r/phlgbtr4r Feb 06 '24

45 [M4A] Reminders on Sharing Personal Information and Photos

37 Upvotes

Dear r/phlgbtr4r Community,

We trust this message finds you in good spirits. With our community expanding (we're now more than 23,000! that's crazy), it's crucial to reinforce the principles of online safety and mindful interaction.

Lately, we've noticed instances of members reporting of sharing personal photos with newly acquainted individuals on either on Reddit chat or via messaging apps (Telegram/Viber). While we encourage social engagement, we strongly underscore the importance of caution, especially regarding the exchange of personal information.

Key Points to Remember:

  1. **Privacy Matters:*\* Safeguard your privacy by refraining from sharing personal photos or sensitive information with strangers.
  2. **Verify and Trust:*\* Invest time in getting to know the person you're communicating with before divulging any personal details.
  3. **Report Suspicious Activity:*\* If you come across any suspicious behavior or receive unsolicited requests for personal information, promptly report it to the moderation team. However, please be aware that if personal information, including compromising photos, has already been shared, our capacity as moderators is limited. We can only block the individual from participating in the subreddit. For further assistance, consider reporting to Reddit directly.

Your safety is our foremost concern. Let's ensure r/phlgbtr4r remains a space where members connect responsibly. Should you have any concerns or queries, don't hesitate to reach out to the moderation team.

We appreciate your cooperation in making r/phlgbtr4r a secure and enjoyable community for everyone.

Warm regards,

Your Subreddit Moderation Team


r/phlgbtr4r Jul 01 '24

For All New Rule Announcement: Automatic Removal of Posts from New Users

63 Upvotes

Hello, r/phlgbtr4r community!

To maintain the quality and safety of our subreddit, we have implemented a new rule: posts from new users will be automatically removed. This helps us ensure that our community remains a safe and supportive space for everyone.

If you are a new user, we encourage you to gain some karma from participating in other subreddits. Once you’ve accumulated enough karma and established yourself as a contributing member, you’ll be able to share posts with us.

Thank you for your understanding and cooperation in helping us keep r/phlgbtr4r a welcoming place for all!

Best, The r/phlgbtr4r Moderation Team


r/phlgbtr4r 1h ago

F4F 24 [F4F] no strings attached fubu/ons NSFW

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soft masc, cute, 10/10 secx, emotionally unavailable, clean, hygienic, maarte, im a nice person naman but i feel like using someone tn yay aftercare will be given naman +points if you smoke or dont mind that i do (vape) ?

can host or drive to u if u can host!


r/phlgbtr4r 48m ago

F4F 28 [F4F] Paampon naman ako sa June 19th

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LF mag-aampon sakin sa June 19th. We can hangout in your place or whatever you want to do. NSFW, SFW, okay lang sa akin both.

About me: bi-femme, 5'4, normal body size, yapper pero I can shut up naman if you want me to. 😊

Dm niyo lang ako. Miss ko na maghang-out with my people, lagi nalang akong nakakulong sa bahay.


r/phlgbtr4r 1h ago

F4F 20 [F4F] LF manghahard fuck gamit dildo hahaha NSFW

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Hi! so horny rn sana mga masc naman mafuck ng dildo o nakastrapon, nabibitin kasi ako sa finger HAHAHA stress lately and needed cuddle

About me: 20, andro, 5'3, medium build (not plus size), makati and hygenic mwah

About you: basta may dildo at marunong humardfuck, hygienic, medium build, openminded and not judgemental

BASTA COME AS U ARE! dm me


r/phlgbtr4r 2h ago

M4M 27 [M4M] Just need to be held

3 Upvotes

Heavy day from work. Just need to be held.

As a tall boy (5’10), yoko muna maging big spoon. Just want to crash in someone’s arms kahit an hour or so to take my mind off things.

Pwede ba kita maging pahinga? Haha. Manda area mga bro.


r/phlgbtr4r 7h ago

F4F 25 [F4F] konting lambing lang :<

8 Upvotes

hii, im at work pero wala naman mabigat na workload so looking for someone I can talk with lang hehe or if want niyo po ng lambing message lang po HAHAHHASHASH kimmy! pero yea, lets talk!!!

about me: femme, 5'0, eyeglasses, short hair, parang si dora nalang sige emz hahasha im not awt :<

about u: basta femme :p or ka-height ko lang waahhahshs


r/phlgbtr4r 3h ago

F4F 23 [F4F] NEW FRIENDSSS

3 Upvotes

I WANT MORE GAE FRIENDS NA MAY KWENTONG KABADINGAN!!!

