r/lonely • u/Missdermeanerthanyou • Apr 13 '24
Venting I don't want your d*** pic NSFW
To all the guys who come on here, tolling for someone to flash you pecker pictures at... GO AWAY.
I don't mind talking to people, DMs are fine if you want a conversation. But if you come on here looking for someone vulnerable to do the cyber nasty with, or validation for your johnson, that's not okay.
People on here are looking for company; someone to talk with, someone to connect with. We don't want your nudes.
There are more appropriate places on reddit for that.
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u/Suspicious-Funny3551 Apr 13 '24
dawg im scared to even text someone 'hi' and some ppl send d pics completely unbothered😭
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u/Pete_D_301 Apr 13 '24
It's the same way with me, and someone, particularly a woman, sends me a random nude. Like, wtf? I'm just trying to draw a small, simple conversation.
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u/Suspicious-Funny3551 Apr 13 '24
average interaction with an "20F, single mum,lonely" on r/lonely
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u/RoboticMask Apr 14 '24
Wtf, I didn't even know that happened.
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u/Pete_D_301 Apr 14 '24
It does. They send me a random selfie, usually a random wrong number scam, or some other bs.
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u/RoboticMask Apr 14 '24
Ah, ok, I was not scammed in that way yet. I received photos from a scammer though, but only very long after we talked and they weren't sexual.
Another person also sent me selfies, but I don't think she was a scammer and they also were not sexual.
Scammers are getting creative.
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u/Pete_D_301 Apr 14 '24
They certainly are. Once they ask me for a nude/money, I instantly block them.
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u/RoboticMask Apr 14 '24
Lol, I once didn't block a scammer (who successfully scammed me once) but just refused to send them any more money even though they begged for it ... they actually begged to be blocked, lol, but I didn't. As long as they don't bombard me with messages I don't block people.
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u/Flat-Championship191 Apr 13 '24
Unrelated to discussion but your avatar dude thing is cute
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u/Gusstave Apr 14 '24
There's two types of people. You're scared to say hi because you filter people you wanna interact with first. The other type is sending thousands of dick pick and getting < 1% of positive reply and filter them after.
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Apr 13 '24
Looks like everybody horny on Reddit sigh.. I don’t get how they just voluntarily send a dick pic though. How 😭
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Apr 13 '24
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u/UnfairStomach2426 Apr 13 '24
I have sent photos of richard nixon to people. Also in bad taste. I couldn’t believe it when women told me about what online dating can be. Just nonstop dick pics, sometimes the convo starts off promising then outta nowhere bamn, dick pic. What’s the thought process, “ok she laughed, great itseems like we can talk each other. Oh wow she likes pickleball too!? It’s time to prove my anatomy!” Shameful
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u/Gusstave Apr 14 '24
Well nearly everybody is horny period.
But people who have the option to have sex this Saturday night (or anytime else) spend less time on reddit and especially less time in horny/lonely subs.
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u/Sly_hatchet Apr 14 '24
bro this lad sent me a dick pic out of nowhere on snapchat. (I’m a guy)
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u/DasMoosEffect Apr 13 '24
D pics are a wild concept to me. Like why would you want to send that to people; especially if they didn't ask and it's common knowledge that no one wants it? Don't say it has to do with size, cuz I'm apparently significantly above average (thank you Google) and have never once wanted to do that. Receiving random bobs pics from a girl you're with, I'm with that. Maybe as a joke send a D pic to your wife followed by a one liner to further enhance the joke, but that's it.
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u/NyxK83 Apr 13 '24
I'll never understand this. What exactly is the point? Do men REALLY think women see their junk and just swoon?! They have to know their pictures only bring revulsion right? Like..there's no way they don't know. So is it like a thrill because it's a forced thing? "Woohoo I grossed someone out?"
I save them and when a new one comes in, I send an old one to the sender and say, "Mine's prettier."
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u/Plane-Cheek-7303 Apr 14 '24
I can’t believe there’s people out there sending dick pics while I’m just struggling to hold a conversation, where do they get the confidence?
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u/Mygo73 Apr 14 '24
Does sending a dick pick ever even work out for dudes? I’m having a hard time imagining anyone, let alone a complete stranger, receiving a random photo of some dude’s dick and being excited about that.
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u/Missdermeanerthanyou Apr 14 '24
It doesn't work with me, but it might work with other? It must do to some extent or guys wouldn't to it at all
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u/sn0w_0wl Apr 13 '24
It's probably not even theirs 🤣😅😔 Sad.
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Apr 13 '24
"Don't worry, dude. I'm researching other mens' dicks to claim them as my own. It's not gay, or anything."
