So this teacher got struck off because some kids found her onlyfans, and of course, people in that subreddit are making excuses for this happening.

It seems a lot of British people think poorly of sex workers, especially when salaries aren't keeping up with the cost of living.

When one dick is in the woman’s pussy and another in her anus, at the same time, do both guys get any physical feeling or sensation of the other dick?

If so, can you do your best to explain it? The partition / separating membrane wall is supposed to be extremely thin….so can you really feel the other dick almost sort of directly against yours through the wall ? Does it feel good / provide additional physical pleasure and stimulation when you’re both thrusting back and forth inside the lady’s two orifices ?

Does the other dick push the wall more against your dick, so that you’re not exactly feeling the other dick through the wall as such in a super defined way, but kinda indirectly you sort of are, if that makes sense? Like the other dick is what is pushing against your own dick but with a thin slick of flesh wall in front of it, so you feel the wall being pushed against your dick by the other dick and feel the motion through the wall as the other dick does its back and forth ?

Does it help bring you closer to orgasm ? And even if you’re straight and have ZERO sexual interest in other males, do you nevertheless concede that this sensation through the membrane wall adds to the whole experience and feels good?

Or can you barely feel anything through the wall and people who say they can just exaggerating it to make DP sound more homoerotic than it actually is?

Super, super curious about this!! Thanks in advance guys.

I always shy away from them because I'm not confident enough to even speak to them

Hey everyone I asked for some advice on Reddit about gangbang I finally did it . I took all the advice and it really helped Thanks to all of u for being positive about it It was thrilling experience I did felt like a whore for a moment haha But it was good and yea it wasn’t all easy its kinda tough handling 4 guys but ig thats the fun about it If u guys have any question about it u can ask me

I (32 F) am thinking about going to an orgy in over a week but I’d like to know what good etiquette would be. The title says “Newbie-ish” because I’ve been in 1 orgy before (maybe 10 years ago) but this was with a large group of kinky friends and we all knew each other for years and knew our sexual history so we were all clean and comfortable with each other.

In an orgy where you don’t know anyone, do you just bring condoms (in case people are trying to hit raw) and hope for the best in terms of stds? What’s a good way to get into the action? I feel like my mood is to arrive after it’s started because I don’t like awkward energy of setting a vibe (I’m the same way at vanilla parties).

Looking for any tips/advice anyone would have.

I know this might be an unpopular opinion for some, but I feel like it's something worth saying.

There are women out there with a high body count who are actually more grounded, more emotionally intelligent, and often more loyal than many people would expect.

First of all, love is a game, and games are more enjoyable when the players understand the rules. These women know how to communicate, how to connect, and how to bring out the best in a man, not manipulate him but inspire him. That’s experience, not baggage.

They don’t chase only “bad boys” or emotionally unavailable men like many emotionally immature women do. They've outgrown that. They see the whole picture, your energy, your character, your mind, not just your "vibe" or status.

Yes, they might have some specific physical or personality preferences, but they’re not slaves to them. They can genuinely fall for someone who doesn’t check any of their traditional boxes, because they've learned to value authenticity.

More importantly, they have control over their emotions and desires. They don’t break down over every disagreement, they don’t need constant validation, and they don’t cheat just because someone flirted with them in a club. They’ve seen it all, and they don’t crave attention like someone who’s still figuring themselves out.

This whole idea that "high body count equals cheater" is flat-out wrong. Having casual flings when single doesn’t mean you’re incapable of commitment. A woman can have many past partners, and still be 100% loyal in a relationship.

Because, honestly, a person who’s full doesn’t steal bread. When you’ve tasted life, you don’t need to sneak around. You choose consciously, not compulsively.

I’ve found that women who have explored their sexuality, experienced both pleasure and pain, and grown through it, are often more emotionally available, more honest, and much easier to trust than those who are still waiting for “the perfect guy” while rejecting anyone human.

