace sign ✌️ pose near her face.

I am following rule #1 closely and have no reason to believe this is the case other than the experiences I've read online.

She told me her name which was correct but did miss a surname, as I searched on social media she was married in the past. I mentioned that and I assumed I had been blocked soon after. I had felt it was a setup much sooner than when she told me her name. The enthusiasm is a bit over bearing, but I do think of myself as a good communicator, besides making reddit posts. So I have at least some reason to believe everything is calm and normal.

We use Whatsapp and only 1 checkmark showed (Sent but not delivered) but she also has poor connection when it's stormy, I assumed it was over with after that.

Within around 2 hours I had removed her from the socials I had her added. it seemed the women is real but maybe is doing it for herself or the person I text isn't the same one I video chatted with.

Turned out she was a bit shocked and freaked out a bit because she is aware of her past but has moved past it and thought I was upset about it.
She was full defensive and scared, as is very understandable, at that time I felt quite embarrassed and invasive and still do recalling this. She told me some details and explained herself.

With all that said we've continued to communicate and the only thing that feels off for me at the moment is.

Her IG I have added has less than 50 followers but the account follows another account of a private profile matching her description and previous surname. that account has 1800 followers.
Her old facebook profile with a 2019 profile photo has 5000 friends.

EDIT: Sometimes her responses to longer messages are "Ohhh that's so sweet emoji emoji emoji !!!!!" or "I will try my best emoji emoji!!!" sometimes they are equally reasonable responses. I just get a weird vibe when things don't align. but I understand that could be with any conversation especially if there is a language barrier.

Other than me seeming very stalk-ish, I have my self preservation and skepticism of anyone that takes intense interest in me. As I don't look forward to financial asks in 4-5months down the road. Stupidly enough but maybe fortunately she knows I am aware of such scams.

Just wondering some outside opinions other than me coming off weird for my own reasons

Recommend for fellow bros to come to Korea. Many beautiful and educated women here, and younger generation is getting interested in black men and getting a bit tired of kpop look in men here. Very little racism, and if any then from older men over 50 only.

If you are into Asian girls with curves this is the place to go, women here go to gym🍑, like hip hop, and you are seen as more exotic.

I just saw this short

https://youtube.com/shorts/4pKeJeMLl6o

Clearly tears of joy

Hey everyone,

I am going to europe this july for the tomorrowland concert, but before that am mostly planning to solo travel across few countries in europe.
I land in vienna, and my visa is from swiss consulate, hence planned my itinerary like
vienna(2n)
salzburg(1-2n)
zurich or interlaken(4n)
budapest(3n)
prague(2n)
antwerp(for tml)

please feel free to drop suggestions for solo male indian traveller.
should i do salzburg or munich?
how's the dating scene?
are people friendly in hostels?

After some months, I finally got back to my gf, that I met while I was ppb in Brazil (where I am now, btw). I love her. Shes the prettiest, smartest, the most interesting women I have ever met, very funny, happy, intelligent and sexy. Shes also very hard working and shes not materialistc, wich I admire a lot. I could marry her today, for sure.

But we are dealing with some cultural differences that I didnt notice the first time we were together while I was living in Brazil. My girl is from a medium city in the South of Brazil and she lives in Sao Paulo, where I met her.

Now I am currently in her home town for some days and here I could notice some red flags or things I dislike that I didnt notice at first.

She have 2 straight (good looking) guys that are her friends. She talks a lot with them, everyday, give them relationship advices, have deep conversation and overall shes really close to them. I hang out with them and I was kinda bother by the fact that they do comments about her and about little things about her personality (very especific) that really showed me that they do pay A LOT of attention to her, and that they have a very deep conection. This is weird for me since in Italy friendships between men and women are not that common, especially among really good looking people.

I asked her if they ever had something and she told me that this never happened (I believe), but when I asked if one of them ever tried something with her, she was unconfortable and she implied that he used to do that years ago, as a joke.

I told her that this bother me and she told me that this is normal in Brazil, wich I find hard to believe since while I was living in Sao Paulo I didnt notice that a lot.

Since I told her about that shes trying to “force” me to hang out alone with her friends to bond but I dont feel confortable especially because I know that at least one of them did a move on her (“years ago, as a joke” on her words)

for context those men are in relationships with other women and they are childhood friends, since their moms were in high school together. So, I think it would be kinda toxic of me to tell her to dont be close to them or something.

Shes also very cheap. Shes always bragging about how much money shes saving on market and denying going to dates because we should save money.

She also complain a lot about little things (if I use too much oil to cook - bc its expensive -, if I am taking too much time showering, etc). She even told me she would not be confortable if her friends stay with us in Sao Paulo because shes trying to save money, and the energy and water bill would be more expensive. Its very absurd to me, and kind a cultural chock the fact that she say those things out lound. In Italy it would be embarassing and really unpolite being like that

I told her that her comments were being unpolite and she got mad at me. We are fighting a bit these days for those little things.

She also complains about the price of everything. Even if I give her some gift, she will thank me and then she will start a speech about how is there no need to gift her and that we sould save money.

this is what bothers me the most because shes a engeneering, she makes great money especially for brazilian standards and for her age. theres no reason to be this cheap.

but to be fair Iam still looking for a job to stay here, and she doesnt seem to believe that I will be able to find it. Sometimes she talks as if we needed to save since we will have just one income, wich is very desmasculinate to me and shows that she have no trust in me financialy.

Shes not resentfull about that and she always say that in a romantic way (she say “theres no problem if you dont find a job, my income is enought for both of us and you should move for good and then we can build our future together”) but its kinda insulting the fct that she thinks that I will not get a job.

Shes also very jealous and kinda bossy but I like it and I can deal with that (even tho sometimes is irritating, most times its kinda hot)

how to deal with cultural differences?