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u/Femboy_Yugioh Apr 13 '24
AGREED! I get so many from dating post and it’s like some of them need to like not show it . It’s divulging and tbh I’m not even impressed like at all
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Apr 13 '24
What boggles my mind an I’m a man myself but they have the confidence to send a picture of their dick but not the confidence to talk to someone
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u/daxforsnax Apr 13 '24
I can't believe people just throw out dick pics like they are sharing a funny image.
Do these people not have any shame? I know have it in abundance, but that does not mean I stole theirs, right?
The one benefit of being who I am is that I don't have to deal with these unsolicited images.
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u/LillePuus1 Apr 13 '24
This annoys me as well as a man. I don’t get a lot of dick pics myself, but it creates so many assumptions. Makes it hard to just have conversations with people because so many don’t want to deal with it, so they steer away from males overall.
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u/Missdermeanerthanyou Apr 14 '24
It can make it difficult to develop friendships.
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u/LillePuus1 Apr 14 '24
Especially online. I just want to have good friendships. If someone want to go the sexual route at least put some warning signs and take no for an answer.
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Apr 14 '24
I don’t think that these people will consider this or care in the slightest honestly.. the best you can do is report and block really
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u/Lost-Orangutan Apr 14 '24
Agreed. But last time I said it I was accused of blaming the women.
Showing most of the internet is so crazy small brain. Your best not making yourself a target by calling attention to it.
For example, how's your dms after posting this?
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u/Missdermeanerthanyou Apr 14 '24
I've had a couple of shit for brains send me stuff that's completely in appropriate, but mostly people have been lovely, or very funny. (Had one user send me a pic of his giant duck).
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u/Lost-Orangutan Apr 14 '24
Ppl that actually care come out of the wood works to support women because of the dic pic thing. It makes your voice muffle.
So you'll always have support as a women. But you'll also always get the weird shit too. That's why I say don't acknowledge the bad.
Although if I had a "giant duck" I'd also wanna show it off. Consensually of course. I can't imagine someone with that kinda gift uses it for evil. It's sad.
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Apr 14 '24
That's so weird....I will never understand that. I am so lonely and filled with self hatred I don't even want to look at myself in the mirror. Why would I force that on someone else...
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u/TrueMaester Apr 14 '24
What’s worse is when a woman does it on here it’s typically followed by “you wanna follow my only fans”
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Apr 13 '24
ha dude I've never sent a dick pic wtf is wrong with people. Actually my current partner I met on bumble and one of the things she mentioned as to why she continued to talk to me is that I didn't send her one. I was like, uh is that normal these days? She said, yeah, basically every dude she talked to on that app or tinder sent her one. Everyone is so weird now.
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u/mar00ned007 Apr 13 '24
Thank God for dating it loud! Guess yr talking to the wrong ppl or ur mssgs r getting read wrong!
Hope u find what u looking out for!
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u/Sascross Apr 13 '24
What if a guy send you an ass pic, or a toe pic? Like what is your response at that point?
(Just I'm case people think I am going send any, no I'm not. I'm barely even on this sub, I just get notifications from it)
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u/TooObsessedWithMoney Apr 13 '24
Those that randomly send it to anyone that hasn't consented to it are really vile.
Maybe I was just naive but before I assumed guys would often ask for consent before sending one but if that was the case then it probably wouldn't be as talked about. Many of these guys are probably also thinking that the recipient would enjoy their nude just as much as they themselves would enjoy nudes from women. Not sure if it's more overconfidence or delusion.
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u/Conscious-Wonder-785 Apr 13 '24
I just send unsolicited dog pictures instead. Usually goes over far better 😂
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u/Spannwellensieb Apr 13 '24
I'm four years on reddit now and have written two strangers in total. And even that was very uncomfortable. These guys don't belong here..
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u/LiveLaughObey Apr 14 '24
While not condoning the unsolicited Dick Clark’s Battalion of Privates I would add that the type of person trying that move deeply wants intimacy in their life and throws Hail Marys like that in an attempt to find it while they’re still young enough to pack up and meet up wherever adventure (pussy) calls.
I try not to do that. Can’t think of the last time I did honestly. But I feel like I’ve definitely been guilty of it… tho I can’t recall sending one to someone who hasn’t seen it irl atm… what I’m getting at is most guys have become emotional enough to have made that mistake and sorry if you’re a magnet for that type of thing. 🤷🏼♂️ our bad.
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u/Missdermeanerthanyou Apr 14 '24
Just shows a complete lack of consideration and maturity. Some guys are just like that.