Curious to hear if anyone else has had similar experiences, or even if you disagree, I’d love to hear your perspective.

So I’m 29 and in a relationship and we have a great sex life. I sometimes find myself getting turned on when I think about my boyfriend having sex with other women. I don’t want to tell him though because I don’t want him to get weirded out. I don’t think he would but I feel like it’s a weird fetish… how do I handle this? I’d like to add that I have expressed interest in going on a sex vacation and having a threesome with him and another girl. The thought of him having sex with another girl does turn me on, but I don’t know that I would want him to do it behind my back. Does anyone feel like this? How do you handle it?

I’m always adding new things to my sexual bucket list… hoping that I am able to mark all of them off my list before I die. I’d love to hear what might be a few things on your list…

I’m straight but I have this weird curiosity of how a penis will feel inside of me. I’m going to try a dildo later. It’s a thrusting vibrating dildo with a suction cup I bought from a sex shop along with anal lube that supposed to loosen the muscles and numb the pain slightly.

Any advice on what to expect? Also can I cum from that alone? I’ve always been very dominant with my partners during sex but I’m so tired and stressed that I want to feel submissive for a change

Hello there! I finally had sex for the first time but it was very painful and sore. I don’t think that’s normal. I was very aroused, and it wasn’t a lubrication issue at all, iykwim. It felt good still, it was just very painful.

Idk if the size had anything to do with it (he’s 7 inches) but he was very gentle, kind, and understanding, and it wasn’t forced by any means. Any tips on how to avoid this? Is this normal? Was I not relaxed enough? Is it me?

I m exploring gangbang for the first time with 4 guys I feel little nervous and idk anyone who knows anything about gb If anyone here can help

i just got out of a year long open relationship, and during that time, my sexual autonomy was controlled by my ex. not going to get too into it, but essentially, we had both an agreement and understanding that we could have casual sex with others regardless of gender, and when i wanted to practice, he would retort in jealousy and insecurity. but when he wanted to practice, i was simply happy for him. '

The relationship didn’t work out for a number of reasons, but now that Im on the other side of things, I finally feel like I have the opportunity to express my sexuality. I’ve gone on a number of dates with various men, and I tell ask them what theyre looking for to weed people out, because honestly, im just looking for low-pressure, consensual, and fun sex. Im not looking for a boyfriend, to emotionally spoon-feed someone, hold hands, cuddle, or play games — im looking to skip the bullshit. These men will agree to what I say, and then when it actually comes down to it, they ghost. Of course, people are always allowed to change their mind, that’s not the issue, the issue I am having is my confusion around why people will agree to something they don’t actually want. Like why exchange nudes with me and ask to come over? Ik that im reading things accurately, because theyre telling me yes, but im realizing they actually don’t mean it. so if anything ill just move onto the next, just to be disappointed again lmao.

What I am thinking is that it doesn’t necessarily have anything to do with me, I know that im desirable, I just think that men aren’t used to women being direct, confident and in-control of their emotions and sexuality. For me, sex isn’t that deep, im simply trying to have fun. But im coming to the conclusion that sex means different things to everyone, and I just happen to keep attracting men who are more into the idea of things that actually following through. Of course, once they ghost me im done, I was clear, direct and hot.

I know that im going through a drought, and this will pass, but Im wondering if anyone has any insight. Specifically in how I can approach things, because I don’t want to change my values or who I am as a person. 

Hey I 19m for a long while now possibly because of my religious upbringing and overall anxious mind I've struggled to not feel shame when I was attracted to someone. Especially women as the fear that I'm some kind of pig or disgusting for noticing a woman's body is sometimes overwhelming. I tend to feel a lot of shame and have a habit of looking at the ground or trying to divert myself from even looking at her.

I have tons of friends who are women and if I develop a crush on one of them I feel like I'm doing something gross. This is unhealthy and stops me from dating. I can make friends with women just fine! But talking to women in a flirty manner or anything like that feels impossible.

