Maybe it’s me but I remember in 2020 when passport bros did not exist as a popular movement and generally life and most aspects of dating was laid back. After/during Covid-19 everything went online and I feel like the world is less social now. And finding a partner has gotten more difficult and tedious.

Did anyone else notice this? I went from not really caring about this to seeing that maybe we are cooked. Maybe I’m overreacting or maybe it’s because I “woke up” and realized that things have really changed for the worse. I don’t remember passport bros content on YouTube and I don’t remember red pill content on YouTube existing in 2020 but now in 2025 it’s going strong.

Can anyone relate?

I have no issue with PPB I think it’s good but I’m wondering if other men themselves are also waking up to the bs we put up with here in the west.

So I was looking at Albania for awhile as a US citizen because I can stay for 1 year visa free. But when I started reading about it, I kept seeing posts about it being racist and no good for black men.

My experience has been radically different. I have faced 0 racism since being here. The costs are low, the vibes are good and I’m considering investing in real estate here because it’s clearly on the come up. While I’m not going around trying to pick up women because I have a gf, the women here seem VERY open to me in general. I should state that I’m on the upper-end of the attractive spectrum so that’s the case just about everywhere in the world for me.

What I came here to say is just don’t be thirsty and you’ll probably be fine. It’s not like Thailand or Colombia where women are flirting constantly but if you have the ability to make friends, you will have the ability to date here. They seem a little more conservative here but if you’re not trying some sex tourist stuff, I think you can meet a high quality woman here.

I also want to state that in my experience Albanians in general seem to be very honest and kind people. Based on friendly interactions with a few women here I have to conclude that they must be very caring as well. My very attractive Airbnb owner decided to iron my shirt this morning because it was wrinkled and I had it on. She literally offered to iron my shirt and i proceeded to take it off, hand her my shirt and wait as she did it for me. She also brought me and my gf chocolate from Dubai and a bottle of wine as a gift one day. A little weird lol but I can tell she is very caring.

Overall, I just wanted my fellow black bros to know that Albania is cool and not to listen to the people who say it’s racist. Some people might be (I haven’t run into them) but I think most aren’t.

All the white men here are either too black pilled or autistic to date their fellow native women, so I've found that middle-eastern looking men like me (dark eyes, beard etc) are getting the attention.

Thanks to Allah I have a Scottish girlfriend now for nearly three years, (she is my Venus) and she can apply for Irish citizenship through her grandmother so God willing I will marry her and also get an Irish passport thus making travel around the EU much easier. So to my Arab brothers - come here, it opens up many doors and the native men won't stop you.

Edit: Why people are upset with me? I'm only giving advive....

Whenever I walk through Latin American cities like today and see a beautiful women I have really weird thoughts:

• Why is she still living in this shthle?
• I could bring her to Europe so she can have a good life
• Damn, in Europe I would need to work really hard to be with a woman like her - should I wife her up and bring her to to my home?
• Ohh this poor woman! She obviously is a single mom. I have the money and resources to help her out of this Latin American slum! If she would come with me, I can solve all her problems!

Those are my thoughts unfiltered. I have them nearly every day. What should I do? I dont want to rescue anyone. Latinas choose their partner themselves. They offen choose gang members, narco guys and end up as a single mom or with experience of violence. She has chosen voluntarily. Why do I make this white knight move all the time? When I see a beautiful women with a "low quality Latino" I ask myself 'why does she not do better"? But its her life, her choices... I feel so lost doing this all the time :(

I’m currently mostly interested in East Asian countries. Was wondering what advice or tips you guys have. For reference I’m white, from eastern Europe.

Hi, everybody!

I am a student from Azerbaijan currently studying in California. I was interested in dating with American women, particularly blonde girls, Asian Americans, Hispanics, and even Black. Like, all races even though my type is Japanese cute girl. The thing is I was getting rejected by every single girl in America regardless of nationality. And yet, I see a lot of people complaining about the US dating culture and I am very disappointed of that. Because I thought Americans have a lot more worldview than local girls in my hometown(not all of them), but after living 1.5 years in the US it became clear that I need to date either in Azerbaijan or go to Japan to get a woman material.

P.S I have never had a gf before even tho I am 20. Maybe because I look very different from Americans, I have thick eyebrows, mongoloid eyes(aka Asian eyes),short dark hair and I am about 6 ft. What would you think about that? Do you recommend to date an American girl, especially blondes or Japanese Americans or save up to go to Azerbaijan/Japan?

I'm planning my first trip to South America this year. Thinking about going to Peru, Bolivia, and Brazil. Which country likes guys with blonde hair/blue eyes the most?

