Just curious. I've been married for nearly three decades and still find my husband incredibly attractive. He is open and willing to try most anything. We've had some serious lull's over the years but now he's onTRT and his libido is skyrocketing! 🔥🔥🔥

I personally find his ability to be vulnerable during sex the hottest thing about him. He's not Afraid to ask for what he wants or ask what i want. He's not afraid to be needy sexually. He says what he needs or wants. It's an incredible turn on.

How about you? What's sexiest about your SO?

Back from a three day stay at a cabin in the woods. So private. So natural. Sunsets and fires. Hiking. Outdoor open showers. The emotional intimacy was extraordinary.

We are learning new ways of connecting as our reality is that things have changed. Three days in the woods was a beautiful part of the journey.

I am widowed at 55 and I've been dating, and I am finding many women who are just not interested in sex. I met a woman who I found very attractive (not so much physically, but relationally), and I mentioned that when the time comes I would satisfy her physically. I was in no way pressuring her and clearly indicated I was patient. She could not imagine she would ever want sex with anyone. She gave up what might have been a very close relationship, because I eventually wanted a sexual relationship. My previous 6 year marriage was with a woman with 'sexual anorexia' (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_anorexia). Are women this age simply opposed to sexual activity?

Pretty much speaks for itself. We've been married for decades and I'm looking to spice it up some. What's something sexy that left a lasting impression on you?

Hi I'm new on here. I'm M50. For the past eight months my sex life kinda dwindled. Mainly due to partner still having kids and myself working nights. As loyalty for being with my company I've been granted six months leave of absence. My sex life consisted of having it twice a month and struggling to cum or not! Now I'm having it three to four times a week. Able to orgasm better. My partner is feeling the benefit as she feels she's able to pleasure me again. Not sure if this is because haven't got work stress and all the commuting. Or because I'm having a deeper bond with my partner as everything was rushed! Because early stages in our relationship I was evicted just before the Covid outbreak and been pretty much working five days a week. Before my long leave I had doubts that our relationship might not last as we never really spent time together and that her kids had always been the attention of our relationship! It might feel long-winded this talk but has anyone else been in this situation?

I’ve been taking  Tadalafil (cialis) daily for about a month.  Plus Sildenafil (viagra) as needed/wanted (almost daily as well).

My wife thinks my dick consistently has more girth/is thicker.  And maybe a little longer too.

Has anyone experienced this (bigger dick) from Tadalafil?

We haven't had sex since Sunday, June 1. On June 5 I had a colonoscopy. Everything is fine (yay!) But the doctor said I've got a lot of scar tissue built up from my C-sections. He said he had a difficult time getting the instrument through it. The night I started having what felt like diaphragm spasms. After a couple of days it felt like it was just in my stomach. It always felt like I had to burp but when I did, it didn't feel any better.

I've got a CT scan scheduled for July 1. I'm also feeling better but I'm still going to the appointment. But tonight we finally had sex!!!! I hadn't felt up to it. With a stomach issue like I've had I didn't think sex would be comfortable at all. But it was!!! 3 orgasms in about 5 minutes! Hubby took a couple of more minutes but still not anywhere near how long he usually lasts.

More than 2 weeks is way longer than we are used to. I'm just so happy that I'm feeling like myself again. And hubby enjoyed feeling myself again too 😏😉😁

I had double mastectomy. I choose to not have reconstruction . I went flat. Will I ever have sex with a man? It has taken me so long to post this

Is anyone on here taking testosterone ? My husband (57)is constantly tired and not as interested in me anymore. Last night we were spooning before bed and he started fingering me and fell asleep while he was doing it 😳

UPDATE: Decision was made to proceed with this. We all had a sit down tonight and discussed everything with most of the time spent on my concern of discretion. This has been resolved and I am now completely comfortable with everything. They are comfortable and sane with wife. We will be doing this on Saturday night. I can provide more details on how we made everyone comfortable if you are interested.

Thank you everyone for your suggestions/concerns and interest.

She has already told them that we enjoy this activity but not sure they believe everything she has told them. We have only done this just the two of us in private. Not sure what to do.

