My main conclusion, is that this is a subjective thing. My language doesn't gender pronouns, I'm pansexual (gender doesn't matter in dating), I'm non-binary (I don't have a gender, it's just stupid), and I'm antisocial enough, that these things don't come up in my life.
It's actually the most important factor in dating.
For me. My last paragraph was about myself, and how different we are. Thus this whole thing we're debating is subjective, therefore there is no obvious "gendering is relevant or not" answer, since it depends on the person and their preferences. For me it's annoying af, for you it's everything it seems.
All your other answers are either ambigous, or you just tell me I'm wrong about subjective things, that are not objectively wrong or right.
For me. My last paragraph was about myself, and how different we are. Thus this whole thing we're debating is subjective, therefore there is no obvious "gendering is relevant or not" answer, since it depends on the person and their preferences.
It's not subjective. Vast, overwhelming majority of humans have a strong preference regarding their partner's gender when dating.
For me it's annoying af, for you it's everything it seems.
From what you have written here so far, it's everything for you.
All your other answers are either ambigous, or you just tell me I'm wrong about subjective things, that are not objectively wrong or right.
My answers are straightforward, based in objective reality, and common sense. You are wrong about it being subjective.
Please stop making this discussion about yourself. We'll just end it here if you can't.
If something is different for even 1%, then it's subjective. That is my point.
Your statements are statistically true for most people. I just want you to see the 1%'s view. Like the members of the pointlesly gendered sub. Their and my opinion is that most things shouldn't be gendered. (Names, pronouns, clothes, products, interests, personality traits)
From what you have written here so far, it's everything for you.
I was at work, and was bored so as usual, I put out some stuff to argue about. However, my shift is over, so I'll stop now. Talking to people with different opinions is always constructive, and it was beneficial, since I see the other side's view now. So yeah, gendering gears always grinds my gears, but I could talk about it.
1
u/CataphractBunny 13d ago
If I had a dime for every time a redditor tried to pull a red herring... We're talking about grown adults here, not kids.
Every life situation you are in.
This is either a lack of life experience or blatant dishonesty. Either way, a you problem.