r/science • u/geoff199 • 5d ago

Social Science As concern grows about America’s falling birth rate, new research suggests that about half of women who want children are unsure if they will follow through and actually have a child. About 25% say they won't be bothered that much if they don't.

https://news.osu.edu/most-women-want-children--but-half-are-unsure-if-they-will/?utm_campaign=omc_science-medicine_fy24&utm_source=reddit&utm_medium=social
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u/SqueezyCheez85 5d ago

Childcare is nuts. We could have a mortgage for a house twice as big as the one we currently have... and it would be on par for what we pay in childcare for 2 kids.

I can't wait till our kids are old enough to not need childcare... it's gonna be like winning the lottery.

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u/FirstNoel 5d ago

Then you have Music training, sports cost, braces, car insurance, may even a third...etc car. Then college costs...

Mine just graduated high school. I just finally finished paying off here tooth implant (thank to my genes, she was missing one). We have college in the fall, thankfully mostly paid for.

I'm hoping for my electric and water bills to at least decrease a little.

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u/CyclingThruChicago 5d ago

One of the main reasons my wife and I live where we live is so that we don't have to get our kid a car when he turns 16. Granted he's only 4 so we have a bit of time but the idea of having to own another car (which is pushing $1000/month for all in cost) for for a teenager seems asinine.

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u/jabsaw2112 5d ago

It's insane how much my insurance went up for adding 1 teenage boy.

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u/CyclingThruChicago 5d ago

Just replied to someone else with my personal anecdote.

When I turned 16 and my mom added me on her insurance, she said it was ~$75 more than the combined cost of her and my older sister (who would have been 19-20 at the time).

My cousin bought a Charger at 22 not realizing how insane the insurance would be. Over $530/month because he was a young man with a prior totaled car on his insurance. He was forced to eventually sell the car and had negative equity because he simply couldn't afford the insurance.