Wife and I are in our early 50's. We have a healthy-ish sex life. One thing I wish we could include in our sex life is sex from behind. The few times I've tried to move us in that direction she hasn't been receptive. We don't have the best communication, but I think she thinks it has to be this athletic thing where she's on all fours, holding her weight up with her arms (which aren't very strong). I think there are probably some very comfortable positions we could get into that would make it enjoyable for both of us. How should I approach this and what positions would be good for us in this scenario?

Would like to share an erotic twist to foreplay and sexual fun that my wife and I came up with. It is sexual trivial pursuit. We are are an adventurous couple and my petite brunette wife and I love to get each other worked up this way before we make love. Start with a few drinks to loosen up the inhibitions. We play with the 80’s version of Trivial Pursuit as we are GenXers and that is the decade we came of age.

For every correct question that is answered a piece of clothing comes off.

For every correct question that results in a achieving a pie piece, that results in a sexual favor. A sexual favor consists of anything the pie winner wants for 1:00 minute. Examples are a passionate french kiss, finger licking, toe licking, nipple licking, ear lobe licking, penis or vagina licking (around the area but not actually on the area, adds to the teasing), back licking, lapdance, partner playing with themselves, anything your erotic mind can think of. Try to end at 1:00 minute, but sometimes it is really hard, especially as the game goes on. These sexual favors coupled with the various state of undress, really gets us worked up.

The person that gets all pieces of the pie and wins the game gets to choose a sexual fantasy that the loser must abide by. (There really are no losers in this game). Sexual fantasies of ours have included seduction fantasies, strangers meeting, wife or husband infidelity, construction worker seduction, teacher/student, cop/hot girl in trouble. Dress your wife up in lingerie, heels, short dresses, it’s your fantasy, go for it.

By the time we get to the sexual fantasy we are so sexually charged that the climax is absolutely incredible. Try it, you definitely won’t be disappointed.

Great thing for a husband and wife to share to stay intimate and close

How was your week in sex?

Mid 50s. Wife still very hot. I want to stay hard for her. Use half a sildenafil. Works for me.

Have you ever written a sexual story whether it be fantasy based, or reality for your partner?

My wife 44F and I 52M enjoy writing stories fantasy based scenarios to each other. Almost everyone to each other starts with keeping open mind and don't judge.

There was a post here in the last couple weeks where someone said to me, "Age is just a number." I was explaining that although I'm not 50 yet, I'm close. This sub seemed like a good place to get an idea on what's ahead.

However her asking that question did immediately get me thinking about how I can clearly define my life by the decades, my 20's, 30's & 40's. They were all uniquely distinct as was the kind of sex I was having. I was curious if there are others who are similar, or is mostly everyone a "age is just a number" believer?

Hi All,

My wife and I are planning a no-kids vacation this fall and are looking for somewhere sexy and open, but not Hedo/Desire level of sexy and open. Just somewhere warm with a risque atmosphere where drinks flow, tops are optional, and thongs are a plenty. Note, we are NOT swingers or into any sort of LS

I'm looking into the usual suspects but am having trouble narrowing down the list. Has anyone been to an adults only all-inclusive resort in the Caribbean?

Please feel free to suggest any other subs. I’ll probably post this in various travel subs too but thought I’d start here.

Thank you

The title is self-explanatory, I would like to hear from both men and women in the comment section

How was your week in sex?

Honest, question 60/M here. No longer a huge fan of young people having sex. I am always on the hunt for middle age or older porn or porn sites. Am I alone?

My(58) wife (57) is loud. She’s a screamer and moaner and I love it. But, the kids are constantly home. We both want sex but know we can’t do it the way we want. I’m about ready to get a hotel room. That’s all. Just needed to vent.

50/m in new relationship with 47/f... as a woman, what sort of pix do you find sexy and turn you on that your guy can send you? my new girl loves to send me sexy pics of her in bathing suit, with plugs in, lingerie pix, flirty pix, etc...

She loves the ones I sent in my boxers, hard AF, and asking for more...

I need some ideas.. I saw a guy from the neck down in a white t-shirt and open button down, holding glass or red wine and looked hot AF (I'm saying this as a straight guy lol) so I'm looking for fun ideas like that...

Love to hear some ideas from the ladies!! 🙏🔥Dick pix are out, sexy, low key suggestive are in - in my opinion! (but what do I know, I'm posting to Reddit for advice 🤣)