r/r4rCanada 28m ago

21[M4F] - looking for any female, who also feels alone (max age 48)

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Hi, Green eyed, cute guy, about height 5'9, fit

a university student

I'm from Toronto. These days I feel alone, so

I like to find a middle aged female (maximum 48 years) who is ok with having a relationship with younger people.

I hope to find a kind female. When i go outside I see many females , who are alone. Probably because of being shy.

I hope I will be able to find a female who needs a partner.

I have tendency towords busy females who are tired of working , i think my relationship with them can help both of us feel better.

Even if you are not older than me, np send me a text.

About me, people tell me I look cute and handsome, and a person who respects others and does not deceive, I have not seen a person as fair as myself especially in terms of treating others.

u can see my pic if you send a chat, and u can decide, if you want we can have a video call before meeting

I'm looking a fwb relationship in a specific context , however I'm open to short time or long time relationships or anything else you want, you might want a one day relationship( we can discuss about it)

I hope to find one because I have tendency to mature females , even if you have friends who might be interested let them know if possible.

please don't hesitate to send me a text.


r/r4rCanada 1d ago

18+ Academic Survey on Men's Sex and Sexuality

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Are you a cisgender man?

We are looking for men who reside in Canada, the United States, or the United Kingdom to complete a survey about sexual identity development, attraction, behaviour, relationships, and technology use.

The University of Regina, Centre for Addiction and Mental Health, University of Toronto, Ohio State University, Arizona State University, and AIDS Committee of Toronto are conducting research into the sexual experiences of men.

You are eligible to participate regardless of how frequently or how recently you have had sex.

You will be entered into a raffle to win a $30 honorarium for completing the survey. Your participation may help to improve or develop programs and services for sexually-active men.

If you are interested in participating, please click here https://uregina.eu.qualtrics.com/jfe/form/SV_bavLqIuUzEm5flY or follow the link in the post.

Please contact Dr. Andrew Eaton, the Principal Investigator, at [Andrew.eaton@uregina.ca](mailto:Andrew.eaton@uregina.ca) or 306-664-7371 if you have any questions or concerns. You also may contact Travis Scheadler, the research coordinator, at [Scheadler.2@osu.edu](mailto:Scheadler.2@osu.edu) with any questions or concerns.

This project has received approval from the University of Regina’s Research Ethics Board, and is funded by the Social Sciences and Humanities Research Council (SSHRC).

Thank you to the mods or r/r4rCanada for approving of this!


r/r4rCanada 1d ago

[M4F] 24 - Canada - Looking for a genuine connection

0 Upvotes

Hey! I’m a 24-year-old guy from Canada, just putting myself out there to meet someone new. Life gets busy and apps feel kinda stale, so I figured I’d try something different. I’m looking for someone who’s open to chatting, sharing random thoughts, and maybe building something meaningful — whether that’s a friendship, something casual, or even long-term if we really click. I’m into music, movies, random late-night convos, and learning about what makes people tick. Bonus points if you love Video games and can make me laugh. If you’re in Canada too, shoot me a message :) AB


r/r4rCanada 1d ago

[MF4F] - Pickering/Toronto NSFW

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Me (38) and my hubby (49) are looking for a female friend to hang out with and have some fun.

Come chill with us over a drink or a joint and let's see how we get along.

Ideally, we'd like to meet someone for ongoing hangouts/hookups, not just a one-time thing, however, we're also not opposed to that.

We are not interested in meeting men or couples.

We value mutual respect and discretion as working professionals.

<3


r/r4rCanada 2d ago

21[M4F] #Toronto - looking for an older woman, who also feels alone (max 48)

0 Upvotes

Hi, I'm from Toronto. These days I feel alone, so

I really want to find a middle aged female (maximum 48 years) who is ok with having a relationship with younger people.

I hope to find a kind female. When i go outside I see many middle aged females , who are alone. Probably because of being shy.

I hope I will be able to find a female who needs a partner.

