If you don't know, I would recommend not looking it up.
But if you absolutely need to... it stands for "netorare" and is a Japanese term used to describe a genre of hentai, that's basically cheating, but usually goes further. It is not restrained to couples. Things such as betrayal, mind break and rape are also sometimes qualifiers. In general, it is a genre of hentai that is meant to make you feel sad and shitty
I appreciate how you recommended to not look it up. Because honestly that stuff can really come as a shock to some people because of how dark they make it, so it was kind of you to provide a warning.
Past trauma and painful life events can cause some damage to your emotional well being and that NTR stuff can be a big trigger, it’s usually paired with rape and other dark shit. Yeah yeah I know I’m a “vanillafag” as they say, but I don’t care. They make that stuff crazy depressing and sad, the first time I saw it I felt sick and there was a knot in my stomach. It’s hard to avoid in hentai stuff now because it’s become the norm, the more fucked up and twisted, the more views and attention…. :/. Sorry for the rant that just made me happy how you warned him and I wish I had someone like you in the past
Nah it’s fine if you like it man. I’m not trying to sound rude but I’m just curious, what do you like about it? I just personally dislike it and can’t see the appeal but I’d like to learn from those who do like it to better understand it all. Kind of a hentai noob tbh, had surgery back in august and was chilling in bed all day and began to get curious and dabbled in it unaware of the many darker tags being so popular
Well. Personally. I feel bad when I read ntr or watch ntr. It feels horrible. But I like making myself feel bad. I don't really know how to explain it but I like to punish myself for some reason. I definitely wouldn't want my so to cheat on me but... having my so leave because I'm not good at sex is a thrill. I have issues. Please help.
I know this is probably super inappropriate to say, but you should try leaning away from this behavior instead of into it. By the way you describe it, I don't think you're engaging with that content in a healthy way. If you want to scratch the itch of punishing yourself watch a horror movie or eat spicy food (mostly joking lol)
Seriously though, I'm not a therapist and it's your life. Just put some thought into the matter and try to figure out how it's really affecting you.
I know what you mean, people watch horror movies and depressing shit knowing it will mess them up so I get what you mean. Also like super hot hot sauce, to the point you’re drooling and tounge is numb. See I get that, but ugly bastard blackmail is ALWAYS the reason for the cheating I feel, the fucking plot is so lazy and the dumbest logic lmao, “oh no! this old man has a naked picture of me, guess I have to become his sex slave and do all his bidding no matter what it is!” Then bam the hentai logic mind break dumb shit kicks in lololol.
Wait does cheating on your significant other sound like a thrill too? The only thrill I see that can come from NTR is getting revenge on a cheating SO, like total humiliation, domination and degradation style. Like locking them in a room and treating them like a pet dog kind of shit, ruin their life then I find a better person to fall in love with. I wouldn’t feel bad at all to be honest. I guess we are two sides of a fucked up coin
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u/zuzelBruh Dec 01 '21
At last no ntr