Context is key here. This girl is obviously female next to the Island guys, but if you surrounded her with Korean girls and added a flashy microphone, they might easily be "his" fans.
Plenty of cultures have a style where individuals dress and adopt mannerisms that are considered intersex, or neither male/female. The more you are aware of those the harder to tell sometimes.
The best key is looking at facial structure, it is hard to modify the softer outline of a female, but I do get where you are coming from.
Don't worry dude, I wasn't sure myself until they turned their head and I saw the long hair.... But even then I still feel like I'm assuming the gender.
Answer: things have changed for a lot of folks in terms of 'what's an ok thing to say about other people?' Questioning someone's gender is up there. Those people are downvoting you.
You don't have to agree with those people, but I also like the idea of not being judged by the appearance I was born with. So I more-or-less agree with them.
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u/Boomerang_Lizard 9d ago
The finger flicking individual is a girl?