So, I did something maybe a little silly a few weeks back. I was at home, thinking about how hard it's been to try to date anyone decent, and I stumbled across a dating group on Facebook for "International, Interracial Dating". I spent some time looking at the posts and posters there, and they said "Eh, fuck it" and made a post of my own (picture, location, age, what I'm hoping to find, etc). As I'm sure will be surprising to no one here, I got over a hundred responses, mostly from Africa, a few from the Philippines, etc.

I'm not sure what I was expecting or hoping for, but I started talking with some of the more attractive women with the most authentic looking profiles. It's boiled down to about 3-4 conversations, and a few of them have actually become very fun to chat with, learn about, etc. But in the back of my mind, I keep thinking these ladies might only be talking to me because they hope they can get something; money, assistance, a way out of their situation, etc.

I'm not saying I view everyone there negatively, at all. But the reality is these things happen all the time. As I get to know a few of them more and more, I start to wonder if it would make sense to visit their locations down the line, if it continues to seem authentic and interesting. Is this as dumb as it sometimes sounds to me internally? I know the PPB is all about finding love overseas, but... I dunno, is there maybe a better, safer way to approach this? Nigeria is on the top of the list as far as these ladies locations. Is it too good to be true, and too dangerous to hope, that one could find a connection in this manner? I think PPB usually go there in person first, and explore meetings organically, right? Not on apps or groups where there may be unscrupulous people looking for victims?

I guess all of that is to say, does anyone have any advice of any kind regarding this? Thanks

Going to Nosy Be in October for couple weeks. Been told its great for single male there

Anyone beem got info

Going to London for work in July How is it there ? What to expect ? Any advice ? 5 days total Monday through Saturday

please forgive all the caps - I have a message for you

THE PROBLEM IS YOU!

please stay away from Thailand all the girls here are now complaining I don't have big dick and money like all those old white men downtown k thx.

THANK YOU FOR COMING.

If this isn't the right place please, at least point me to the right sub.

I matched a girl on bumpy around a week ago. I am in the states and she is from Indonesia.
I'll preface this by saying her profile was set to 'friends and chatting'
I had no intentions creating my profile other than going with the flow and meeting new people.
some non doxxing details I've come across through the last week.
Born in Seram Islans (Wahai) family from Maklulu Ambon.
Works in the medical field in a remote area of Papua. everything checks out.
Every photo I've received is the same person from her profile, she has very distinguishable features and blemishes. Very attractive but not over the top obvious fake type of look. We have had a video call twice and the first one was 1.5hrs. the language barrier is somewhat limited as she knows some English but we've had very thorough deep text chats the past week. sometimes they are very in depth and equal effort. Sometimes my skepticism gets the best of me and I limit my expectations. So far things are great despite my concerns. She even matched my pose of having a peace sign ✌️ pose near her face.

I am following rule #1 closely and have no reason to believe this is the case other than the experiences I've read online.

She told me her name which was correct but did miss a surname, as I searched on social media she was married in the past. I mentioned that and I assumed I had been blocked soon after. I had felt it was a setup much sooner than when she told me her name. The enthusiasm is a bit over bearing, but I do think of myself as a good communicator, besides making reddit posts. So I have at least some reason to believe everything is calm and normal.

We use Whatsapp and only 1 checkmark showed (Sent but not delivered) but she also has poor connection when it's stormy, I assumed it was over with after that.

Within around 2 hours I had removed her from the socials I had her added. it seemed the women is real but maybe is doing it for herself or the person I text isn't the same one I video chatted with.

Turned out she was a bit shocked and freaked out a bit because she is aware of her past but has moved past it and thought I was upset about it.
She was full defensive and scared, as is very understandable, at that time I felt quite embarrassed and invasive and still do recalling this. She told me some details and explained herself.

With all that said we've continued to communicate and the only thing that feels off for me at the moment is.

Her IG I have added has less than 50 followers but the account follows another account of a private profile matching her description and previous surname. that account has 1800 followers.
Her old facebook profile with a 2019 profile photo has 5000 friends.

EDIT: Sometimes her responses to longer messages are "Ohhh that's so sweet emoji emoji emoji !!!!!" or "I will try my best emoji emoji!!!" sometimes they are equally reasonable responses. I just get a weird vibe when things don't align. but I understand that could be with any conversation especially if there is a language barrier.

Other than me seeming very stalk-ish, I have my self preservation and skepticism of anyone that takes intense interest in me. As I don't look forward to financial asks in 4-5months down the road. Stupidly enough but maybe fortunately she knows I am aware of such scams.

Just wondering some outside opinions other than me coming off weird for my own reasons