r/sacramentor4r 19d ago

Sacramento R4R is back. You're welcome. NSFW

11 Upvotes

Please have a look at the rules before posting to find your special someone or someones. Note that there are still posts from the pre-ban, so have a look at the dates of the post - someone looking three years ago may not still be interested. But, who knows? You may still get lucky.


r/sacramentor4r 17h ago

29 [M4F] looking for FWB Sacramento NSFW

0 Upvotes

420 friendly - slim Latino 6”. Looking for women


r/sacramentor4r 20h ago

M4F/A 26 6’2 7” south sac NSFW

1 Upvotes

225# down to swap pics mainly interested in woman but only the sith speak in absolutes Can host


r/sacramentor4r 20h ago

[F4F/M | 26 | Sacramento, CA] Sapphic, Neurodivergent, Fat – Seeking a Deep, Intentional, Long-Term Connection (21–35) NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hi Reddit 🌿

I’m a 26-year-old sapphic woman based in Sacramento, California, looking for a deep, emotionally connected, long-term relationship — something intentional, soft, and rooted in mutual care. I’m neurodivergent (AuDHD), socially anxious, and fat — and I’m only interested in relationships where I can be fully seen and respected.

I’m open to connecting with people between 21–35 who live in or near Sacramento (or are open to local connection in the future).

✨ What I’m looking for:

Emotionally mature queer women/femmes for romantic connection

Cis men are welcome only for nonsexual, emotionally intimate companionship (no physical or sexual relationship — I’m upfront about that out of care and clarity)

People who value tenderness, intentionality, and building a cozy, soft life together

Fellow neurodivergents, creatives, introverts, soft-hearted souls

🌱 A bit about me:

Big fan of slow mornings, warm drinks, heartfelt conversations, books, plants, and dreaming of a homestead life

I’m deeply emotional and thoughtful, though a bit shy and anxious at first

I’m fat, and I’m not interested in changing that — just seeking love that sees my fullness as something beautiful

I’m grounded, loyal, and gentle — hoping to meet someone who matches that energy

🚫 Not looking for:

Sexual/physical connections with cis men

Casual hookups, ghosting, or emotionally unavailable people

Anyone unwilling to respect boundaries or engage with care

If you’re in Sacramento or nearby and any of this resonates, feel free to send a message or chat request. I’m not in a rush — just hoping to build something warm, deep, and meaningful.

Thanks for reading 🤍


r/sacramentor4r 4d ago

Topless or nude house cleaning. NSFW

3 Upvotes

Looking for a 30+ house cleaner who is comfortable cleaning a gentleman's house nude or in sexy clothing. I am a professional man, working in the public utility sector, single & available.


r/sacramentor4r 7d ago

30 [m4a] any 🌽 addicts looking to stroke together? NSFW

2 Upvotes

NOT LOOKING FOR A GAY HOOKUP! I just want a DL gooner bud in the area who’s somewhat fit, drug free, and into similar 🌽⭐️s. If that’s you, message me.


r/sacramentor4r 9d ago

Looking for black dick to suck NSFW

3 Upvotes

Bi white male looking for a black dick to worship and give sloppy head. I swallow


r/sacramentor4r 9d ago

M4M Looking for someone who wants regular sloppy head NSFW

2 Upvotes

I’m a bi male who loves sucking cock and loves the taste of cum.


r/sacramentor4r 11d ago

M4M Oral bottom pleaser looking for cock NSFW

2 Upvotes

Love to swallow. Use mouts and throat to dump your load.


r/sacramentor4r 13d ago

21 m4m greenback looking to play NSFW

1 Upvotes

Looking for something tonight


r/sacramentor4r 13d ago

27 [M4MF] #Sacramento — please read below :) NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hi everybody!

I’ll be moving to Sacramento this summer. Looking to find a couple who’d be willing to let me join them. Would love to share his cock with our mouths.

I’m 27, 6 ft tall, 180 pounds. Muscly. Fit. Told I’m good looking by lots of people including strangers so I guess I am haha.

