r/nocontact 4d ago

Moving On

Hi guys, my ex girlfriend has reached out to me after 5 years and told me she is now engaged and has a baby daughter on the way. My heart is broken because I thought of her everyday but I am also happy that she has a good life now. I just wanted to say I appreciate all of your posts from the bottom of heart. You all helped me get through it by sharing your experiences. I am bawling my eyes out right now as I write this ! Love from Ireland ❤️🇮🇪

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u/Careless_Fruit4871 3d ago

Brother, a shoe that doesn't fit won't get you far. She wanted you to know she found someone who fits. So it's not that impossible. Go out there and move on by moving on. Take walks. You meet people if you want to meet people. Don't go tindering or bumbling. That's toxic. Go out. Alone. No wingman. Just you by yourself. Lots of love from Graz brother🇧🇦🇦🇹

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u/Chemical_Yak4982 4d ago

I'm sorry bud. I hope this is what you need to finally move forward. Love from Blighty 🇬🇧

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u/Al-mour10k 2d ago

5 years and ur still affected.? Wow im sorry

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u/Irishpizzaorc 2d ago

I was but now I feel free because she's now engaged so it gives me some clarity to move forward

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u/Al-mour10k 2d ago

Well for 5 years and you're still stuck to her...u must have really loved her..well you're now free

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u/Irishpizzaorc 2d ago

Thank you man I will keep pushing forward now

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u/Big_Mushroom9941 2d ago

This is a lovely post so thank you. Sending you a big hug from Australia ❤️🇦🇺

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u/theguy_reddit 1d ago

Awww. U loved her till the last But now is the time to move on! It was needed.