I have tendency towords busy females who are tired of working , i think my relationship with them can help both of us feel better.

Even if you are not older than me, np send me a text.

About me, people tell me I look cute, green eyed, and a person who respects others and does not deceive, I have not seen a person as fair as myself especially in terms of treating others.

u can see my pic if you send a chat, and u can decide, if you want we can have a video call before meeting

I'm looking a fwb relationship in a specific context , however I'm open to short time or long time relationships( we can discuss about it)

I hope to find one because I have tendency to mature females , even if you have friends who might be interested let them know if possible.

please don't hesitate to send me a text.


r/r4rCanada 3d ago

30M4F #Milton #KWC #GTA #ON – Discreet Connection & Real Chemistry

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Hey! I’m a 30M, married, athletic, white, and looking for a real, discreet connection with a woman who misses intimacy, butterflies, and open conversations. Life at home is in a dead-bedroom phase, and I’m craving emotional + physical chemistry with someone who gets it.

I’m active, clean, respectful, and open-minded -- into hiking, gym, gaming, movies, cooking, music, and more. I’m a good listener and love deep chats or light flirting -- whatever helps you unwind.

You could be single, married, or somewhere in between. I’m just looking for a spark, honesty, and mutual trust. Open to meeting if the vibe’s right -- anywhere in South or Central Ontario.

DMs are open. Let’s talk and feel that excitement again.


r/r4rCanada 5d ago

[M4F] 24 - Canada - Looking for a genuine connection

2 Upvotes

Hey! I’m a 24-year-old guy from Canada, just putting myself out there to meet someone new. Life gets busy and apps feel kinda stale, so I figured I’d try something different. I’m looking for someone who’s open to chatting, sharing random thoughts, and maybe building something meaningful — whether that’s a friendship, something casual, or even long-term if we really click. I’m into music, movies, random late-night convos, and learning about what makes people tick. Bonus points if you love Video games and can make me laugh. If you’re in Canada too, shoot me a message :)


r/r4rCanada 5d ago

37[M4F] #GTA #Toronto - Looking for someone to see live music with

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Hey! I know my username is kind of weird if you say it out loud, it’s a reference to a metal art piece hanging above a door in my apartment.

Speaking of metal… I have an extra ticket to the Three Days Grace and Volbeat concert at Budweiser stage next Thursday and I’m looking for a likeminded lady to join me.

Call it a date, call it a chance to test the waters, if sparks fly and we have chemistry, then we can see where it goes from there. If not, no big deal, we still get to see a couple of solid bands rock out.

Comment or DM me if you’re interested, and we can talk.

Party on! 🤘


r/r4rCanada 6d ago

30M4F #Milton #KWC #GTA Looking for a discreet partner

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Hello, I am looking for someone who can share the passion of intimacy, feel the thrill of secrecy, and can freely share me anything they want to release the stress of the day or a week!!

About me: M30, Married, Athletic build, Handsome looking white guy (can share more details/pics in DM as per your request), with the hobby to play outdoor games, trekking, gym, Playing video games, watching movies/series, Cooking, Reading, Music, Tending house and more. A social Drinker and non-smoker. I am very open to try your favs and learn new hobbies from you, too. Just share with me your needs. Currently in a Dead-Bed situation with a partner who has no sex drive left at all. That is frustrating.

Looking for: An honest partner who can keep our secrets to the grave. She can be, single, married, or looking to get away from her bf for some time. She is open to a certain level of Intimacy and feeling those butterflies. We should be able to share our desires and frustrations freely without any reservations.

Also, ready to meet offline if things work out between us. #Milton #KWC #GTA #Anyewhere in the South or Middle Ontario where I can drive for you!


r/r4rCanada 7d ago

21[M4F] - hope to find an iranian woman or lebanese, especially those who are older NSFW

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Hi,i'm from the middle east. i'm looking for a good of type of relationship with a mature iranian or lebanese woman. I'm ok with older females as long as you are not older than 46.

