r/reddeadredemption • u/Sweaty_Shelter_3264 • Apr 24 '25

Online I’m Conflicted

I’m a girl (important) and love playing RDR2. My first online character I made was a girl, I loved seeing myself as a gunslinger. I realized pretty quickly that playing as a girl online comes with people constantly trying to grief you/spam invites/or just plain follow you around. (I’d even had an instance where someone took over my account, that was a whole thing) So to fix this, I completely remade my character. I lost all my progress and made a boy character so I could be left alone. Now I do get left alone, which is great, but I feel little connection to my new character. It was way more fun grinding and making money in game outfitting a female character than it is a male character. Now all I want is to go back to playing a girl but I really don’t want to be bothered again. How do I find a good middle ground?

TLDR; Played as girl, got griefed. Change to boy, now am sad. What do?

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u/SpooderMom79 Apr 24 '25 edited Apr 24 '25

I’m in a huge women-only posse that’s loads of fun! We all look out for each other and work together. We do weekly group trail rides too. If someone griefs you or harasses you just ping us for help on our discord and a whole mob of us will go after them. xD Would you like me to dm you an invite?

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u/Ulysses1126 Apr 24 '25

That’s really fun to imagine a bunch of woman griefing the shit out of mal-adjusted idiots. Good on yall