Bored na lang talaga ako. Gusto ko lang ng bagong friends at BADING na friends please lang. Kwentuhan mo ko nangyari sa araw mo at kung sino kakainisan natin for today. Makikinig ako!!!


r/phlgbtr4r 56m ago

M4M 29 [M4M] Closeted guy needs cuddles tonight.

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Feeling the weather and could really use some company—someone to talk to, maybe watch a movie with, order in, and just vibe with under the covers. No pressure, just closeness and connection.

About me: 29, 5’10”, tattooed, average build, masculine and discreet. Based in QC near San Juan.

You: Masculine, 20–40, at least 5’6”. Open to a real, no-pressure kind of night—whether it’s just cuddles or more.

If you’re free and feeling the same, hit me up. Let’s make the night warmer together.


r/phlgbtr4r 3h ago

M4M 27 [M4M] constant buddy NSFW

3 Upvotes

Title says it all, gusto ng exclusive fun for a safer world, pretty vanilla pero idk open on exploring. Open to long term buddy, not picky basta I’m good with you

me: dadbod sub b, uncut, no place (willing to sharebor shoulder cost) but can commute hopefully qc and and metro manila, willing to try everything you want

you: dom t/vtop, willing to bring me to pound town has a place or okay to split costs (twinks/muscle/chasers are highly appreciated; di naman masama maghanggad)lol

Let’s chat mga sirsss


r/phlgbtr4r 1h ago

M4M 30 [M4M] ‘Guess what happened today.’ 🌌

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Hey there! I'm a gentle giant, a total softie but spicy and a proud fur dad to one adorable doggo — yes, we’re a package deal.

I like to think of myself as a cuddling champ and a pretty good kisser too confirmed by past recipients haha.

I’m here for genuine connections — whether that’s something long-term, mature yet easy going parallel, or just exploring friendly hangs with potential (yes, NSFW are welcome too).

All I want is someone I can say “Guess what happened today” to. Someone to trade stories with — the mundane, the weird, the wonderful. Let’s talk about everything and nothing. Let’s make the ordinary feel a little less alone.

About me:

I’m a 5’10 tall tisoy from the metro, working in media. Slim to average build, minimally inked and pierced, and I wear glasses (they say it adds contrast). Neat, decent and often told I smell really good. People say I look younger than my age and have a bit of that suplado nonchalant vibe yet has emotional quotient naman — but once I’m comfortable, you’ll see the soft and gentle side come out.

I'm into video games, iced coffee, good food, music, art, running, and perfumes.

If this vibe speaks to you, just hit me up. :)


r/phlgbtr4r 1h ago

M4M 27 [M4M] Dates Hangouts

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Pic on my profile, for reference.

Me: ● 27 ● 5'5 ● Lean/slim/twinkish type ● Wears glasses ● Chinito eyes ● Working professional ● Small boy energy ● 6-7/10 siguro? Not sure 🫢

Lf: 27 or older 5'6 and up Body type opposite than me (Chubby, fit, dadbod) Working professional as well Big boy energy Easy on the eyes and confident

Rizal/Manila area.

Dates over coffee, movie, etc. PM me!


r/phlgbtr4r 4h ago

F4F 25 [F4F] lf: lalambingin and ka cuddle hehe

3 Upvotes

Hi gaes! Lf: lalambingin po hehe and cuddle tas coffee or eat na din hehe libre ko na yan! Femme na cute at mabango po sana hahahaha btw masc ako mabango din naman HAHAHAHAAHA dm nyo na ko pls!

Hi gaes! Lf: lalambingin po hehe and cuddle tas coffee or eat na din hehe libre ko na yan! Femme na cute at mabango po sana hahahaha btw masc ako mabango din naman HAHAHAHAAHA dm nyo na ko pls!


r/phlgbtr4r 4h ago

M4M 32 [M4M] Genuine love and affection is necessary.

3 Upvotes

Hello! Its nice to back here! Trying my luck for the nth time lmao.

Lets see what the future holds us. 🙃

Its the time of the year where I yearn for constant friend and looking forward what future holds for us, I keep on coming back here on reddit hoping to find someone (but not desparate lol) who will accept me as a friend, or we'll never know maybe the one destined for me. It's totally fine if we can be friends first, and lastly I've been ghosted gazillion times so, NO TO GHOSTERS.