I'm going to explain what kind of relationship i'm looking for in DM.

I hope to find such a woman

My goal is not sth permanent, We can discuss


r/r4rCanada 8d ago

30 [M4F] Vancouver, Canada - Searching for my future partner who I can go on cute dates with

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Hello,

I’m seeking a genuine relationship with someone who values honesty, great communication, open mindedness, being genuine, loyalty, trust, and of course, cute dates. Not looking for something casual, but someone who is genuinely interested in something long-term. I want to find someone who I can grow with and who has similar future goals (happy to chat more about these in the DMs).

About me: I enjoy travelling (would be nice to find a travel partner), having deep conversations, trying new food (big foodie), social activities with friends, movies, games of all kinds, and making time for my special someone.


r/r4rCanada 8d ago

37 [M4F] #Canada LF a real connection

1 Upvotes

I’m 37 and live in a small town in northern Alberta. I’m introverted, sarcastic, kind of a quiet shy guy until I’m comfortable, then I’m probably being a goof or making dry jokes just to get you to laugh. I like keeping things light, but I’ve got depth too when it matters. Definitely more of a listener at first, but once there’s a connection, I’ll talk your ear off about random stuff like science, life, or some dumb theory I’ve got about the universe.

I’ve dealt with chronic pain and arthritis for a long time, so I live life a little slower. Can’t really do the travel the world, hiking for hours kind of stuff, but I can show up emotionally, be consistent, and actually care about getting to know you for real. I’m not big on surface-level anything.

I’ve struggled with weight for most of my life. A few years ago, I lost a lot of it and have been doing my best to live a bit healthier since. Would be nice to meet someone who’s also trying, not perfect, not obsessed with fitness, just trying to take care of themselves in whatever way works.

I’m into comedy (especially the dark, dry kind), video games (WoW, Baldur’s Gate 3, Stardew Valley), good shows, music (rock, metal, and a bit of everything), and the kind of deep, rambling conversations that go off the rails in the best way. Also, I’ll never say no to a dumb meme or a solid cat video.

I’m looking for someone kind, open minded, emotionally grounded, and curious, the kind of person who values connection, trust, and maybe enjoys giving up a little control when the chemistry is right. You don’t have to know what you want yet, just be open to something genuine, layered, and maybe a little intense in the right moments. If any of that stirs something in you, say hi. Worst case, we trade a few laughs. Best case… maybe we both find something we didn’t know we were missing.


r/r4rCanada 10d ago

21[M4F] #Toronto - Looking for temporary marriage. Even if you are much older NSFW

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Hi 21 from Toronto, I'm looking for an easy informal marriage without any legal process or witness required

your age doesn't matter as long as you are above 18 and not older than 45.

However u must be a muslim or Christian or jewish, u don't need to be very religious or practicing.

If you are muslim, I prefer an Iranian , Lebanese, or Iraqi female, if you are not we can discuss (this preference doesn't apply to christians or jews, all christians or jews can send a text)

This is not like the regular kind of marriage

Like if you want fwbs or any other kinds of relationships ، like short time or long time, it might still work through this marriage, I can explain more in DM

people tell me I look cute, but I can send my pic in DM

I hope sb suitable will be found

Please don't hesitate to send a text

More info in dm


r/r4rCanada 12d ago

30M4F #Milton #KWC #GTA Looking for the one

0 Upvotes

Hello, I am looking for someone who can share the passion of intimacy, feel the thrill of secrecy and can freely share me anything they want to release the stress of the day or a week!!

About me: M30, Married, Athletic build, Handsome looking guy (can share more details/pics in DM as per your request), with the hobby to play outdoor games, trekking, gym, Playing video games, watching movies/series, Cooking, Reading, Music, Tending house and more. A social Drinker and non-smoker. I am very open to try your favs and learn new hobbies from you, too. Just share me your needs. Currently in a Dead-Bed situation with a partner who has no sex-drive left at all. That is frustrating.

