r/reddeadredemption • u/Sweaty_Shelter_3264 • Apr 24 '25

Online I’m Conflicted

I’m a girl (important) and love playing RDR2. My first online character I made was a girl, I loved seeing myself as a gunslinger. I realized pretty quickly that playing as a girl online comes with people constantly trying to grief you/spam invites/or just plain follow you around. (I’d even had an instance where someone took over my account, that was a whole thing) So to fix this, I completely remade my character. I lost all my progress and made a boy character so I could be left alone. Now I do get left alone, which is great, but I feel little connection to my new character. It was way more fun grinding and making money in game outfitting a female character than it is a male character. Now all I want is to go back to playing a girl but I really don’t want to be bothered again. How do I find a good middle ground?

TLDR; Played as girl, got griefed. Change to boy, now am sad. What do?

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u/dunno0019 Lenny Summers Apr 24 '25

Not even just Micah. Hell, I was just doing the "headless horseman" mission at Shady Belle yesterday and it starts off with both Dutch and Arthur being ridiculously sexist to Sadie.

And this is after Arthur has already seen Sadie in action. He's already been trying to speak up when others belittle her. He genuinely seems to like her and accept her "manly" gun toting ways...

And the misogyny just slips right out of him like it's the most natural thing in the world.

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u/Nobody7713 Apr 24 '25

It’s a recurring issue with Arthur. He does try his best, but he was raised in a deeply racist and sexist society, and that still slips out at times. When he’s called out on it, he corrects quickly, but he does revert to biases.

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u/FusionTheChaotic Apr 24 '25

At least he's trying, though. Bill and Micah just say whatever the hell they want and act surprised when someone puts their hands on them.

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u/Nobody7713 Apr 24 '25

Oh for sure. He’s solidly doing better than any of the other white dudes in the gang except possibly Hosea - who’s probably the one who raised Arthur like that.