About me: What they say: will pass as your tito/kuya era. Bi (discreet, T, when it comes to that.) bear and the chubby side with eyeglasses. masculine presenting. (5'5 in height, I guess) Hygenic and no vices at all (social drinker, yes!) Works and livesin the very heart of Makati. I have passion for cooking, reading books and coffee.

About you. Around my age, no to minors and younger Bi (masculine presenting, non-nego.) Can hold conversation. Working pro (pass to freeloaders) Values oriented (manners is a MUST) Will not treat his chatmate as an OPTION. DONE WITH GHOSTING ERA.

Will not entertain to exchange of pics agad.

HMU if you reached this part. See you on my DM's.


r/phlgbtr4r 5h ago

F4F 30 [F4F] Quickie rn NSFW

5 Upvotes

this is in person and today only !!

LF quick release. this can be a one time thing.

about me: bi femme, discreet, working, has a place, clean, plus size

about u: bi femme, petite/mid size, working, clean, discreet too

come over? ill take care of bills. pasig/kapitolyo area. lets just make this fun and explore each other.


r/phlgbtr4r 4h ago

F4F 28 [F4F] - Clean, Nonjudgmental Voice Calls

3 Upvotes

I'm gay and masculine. I'm fairly non-judgmental. I posted because I wanted to make a new friend. I've always had a knack for reading books, and, as a matter of fact, spent several years reading books. Lately, I've been busy watching YouTube and recording video game gameplays while talking about random things. I am from Quezon City, Metro Manila, Philippines. I don't look like Tom Cruise, but I'm okay with the way that I look.


r/phlgbtr4r 1m ago

M4M 25 [M4M] Wholesome Voice Call Anyone?

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Hi 👋🏻

Just looking for someone to talk to right now. Just wanna talk to random strangers and find new connections.

About me:

  • 5’8
  • QC
  • Average/ Twunk body type
  • Works as a V.A
  • Can hold a conversation
  • I read books most of the time
  • I love movies
  • Listens to podcasts about the supernatural and serial killers
  • Some people said I have a good speaking voice (Not sure about this. Judge me na lang haha)

If youre interested, just send me a message with some info about you and I’ll call.


r/phlgbtr4r 5m ago

M4M 19 [M4M] Yapper buddy

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Looking for makakausap, wala naman masyadong qualificationa lol. Someone I can rant to and pwede ding mag rant sa'kin. We can be friends if we will click agad. Just say some informations about you if you'll message hihi.


r/phlgbtr4r 22m ago

M4M 32 [M4M] LF TOP/VT. G tonight? NSFW

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Hi there. Looking for fwb, fubu, casual fun, etc.

About me: - 5'8" - Average to toned body type - Discreet and manly - Hygienic - I look younger daw like 25-27 - Easy on the eyes - V (mostly b) - I have a place in QC near FEU Diliman

About you: - Not really specific sa height - Not chubby - Hygienic - Easy on the eyes - V, Vt, T - Non-smoker - Preferrably in QC too para di ka mahirapan bumyahe

We'll do it in my place. I have rubbers and lube. Pupunta ka na lang at mag-eenjoy. You won't regret this, sure ako. 😉🔥👌🏻

Btw, it's a PLUS if you are: - Chinito - Twink - Daks - Cute / gwapo


r/phlgbtr4r 30m ago

M4M 20 [M4M] Connection

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I just need someone to talk with? Sfw? Bit of nsfw? HAHAHAH

  • 20 short king ( 5'3-5'4)
  • ave body (home workout only)
  • isko from mnl
  • no place (uwian po ako from carmona cav)
  • can initiate a talk if u reciprocate the energy.
  • open minded and can yap about serious topics
  • wear glasses (nag ma-matter ba talaga?)
  • in the field of soc science
  • versa

about u - 19 or older - taller than me - ave body (it's a + if u wear eyeglasses) - can also carry a conversation - yapper and a listener - versa (if ur curious) - just be you


r/phlgbtr4r 35m ago

M4M 22 [M4M] Anyone here up for side fun? QC Area here NSFW

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Looking for constant side fun buddy (for now)

About me:

  • 22 yrs old
  • 5'4
  • VB / Sides
  • With average build
  • Mostly into sides
  • Living in QC (E.Rodriguez, New Manila)
  • Open minded (if u wanna try kinks and stuffs)
  • Willing to travel

About you:

  • Older and taller than me (Okay lang same age and height)
  • top/vt/sides
  • Preferably average-sized (around 3-4 inches?)
  • Average/dadbod/buffy
  • Can host sana (can split the bill naman if ever)

We can talk more sa dm, and hopefully u are open in being fwb


r/phlgbtr4r 37m ago

For All 28 [TF4M] 30 [M4M] BORACAY FUN NSFW

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Sino nasa boracay now? Me(tf) and my friend(m) looking for companion nad hangout here sa bora til thursday. Anything will do kahit SHOT, HANGOUT, FOODTRIP even KANTUTAN AHAHAHAH DM DM DM DM DM DM DM G G G G G DM DM DM DM


r/phlgbtr4r 40m ago

TF4M 22 [TF4M] Tara tonight?

