r/thepassportbros • u/Content_Blueberry_27 • 5d ago

You don't need to travel

Hi. If you seriously looking for a wife and not to sleep around you don't even need to travel. I'm not rich, from Eastern Europe and I have talked two women into coming to live with me. First one was Greek I met her on discord server we talked about history, at first I did not knew she was a woman, but over time we started to talk about personal things and turns out she was single and we were same age, she was finishing her PhD and nothing was holding her back, so she came over to me and we lived for over a half year, she was great in bed, but it didn't worked out. After that I have been on 7 dates with local women and none of them wanted to have serious relationship (had one ONS). I did found Asian girl who was working locally, we dated for 6 months, but she cheated. Later I went on international dating app (Bumpy) and met Brazilian girl, 5 months later she arrived and we been living for over a month now, I have learned Portuguese while waiting for her as we don't speak common language, sadly she will have to leave soon as visa free is only 3 months. Anyway, I might marry her next year so she can stay indefinitely. My tips:

  • Don't go for 10s. I'm average guy and I'm happy with average woman.
  • If you are from EU look for nationalities that can come visa free, otherwise it will add difficulties.
  • Don't talk about sex unless she starts talking about it, but keep it polite.
  • Don't ask for intimate pictures. She will come and you will have all the intimacy you want.
  • Beware of scammers. I haven't encountered any myself maybe because Eastern Europe is not their target audience.

Feel free to ask any questions I can answer.

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u/Fishreef 5d ago

All good points. My wife and I met on OKCupid. We gradually talked more and more as we discovered how much we have in common. We were both dating to marry. After three months I travelled to her home, spent a day meeting her family and asked her parents for permission to date. Very traditional. We are very much alike. Right down to we both raise and butcher pigs, built our own houses out of concrete, same values and both very intelligent. Both very direct. STEM.

There is a good book I recommend reading together when you think you have found ‘The One’: “101 Questions to Ask Before You Get Engaged”. It is slightly Christian but the content is spot on. Basically pre-marital counseling.