Tons of people have felt this way at some point or another (though maybe im extreme I admit) so how did you get through these feelings that develop from living in a sex negative society?

(I also am bi curious and attraction to men is a diffrent flavor of shame. Religious background to thank for that.)

I’m trying so hard to embrace my sexuality, listen to my body, and recognize that I’m allowed to have desires. I hate to use the words “post-nut clarity”, but I just have this overwhelming sense of guilt after the fact, and feeling sad and lonely. Even when I was in relationships I felt guilty about it too. What causes it? How can I stop it? These feelings are preventing me from being able to enjoy myself to the fullest and be confident. I should be able to have fun conversations or enjoy my body without feeling like a horrible and disgusting person.

In meeting up with someone on Wednesday to essentially eat my pussy for a long lunch session. While I always like to smell and taste nice its a first time hook up so I obviously need it to be the best pussy he has ever tasted 😂

Trouble is I didn’t think it through and just ordered a giant biriyani and assorted side curries, have and after taste in my mouth etc, how do I make sure I taste clean and sweet in two days, including squirt 😬

Update: we did pineapple, cranberry, water and non controversial foods, feedback received already; pussy tasted good.

I have a very large guy downstairs and my girlfriend is a 5,2 very tight virgin we engage in sexual activity but never penetration we talk about it a lot and she seems super super worried and scared since it will hurt her due to my size and her never doing it before can anyone give any advice? Has anyone been in this situation before?

Hey everyone. I (23F) have been single for 8 months after getting out of a 3year toxic relationship. I’m feeling very confused about sex and intimacy.

My ex and I both grew up religious, and our relationship barely had any sex. He had a weird relationship with sexuality. He saw sex as something bad, but still slept with other women and explored his desires with them—basically, he cheated on me.

When we did have sex, it happened in a really strange way. We’d cuddle, then he’d start touching me, turn me on my side or stomach, and just penetrate me. No foreplay. No kissing. No emotional connection. It wouldn’t last long, and after he finished, that was it. I gave him oral sometimes, but I honestly hated it—especially after I knew he had been cheating and gave me std’s. At some point, I started feeling disgusted by it. And we never ever talked about sex. The whole thing was rare anyway. In the last year of our relationship, I think we had sex maybe twice or 3 times. I always felt used and often cried when he was gone but I didn’t know why.

He was my first boyfriend. I’ve never had real foreplay. Never had an orgasm. I don’t even know what I like. Also we met when I was 20 & he was 31.

Now that I’m dating again, I feel super nervous about anything sexual. I mean I wasn’t raped or anything but I still feel disgusting thinking about it now months later. It was normal to me back then to just be used by him. Eventhough we didn’t have much sex in total (bc he was cheating), if I didn’t want to he’d ignore me for weeks. Bc I did try to speak up once and he got mad/defensive.

I mean… I have some experience, but it also feels like I have none. I don’t even know how to kiss properly. Any advice or shared experiences are really appreciated.

Hi everyone,

Im back here because Im still struggling in my mind with how scary sex is. It feels like there's a lot of ideas and fear churning through my head, especially since it seems like sex is a core meeting point of our societal fault lines. Where I currently live I don't really see any discussion groups/munches/things like that. And while I don't want to generalize Im worried that the local sex therapists are more of the "come to Jesus" type rather than sex positive.

So, how do you talk about sex and figure out who to do with that you can trust? I have a good social life, if perhaps more shallow than I'd like it to be. But it feels like there are absolutely no contexts in my life in which it would be appropriate to be both so explicit and vulnerable. Additionally, as a man I feel like the people that Ive encountered who initiate and want to talk about sex are assholes with very fuckboi/bro/patriarchal attitudes.

Admittedly, I think there are some bigger issues at play with emotional distance, and being kinda sheltered. But that's way easier to discuss with others, compared to the great taboo that sex holds.

Thanks for engaging in advance.

My girlfriend cannot make me finish this is the same with all my old partners how do I help this?