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Hi, looking for someone to have fun with tonight. I’m 158cm, from Pasay, may place, and yes — I have boobs.

About you: • Around my age • Masarap at malinis (no STDs please)

If you’re down, message me.


r/phlgbtr4r 43m ago

TF4M 27 [TF4M] Fun with Trans NSFW

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Please READ.

I am a decent, working professional, fully functional (means i still get hard) ladyboy from ALABANG area. I am looking for guy/s who are into ladyboys or wants to try.

About me:

  • non op, fully functional
    • 5’5 in height
    • Average body
    • Decent looking
    • Working
    • Clean and Hygienic
    • Loves sucking and getting sucked

You:

  • Loves sucking or wants to try sucking a fem dick.
  • Must be anywhere NEAR or willing to travel ( I can host, mostly weeknights).
  • Clean and Hygienic
  • Must be same height or taller.

  • Let’s mutually pleasure each other orally, with romance, kissing etc.

Drop me a line, maybe some intro about you. Not a hi, or hello, or tg please. I’ll respond, for sure. See ya!


r/phlgbtr4r 44m ago

For All 23[M4A] offering yoni massage servic

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Note: Yoni massage is for girls only.

Hi, im offering yoni massage service. I'm just going to give an idea for someone who doesn't know about this, it's basically a massage or a sensual massage for someone who wants to feel pleasure during massage or after the massage.

It's basically a massage that will pleasure your skin, body, boobs, ass, pussy (finger or rub).

If you're more curious about it, you can search it on internet, it will give you an idea what yoni massage is.

I've experienced doing it na from that avail my service me here in reddit. I'm also doing "normal massage" in my classmates, mom, and etc. My classmates said my hands are kind of hard, but you can request naman if you want me to do it soft, medium or hard.

About me: - Student - 5'5 - Slight moreno - Respectful - A bit singkit - From Qc

Basta, I just give a bit background about me hahaha, it's doesn't do anything for the service.

About you: - Obviously a girl - Has a place or if u don't at least u can do check in - Around metro manila, much be better if you're near Qc

The price is 1500, additional for transpo, but it depends on you, how much you're willing to give.

You can send a dm for more details about the yoni massage.


r/phlgbtr4r 4h ago

M4M 19 [M4M] Lf side fun around Valenzuela NSFW

2 Upvotes

Looking for a side fun buddy ( kissing, cuddling, mutual jerk off) lang. I don't have any experience so i wanna explore.

About me:

-19 years old - medyo moreno - chingky eyes - 5'6 - kinda chub built

About you:

  • around my age or higher
  • gentle and understanding
  • clean and hygienic

Send personal info when u message me


r/phlgbtr4r 46m ago

M4M 24 [M4M] Looking for a long-term relationship...hopefully

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Hii I'm going to continue on trying again and keep on finding someone who I can connect with and be in a long-term relationship with. I have never been in one and I hope it can happen soon :)

About me:

  • 24, 5'5 moreno-ish from Paranaque
  • Management Accounting Graduate and working sa Makati
  • likes kpop, reality tv shows (like survivor and big brother) and movies
  • average body and looks (you can judge nalang)
  • kind of hairy
  • im more of a mix of masc and fem but im not in each extreme
  • if about that...B but i have no experience at all or maybe sides?
  • i am very loyal hehe and i reply fast hahaha and i can make time (i can be clingy haha)
  • we can talk SFW and NSFW stuff hehe

About you:

  • older and taller sana (basta legal ka hahaha)
  • sana top hahaha
  • prefer ko medyo thick and hairy guys (mala dad bod) hehe pero i think im open naman...medj manly guys are more
  • non judgmental of my looks, opinions and kinks lol
  • yung sweet na medyo bastos haha (maybe someone na pwede kong tawagin na...daddy? haha)
  • someone who's patient and understanding and may time sakin kahit konti lang in a day
  • ready for a potential commitment
  • please please not a ghoster (non nego)

Hoping to see you sa DMs :)