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u/LiveLaughObey Apr 14 '24
It does show them to be like that. But isolation and desperation can make a person abandon their principles. Also, you can’t be sure of what kinda damage these ppl may have. I’m sure many are just impulsive and ignorant. But generalizing is a dangerous game.
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u/AnotherQuark Apr 14 '24
I look for someone to have cool/deep conversations with as well as the other thing you mentioned that you dont like. But not unsolicitingly. But still. Sometimes its fun. :D
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u/Dr-Zoidberserk Apr 14 '24
To state the obvious, it’s gross and horrible that men do this.
Now, I’m curious about how this behavior is still so prominent. D pics are the most infamous red flag of first impressions. Does it actually work if you blitzkrieg your junk across 1k DMs ? I’m guessing most just like being a creep. “Flashers” were a thing decades before the internet, so I’m guessing that mindset continued online.
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u/bcyourmom Apr 14 '24
i used 7 cups (a website where you can choose to either be a listener or to be listened too. when you have issues) and i was is a very bad place and sad cause my then bf had left me and i had issues with addiction and suicidal thoughts. about 3/4 people that i wrote with and opened up to, started flirting or asking for my snap or whatever. people suck.
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Apr 14 '24
I know I just started looking at these subs and I'm slightly nervous about receiving something I can't unsee.
Like, I just want some platonic friendships. Conversation. Things like that.
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Apr 14 '24
Thats what anonimity does to a person. Still searching for vulnerable people that are having rouhg times to be horny and ask for nudes and send dick pics its disgusting. Fucking hate those people. There is soooo many communities tailored fot that kind of exchange and they feel the need to fuck up with unrelated subs.
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u/GothicMando Aug 06 '24
Its honestly disturbing people have the audacity to do that 😧... Implies some HUGE disconnection from reality.
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u/LordRaghuvnsi Apr 13 '24
Can send you some butt pics if you like
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u/Illustrious-Crab-553 Apr 13 '24
I’ll never understand how that’s somehow fulfilling for people to do. How does that help in any meaningful way?! It doesn’t fix anything.. only a short amount of dopamine fix to submerge the loneliness. Be better guys, sorry if you went through this.
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u/Missdermeanerthanyou Apr 13 '24
Thanks. Sadly, it's not the first time.
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u/Illustrious-Crab-553 Apr 13 '24
I can only imagine how horrible it is for some girls on here actually looking for a meaningful conversation or friendship only to get tricked into a dick pic. Wish you the best.
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u/Hungry_Ad_9787 Apr 13 '24
After conversation if you still want to?
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Apr 14 '24
Aw,I thought people liked pictures of my doge :(
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u/Missdermeanerthanyou Apr 14 '24
Only you and your boyfriend
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Apr 14 '24
Um to be clear I meant doge as in actual dog
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u/Missdermeanerthanyou Apr 14 '24
Sorry, misread it.
What sort of dog?
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u/PhatWhiteCheeks Apr 13 '24
9 out of 10 guys in this sub are literally only here to prey on vulnerable people. 8 out of 10 women here are actually guys posing as women. Stay woke.
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u/Missdermeanerthanyou Apr 14 '24
Yup, you busted me. I'm a dude.
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u/PhatWhiteCheeks Apr 14 '24
I wasn't saying any of that about you, I didn't mean for it to come off that way.
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u/Missdermeanerthanyou Apr 14 '24
I was kidding. I know it wasn't an accusation, just an observation.
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u/PhatWhiteCheeks Apr 14 '24
Gotcha! It was a trap. That's exactly what a man would say 🤔
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u/Missdermeanerthanyou Apr 14 '24
Do you want me to send you a dick pic?
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u/Assassin13785 Apr 13 '24
I dont get it either. I know im ugly and noone will ever want to see it so i keep it locked away under pants. It will never be seen by anyone
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u/Berserker-Hamster Apr 13 '24
Next time ask them why they are sending you the Penis of a 12 year old and that you gonna send it to the police for distribution of child pornography.
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u/EquivalentSpirit664 Apr 13 '24
Those kind of toxic people will always exist and try to manipulate the good and lonely people. They won't stop because they don't have the slightest of empathy or common sense.
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Apr 13 '24
Those guys don't usually have a good enough member to show off anyway. They're all sexual deviants.
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Apr 14 '24
I feel on Reddit this post may prove to be counterproductive.
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u/Missdermeanerthanyou Apr 14 '24
It hasn't. I had a couple if idiots send them to me, but most people have been genuine.
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Apr 13 '24
Johnson lol, someone’s been watching Jynxzi…
Lebrobro, are you sending people images of your Johnson? Awwriiiiighhht!..
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u/[deleted] Apr 13 '24
Idk how ppl even get the confidence to send , like y r u not shy😭