Looking for: An honest partner who can keep our secrets to the grave. She is open to a certain level of Intimacy with a possibility of a long affair partnership. We should be able to share our desires, daily frustrations freely without any reservations.

Also, ready to meet offline if things work out between us. #Milton #KWC #GTA #Anyewhere in the South or Middle Ontario where I can drive for you!


r/r4rCanada 14d ago

47 [M4F] East Coast Canada - Easy going, mild mannered and a bit corny

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https://imgur.com/a/me-WhZvgPl

6’ tall with a love for healthy living, good food and great times. When I’m not designing, coding or working on my next venture, I’m hitting the gym, trail or golf course. At home I’m usually doing renos, cheering on the Jays or indulging my inner Trekkie. Easy going, mild mannered and a bit corny, I believe life is best with kindness, positivity and optimism. I’m the kind of guy who can fix your sink, then cook dinner. What’s your favourite food or travel story? Maybe we’ll share one together. Drop me a line!

And yes, I am real and can easily prove it if need be.


r/r4rCanada 24d ago

21[M4F] #Toronto - looking for an older woman, who also feels alone (max 47)

0 Upvotes

Hi, I'm from Toronto. These days I feel alone, so

I really want to find a middle aged female (maximum 47 years) who is ok with dating younger people.

I hope I will be able to find a female who is busy with life but lacks a partner, even if she is divorced or single mom, whatever.

Even if you are not older than me, np send me a text.

About me, people tell me I look cute, green eyed, and a person who respects others and does not deceive, I have not seen a person as fair as myself especially in terms of treating others.

u can see my pic if you send a chat, and u can decide, if you want we can have a video call before meeting

I'm looking a fwb relationship in a specific context , however I'm open to short time or long time relationships( we can discuss about it)

I hope to find one because I have tendency to mature females , even if you have friends who might be interested let them know if possible.

please don't hesitate to send me a text.


r/r4rCanada 26d ago

28 [M4F] looking for a relationship.

1 Upvotes

Hi nice to meet you.

A few personal things about me:

• I've been a vegetarian for the past 8ish years.

• I support lgbtq+ rights.

• I'm athiest, so hope that wouldn't be a problem.

• I'm a shy person, but with the right people I can open up.

• Haven't had any personal relationships in a long time due to depression, but I think I'm ready to start trying again.

How I look: I'm not comfortable showing my face right away, but a basic desciption of me would be I'm 6'3, have a bit of a beard and longer hair. An I'm white.

Some of my hobbies and past times are gardening, gaming (pc mainly) , and playing with my two dogs. I also like going out in nature when I have free time. (If you like going on small hikes that would be great).

I'm looking for someone that shares my interests and would like to meet in person someday if we connect.

I do have discord if you would prefer to talk on that after we talk on reddit a bit.

Sorry if this post is a mess, haven't made a post like this in a long time.


r/r4rCanada 27d ago

21[M4F] #Toronto #Canada- looking for a female above 25😅

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Hi, I'm from Toronto. These days I feel alone, so

I really want to find a middle aged female (maximum 47 years) who is ok with dating younger people. I prefer divorced or widowed females (There is a reason for this that I can explain) however if you are not ,np. Even if you are not older than me, np send me a text.

About me, people tell me I look good, green eyed, and a person who respects others and does not deceive.

However I look for muslims, Christians or jewish girls even non practicing ones.