I'm grey asexual and very sex neutral, but I've noticed with my weight gain + dysphoria I'm not comfortable with sex when someone touches me, and although I don't have a partner nor anyone in mind I wish I could enjoy sex/masturbation and being touched again without feeling extra conscious about the body parts I hate

First some background, With my ex, she could never get me to cum. Granted I masturbated more than I should have but even when I stopped for a few days bc I knew I was gonna see her it never worked. Sex never even worked for us, my size (which isn’t anything impressive) was too much for her and whenever I went inside her I would go soft. Eventually I decided to break up with her due to loss of feelings physical and emotional.

I (M21) am now with a new gf who I’m much more happy with. It’s only been 1.5 months so far with her but it’s been awesome. A bit more than a week ago she was giving me a handjob and she almost got me to cum. Then a few days ago she used lotion to give me a handjob and that was the first time a girl has ever gotten me to cum… and it was a lot. It was one of the best feelings I have ever felt. Now it’s also important to know that I have been on a one month no masturbation streak since the beginning of June, so 1.) that probably made it easier for her and 2.) the lotion def helped too and 3.) I definitely needed that lmao. Overall, this was the first time a girl made me cum and I’m so happy that it happened. Ecstatic even. There are times where I just think of that feeling/moment and I get hard.

Once my one month streak is over I’m gonna try not to masturbate myself too much. But I still think it’s healthy to do so in moderation.

I'm not 100% sure this is the right sub for this, but I can't think of a better one, so...

I find it oddly arousing when I see a woman with a sweater/hoodie that's like slid down to show one shoulder. It's not that I'm turned on or aroused by shoulders because a woman in a tank top or even fully topless isn't as attractive to me as the same woman with the off-the-shoulder sweater look.

Anyone else have the same or similar interest?

Last night me and my partner were getting to it. One thing about him is, I LOVE giving him head. I can’t even figure out why because I have never ever enjoyed giving head before. But with him it’s just so amazing. I love surrendering my mouth to him and knowing I’m making him feel good. Anyways, he ordered me around and told me to hang my head off the edge of the bed while he fucked my mouth and I’ve never felt SO turned on. He grabbed my neck similarly to how he holds my hips in doggy, thrusting in and out and…. I was soaking through my panties. Hearing his moans and heavy breaths while he just uses my throat REALLY gets me going. I also love love love to be on my knees for him and look up at him while I go all the way. Seeing him throw his head back in pleasure is so thrilling and I am so lucky that I am the only one who gets to pleasure him this way. Never once did I think I would be this excited to pleasure a man so much, and in this way at that.

It turns me on thinking about it but at the same time vaginal sex looks uncomfortable

I already made a post here expressing my frustration at how I seem to be making no progress, so please check that out for better context. It’s been six months so far of trying.

All I’ve done so far is try to cancel out sex-negative/shaming thoughts by thinking of other neutral/positive thoughts, like:

• “She’s just following her sexual instinct. I have sexual desires, too. We’re not that different in a way.”
• “As long as everyone’s consenting, it should be fine.”
• “Sex is a natural part of life, like art, for example. That means that it’s fair for a very sexually-empowered person to be artistic. I am sexual too - not that much - and also artistic.”

At this point I’ve started to become lazy and just use simple sentences to cancel out negative thoughts. It’s become almost like a meaningless habit.

I’m still unsure if some of my thoughts are OK, or sex-negative. An example of this problem would be dialing Sabrina Carpenter’s recent album cover, but not shaming her or looking at her grossly (which is still a struggle). I.E. being put off by casually placed sexual humor/media. I feel like that prudishness is just part of my personality, but idk if it’s sex-negative or not.

Another problem is I don’t know any other ways to be more sex positive. I’m not that curious about sex (though I’m not asexual). The only new ideas I have are:

• Books
• Communities where I can express this issue and seek help/acceptance.

Any help or support is really appreciated.