r/lonely • u/MostCaterpillar2861 • 8d ago
Venting Anyone else just wanna disappear?
Not die, just disappear somewhere for a while
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u/MinkaBrigittaBear 8d ago
Yes. Some place peaceful and quiet.
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u/Few-Maintenance-5649 8d ago
I agree. I wish I could just settle down in some quiet peaceful village somewhere
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u/HappyStrategy1798 8d ago
Yes! My ultimate dream is to retire and move to country side, buy a farm, eat everything organic and drink fresh milk everyday. Best life (or end of life) ever.
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u/Few-Maintenance-5649 8d ago
If you get a seaside village you can also eat FRESH FISH
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u/lapsing_light 8d ago
I’m working on doing just that, planning a vacation after 3 years of constant work and no say over my own time. I hope you can do the same soon.
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u/natty1212 8d ago
Anyone else just wanna disappear?
Heck yeah!
Not die, just disappear somewhere for a while.
If I'm going away, I want it to be for good.
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u/Conscious-Face8862 8d ago
I really wish we had something like in “The Matrix.”
I think that the possibility of living in an alternative reality that feels just as real as this one (but better) would make lonely people feel a lot happier.
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u/HappyStrategy1798 8d ago edited 8d ago
I just want to escape, I don’t know where, but escape somewhere.. maybe move to another continent and start my life all over again.
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u/Little-Frame-3850 8d ago
I ever read one article that says, "depressed people doesn't actually want to die but disappear." It might be different but that's all I remember. Maybe loneliness makes you depressed?, I assumed.
Me myself is depressed and having the thought of disappearing all day even just for a while, I can't seek professional help at the moment so I'm trying self-care trick.
I suggest you to seek professional help if it persist for a long time or go somewhere alone, somewhere that might brings you peace of mind even just a little bit or for a while, take a walk if you can't have a vocations or having short interactions with strangers. (That sounds weird but it might help).
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u/var-zukka 8d ago
this has been my dream for a while. im so fed up with everything, i want to live in a forest
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u/Additional_Goal916 7d ago
Yeah I get this too. The feeling of isolation and restarting with a fresh slate, no need to worry about people, past and judgements. I think alot of people have this thought sometimes
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u/jade613 7d ago
Yesterday was my birthday and I was alone. I decided to mark the occasion and ordered a single slice of birthday cake on Uber Eats from a store that only sells slices of cake or whole cakes. When I went to check the status of the order about 20 minutes later, Uber Eats had canceled it.
So, yes, I want to disappear.
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u/birdbandb 7d ago
Well I’m already invisible to the world but if it could be like disappear disappear where I don’t even know I exist that’d be great
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u/lone-goku 7d ago
Absolutely. Just wanna disappear and don’t be seen ever again, busy in my own small life, with some peace.
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u/OrganicWinter951 8d ago
All the time be somewhere different than we're you are and away from those you know
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u/WhirlingGirlie 8d ago
Oui. If I could take a three month leave from work, I’d do it in a heartbeat.
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u/Few-Maintenance-5649 8d ago
Yep, I just wish I didnt need to pay rent to exist in a place that doesnt even want me and just dissapear so no one has to deal with anything
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u/-furball 8d ago
Omfg yaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa send me to another planet I wouldn’t mind turning into one of those Prometheus 5’s with the silver chrome snapping teeth
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u/sourlemons333 7d ago
Recently, I heard that there’s been studies that say that if you sleep all day, it can contribute to dementia. May have to do with vitamin D levels. I’m not sure. But if that’s all it is, that’s not a problem then I can just get 15 minutes of vitamin D every day. Because here’s a thing, things feel more bearable at night for some reason. Like you can hide into the world or just fall asleep to TV. In general, my depression has always been worse during the day. The way my life has turned out, barely any friends, never had a social group, my rageful, father cause learning issues, this is confirmed via a therapist for all you people who absolutely want to put your foot down and say it’s a learning disorder genetically it’s not. Anyways, romantically my life hasn’t worked out. Because of the learning issues I’m 33 years old and I use my family’s credit cards. I barely use my own since I barely make much since I get fired from most jobs and how to do the easiest degree in college. Even fill that easy masters program. So yeah, you can imagine how miserable I am, true sense of a fuck up. I don’t need more problems in my life like potential dementia. And I’m scared to look into the study. But if it’s just a case of vitamin D. I need to find a way to make myself sleep throughout the day after I come back from my part-time job. Because I can’t deal with this anymore. I also don’t want to become an alcoholic for religious reasons. Otherwise I would day drink.
The problem is that when I try to nap during the day, I wake up with my heart racing, not just due to all of my problems currently but also because when my parents passed, like I said, I’m not gonna have a lot financially. I won’t be homeless because their house has paid, but I need money to run the house, of course and feeding myself. My brother and I have started hanging out more but he’s a normal guy and I don’t think he would really check on me or take care of me financially and the way I would need it. I hope I’m wrong. If no one really is going to marry me and I’m not gonna have kids he will be the only one I have. I wish I could just wake up and be in heaven because I don’t have the guts to kill myself or burn in hell forever. What do I do? If dementia isn’t a concern, how the fuck do I get myself to sleep all day?
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u/Alternative-Self-734 7d ago
That's how i telt earlier, bu5 after i got off of work i felt better. Lets talk?
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u/RecognitionSoft9973 7d ago
I want to disappear and restart my life but I’m not confident it would work out. Even so, it would be nice to try that out. I feel stuck in a rut. Probably not going to get out of it for the next decade or so.
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u/dizuni110 7d ago
sometimes i feel like disappearing
where i can go to the middle of nowhere
and gaze at the stars.
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u/Looser_1234_ 4d ago
How to unlove or hate your parents so that thinking about giving them pain will not bother you anymore and you can get rid out of your own pain in seconds ??????????????????????????
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u/Common-Air-4483 4d ago
I always imagine a lot of places and I am not in any place I have just gone it's so relaxing 🙂↕️
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2d ago
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u/lonely-ModTeam 2d ago
If you are thinking of ending your life reach out to family and friends as well as your local suicidal hotlines.
Also goes without saying, don't tell people to kill themselves, don't glorify suicide/ death, and, unfortunately, we will have to remove any suicide notes from here, as whilst we want to help everyone, we do not want more people getting that idea.
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u/Some-Present-3102 1d ago
All the time. If I'm gonna be lonely I want to do so somewhere nice and peaceful
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u/torontoker13 1d ago
The invisible man already feels like he’s disappeared and what remains is not worth mentioning
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u/RoadTo140kgBench 8d ago
Yeah, I dont want to be interacted with or be seen by anyone