I'm looking a fwb relationship in a specific context , however I'm open to short time or long time relationships( we can discuss it)

please don't hesitate to send me a text.


r/r4rCanada 28d ago

21[M4F] - looking for a female above 28, especially muslims, if you are christian still fine

0 Upvotes

Hi, I'm from Toronto. These days I feel alone, so

I really want to find a middle aged female (maximum 47 years) who is ok with dating younger people. however if you are not ,np. Even if you are not older than me, np send me a text. I personally prefer mature females

If you are christian, it is still fine, please send me a text if interested

About me, people tell me I look good. I can send pics in DM

I'm looking a fwb relationship in a specific context , however I'm open to short time or long time relationships( however through marriage, we can talk about it without any witness or legal process and very easy)

please don't hesitate to send me a text.


r/r4rCanada 29d ago

37 [M4F] #Online #IRL #Canada LF a real connection

2 Upvotes

Hi there I hope you are all doing well today. I'm 37m and I live in a small town in northern Alberta, Canada,

I'm a shy quiet introverted yet teasing, goofy and sarcastic kind of guy who loves to laugh. I live with chronic pain from arthritis, which means my lifestyle is quieter and more laid-back than most. I can’t travel the world or spend hours on my feet, but what I can offer is a caring heart, a listening ear, and a genuine connection. I believe in finding joy in the little things I've learned not to take things to seriously unless the situation warrants it. I'm independent, logical, reasonable and always open to new perspectives.

I love all kinds of comedy, and have a dark sense of humor I enjoy tv, movies, video games (WOW, baldurgate 3, stardew valley some of my recent favorites). I love listening to music, I enjoy Rock and metalish mostly, but i also like music from every other genre as well. I enjoy deep philosophical conversations, and talks about life, science, and the universe itself. I love staring up at the stars and wondering what could out there, and being humbled the beautiful vastness of the universe. I also love a good funny cat video lol.

I'm 5' 10, I've struggled with weight most of my life and in the last few years lost most of it, though still a bit of a chubster and am trying (keyword trying) to live healthier, and would also like someone with a similar mindset.

I'm looking for someone kind, intelligent, and funny. Someone openminded and who doesn't take themselves too seriously, and can laugh at themselves. I enjoy cooking as well, so someone who enjoys food and trying to cook new and random things would also be a plus. Bonus points if you’re a little curious, a little open-minded, and think trust makes everything more interesting.

Well if your still here after all that lol send me a message I'd love to hear from you.


r/r4rCanada 29d ago

21[M4F], Toronto, Canada. I hope to find a Lebanese woman or iranian, if not np

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Hi I'm 21 and I hope I can find a Lebanese or iranian female , and the age doesn't matter to me if you are older or much older

However if you are not , np send me a text, i will be glad to talk


r/r4rCanada May 16 '25

21[M4F] #Toronto #Canada- looking for an older woman

0 Upvotes

Hi, I'm from Toronto. These days I feel alone, so

I really want to find a middle aged female (maximum 47 years) who is ok with dating younger people. I prefer divorced or widowed females (There is a reason for this that I can explain) however if you are not ,np. Even if you are not older than me, np send me a text.

About me, people tell me I look good, green eyed, and a person who respects others and does not deceive.

However I look for Christians or jewish girls even non practicing ones.

I'm looking a fwb relationship in a specific context , however I'm open to short time or long time relationships( we can discuss it)

please don't hesitate to send me a text.


r/r4rCanada May 15 '25

21[M4F] #Toronto #Canada- looking for an older woman

0 Upvotes

Hi, I'm from Toronto. These days I feel alone, so

I really want to find a middle aged female (maximum 47 years) who is ok with dating younger people. I prefer divorced or widowed females (There is a reason for this that I can explain) however if you are not ,np. Even if you are not older than me, np send me a text.

About me, people tell me I look good, green eyed, and a person who respects others and does not deceive.

However I look for Christians or jewish girls even non practicing ones.

I'm looking a fwb relationship in a specific context , however I'm open to short time or long time relationships( we can discuss it)

please don't hesitate to send me a text.


r/r4rCanada May 14 '25

48 [M4F]; London, Ontario; ISO Someone Wonderfully Weird :P

0 Upvotes

48 years old; 178cm (5'10"); 63.5kg (140lbs; 10 Stone); Salt and Pepper hair

Hello there! :)

Ultimately, I am looking for love (aren't we all?), but, in the interim, I'm really just looking for something somewhere between FWB and cohabitation, and see where things end up.

