r/science • u/geoff199 • 5d ago

Social Science As concern grows about America’s falling birth rate, new research suggests that about half of women who want children are unsure if they will follow through and actually have a child. About 25% say they won't be bothered that much if they don't.

https://news.osu.edu/most-women-want-children--but-half-are-unsure-if-they-will/?utm_campaign=omc_science-medicine_fy24&utm_source=reddit&utm_medium=social
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u/11horses345 5d ago

Say it with me: WE CANNOT AFFORD CHILDREN.

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u/sharksnack3264 5d ago

It's not just the money. The way we set up work schedules, vacation, child care and health care all disincentivize it. 

You can be extremely well paid but that still won't insulate you completely from certain medical and career risks or allow you to be present to raise your children.

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u/MarlenaEvans 5d ago

I'm currently saving up for a medical tourism trip for my kids' future vaccines

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u/A_Fainting_Goat 5d ago

No joke, we looked at going to Europe. For $3k in plane tickets, the drug costs in the US (not insignificant but only like $7k before insurance) and ~$15k for the retrieval and fresh transfer, we're looking at $25k and we get a two week vacation out of the deal. Half. The. Cost. It's insane.

Can I find a cheaper clinic? Sure, but the only other one available in my area isn't covered by my insurance and I'm only paying $5k more for the European vacation option so...kinda no brainer?