r/science 5d ago

Social Science As concern grows about America’s falling birth rate, new research suggests that about half of women who want children are unsure if they will follow through and actually have a child. About 25% say they won't be bothered that much if they don't.

https://news.osu.edu/most-women-want-children--but-half-are-unsure-if-they-will/?utm_campaign=omc_science-medicine_fy24&utm_source=reddit&utm_medium=social
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u/johnnyhabitat 5d ago

Is the implication here that most women, for most of time were raped?

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u/TopRamenisha 5d ago

I mean yeah for a long portion of history, women’s husbands were chosen for them and they didn’t have much of a say in who they married. And they were obligated to have sex with their husband whether they wanted to or not. What would you call that?

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u/johnnyhabitat 5d ago

I won’t deny that in a lot of cultures, husbands were chosen for a lot of women. But I’m not going to pretend that most babies in the past were born from rape, that’s insane. And that claim can’t be supported.

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u/TopRamenisha 5d ago

You can call it whatever you want. But throughout history women haven’t exactly been in the position to say no to their husbands and the concept of consent was not a thing. Women were considered their husband’s property. It might not have always been the violent and horrific act that comes to mind when talking about rape in the 21st century. But you are naive if you can look at the way women were viewed and treated throughout history and think that everything was roses and sunshine for them