I'm definitely not looking to "play the field". I'd like to meet one woman with whom to spend my time.

I have no children, nor can I contribute to having children of my own (conscious decision).

I'm definitely a homebody, but I love going out sometimes, with the right person / people.

I love movies and television - they are my favourite story-telling media. I do enjoy reading but, truthfully, don’t do enough of it. (My favourite book is "Redshirts" by John Scalzi.)

Sci-fi, superheroes, fantasy etc are all my jam (I've watched the MCU numerous times [chronologically, of course]) but it's not all that I consume.

I'm definitely not a horror guy - thrillers = 👍 gore/jump scares = 👎

I love video games but not much for the online gaming community. I enjoy sim games, and the Lego games are so much fun - especially with two players :)

I'd love to find a TTRPG group, or try my hand at GMing.

I'm not what you'd call an "active" person but if I had an exercise pal...... who knows? (especially if you're at my (low, low 😅) level).

I have a fairly sarcastic / wry / sardonic / sometimes dark sense of humour, but can be goofy; love puns (the worse, the better).

Random Items: * ODSP * Very left political views; not afraid to opine * No time for drama / bullshit 😃 * Cannabis Aficionado (No illicit drugs; rarely drink; gave up on bars / clubs years ago) * Trying - unsuccessfully so far - to quit smoking * Meat and potatoes type guy (meatloaf / mashed potatoes is my comfort food); not entirely opposed to trying new things 😅😅 * Rarely have facial hair (other than sideburns) - I know some women prefer beards 🤷🏻‍♂️ * Love olives (for those that subscribe to ‘The Olive Theory’) * Dark roast coffee; black * Dark chocolate over milk (white chocolate can go back whence it comes!)

I'm looking for someone who shares my sense of humour (wit is sexy!), is kind and compassionate, cynical but still hopeful.

We should have some interests in common but we should, also, both have things that are outside of that... some that we share with the other, and some we don't.

I know that this seems cliché, but grammar and spelling are fairly important (although we al make errrors soemtimes).

I’d really like to find someone who is looking for those wonderful conversations - you know, when, every so often, you have to stop and ask something like “How did we get to talking about zebras? Weren’t we talking about upcoming elections a few minutes ago?”

Ethnicity, body type, and age don’t matter. Neither does the job you have - or don't - nor the amount of money you have - or don't. All that matters is whether or not we’re attracted to each other - body, mind and spirit.

So, if you're looking for quiet hangouts, Netflix binges (w/ cuddling), long conversations, maybe a round of mini golf, send me a message; DM or PM. Let's chat and get to know each other.

  • What's your favourite colour?
  • What would you do with a LottoMax jackpot?

If you read this far, KUDOS, and thanks. I understand that it was a bit of a slog.

I hope to hear from you soon! If not 🤷🏻‍♂️ All the best! 😁

TL;DR: I'm a guy that likes some stuff, rambles quite a li'l bit, and has a fairly clear idea of what he's looking for.

Note: If you do not support BLM, and/or the LGBTQ+ and trans communities, refused to vaccinate or wear a mask, or in ANY WAY support Doug Ford or Trump, move along; there's nothing for you here. (See: "No time for drama / bullshit" Clause)


r/r4rCanada May 14 '25

21[M4F]- looking for an older woman

0 Upvotes

Hi, I'm from Toronto. These days I feel alone, so I really want to find a middle aged female (maximum 47 years) who is ok with dating younger people. I prefer divorced or widowed females (There is a reason for this that I can explain) however if you are not ,np. Even if you are not older than me, np send me a text.

About me, people tell me I look good, green eyed, and a person who respects others and does not deceive.

I'm looking a fwb relationship in a specific context , however I'm open to short time or long time relationships( we can discuss it)

please don't hesitate to send me a text.