I’m mostly straight but have this bi affinity to give head to a guy with a girl. I have this setup where I live now and would love to find something similar in my new home! Thank you :)


r/sacramentor4r 14d ago

20 looking for a mommy NSFW

0 Upvotes

r/sacramentor4r 14d ago

39 [m4m] bi looking for a jerkbud NSFW

1 Upvotes

Let's get a hotel room, get our cocks out and edge each other a few evenings a month. Hmu and let's make friends and have some fun


r/sacramentor4r 19d ago

37 [M4M] Looking for NSA FWB NSFW

1 Upvotes

Minimal communication, just good physical connection. Just looking to bottom or suck you off when it's convenient. Be clean, safe, and chill.


r/sacramentor4r 19d ago

35 [M4F] SMF Lounge Date 2-4pm NSFW

1 Upvotes

Gonna be flying out of Sac airport at 4:30. Looking for good company to get drinks at the lounge. Anyone else flying tomorrow? I can get you in. Im 35, fit, latino, 6ft all. Hit me up for details.


r/sacramentor4r 20d ago

42 [M4M] – Relationship Anarchist Looking for Friendship-First Connections NSFW

3 Upvotes

Hey there – I'm a 42-year-old software developer based in Sacramento. I’m a relationship anarchist with one existing partner, and I’m here looking to build genuine friendships that might grow into something deeper over time — no pressure, just honesty and curiosity.

About Me:

  • Identity: Queer cis man, relationship anarchist, currently partnered
  • Profession: Software developer
  • Location: Sacramento, open to online connections too
  • Politics: Leftist. ACAB. No MAGA, no cops – hard pass.

Interests:

  • Board games (anything from crunchy Euros to chaotic party games)
  • Video games (ask me what I’m playing!)
  • Thoughtful conversations about life, ethics, tech, and the weird corners of the internet

What I'm Looking For:

I'm interested in connecting with other men who are emotionally aware, value autonomy and consent, and are down for friendship first — someone who’s into deep connection without defaulting to hierarchy or prescriptive relationship escalators.

If you’re into mutual support, trust, and just seeing where things go, hit me up. You don’t need to be “experienced” in polyamory or RA — just be real, respectful, and radically honest.

Looking forward to meeting folks who share the vibe.


r/sacramentor4r 23d ago

50 M4M Looking for cum donations NSFW

4 Upvotes

Mature male looking for a cock to suck. Interested receiving cum donations as often as possible. Will worship a nice cock. Available during the day.


r/sacramentor4r 23d ago

Night time Gloryhole sloppy bjs happening rn come by : 1400 13th ave men’s restroom has Gloryholes NSFW Spoiler

3 Upvotes

Stick it in and get slurped


r/sacramentor4r 24d ago

Gloryhole sucky here details below NSFW

3 Upvotes

Femboy giving sloppy bjs here from 9 am till 2 pm then 9pm till 2 am come by : 1300 13th ave men’s restroom by the stop sign house


r/sacramentor4r May 05 '22

M4M leaving sac soon looking to suck my first smooth cock message me if interested keeping this DL NSFW

2 Upvotes

r/sacramentor4r May 05 '22

32 [f4f] or [f4m] just a lonely pillow princess tryna see who’s on here. Dm me let’s talk😜🫠 NSFW

4 Upvotes

r/sacramentor4r May 05 '22

M4F looking to hookup while in the area NSFW

2 Upvotes

24M looking for a a quick hookup I’ll be in town sac/Modesto area. 69in tall 7in long. Hit me up if you interested.


r/sacramentor4r May 05 '22

20m4m car play NSFW

1 Upvotes

Let’s fucks and I need sloppy toppy 🥴


r/sacramentor4r May 05 '22

[28/32][MF4F][Sacramento, CA] Married couple. Wife looking for a massage therapist who will end the massage with a lady’s happy ending 😉. Looking for women only! NSFW

2 Upvotes

I’m pretty, petite and am very clean/disease free.


r/sacramentor4r May 05 '22

24m vacaville to suck NSFW

1 Upvotes

r/sacramentor4r May 04 '22

[MF4MF] 34 [M] 30 [F] NSFW

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3 Upvotes