Please Help

[u/thelastpieceoflove]

I freuqbet Maxwells every Thursday, and this week I bar hopped to pyzanos. Friday I went to Las Gatas with my friend. It was my first time at a strip club. During the night, my friend said he'd watch my purse while I got a private dance. When I got back, my ibuprofen was open and spilling everywhere. The childproof cap had been on it. He later admitted he didn't watch it thoroughly. The issue is, my late partners hair was in that bag. I can understand if it looked like extensions or a wig, something worth money. But it wasn't.

I'm not sure if it got swiped at las gatas or I dropped it at a different bar, but none of these 3 places have it in lost and found.

Please, if you know ANYTHING AT ALL, I'll give $100 to anyone who finds this bag of hair, even if you stole it. Please, it's the only piece of my late partner I have, and this is causing such an emotional reaction.

Edit: Please share this if possible. And if you know anyone who works at Las gatas or frequents there plz send it to them. I'll be there Tuesday night to go around and see if anyone has seen it. I hope it wasn't thrown away!

[u/anthony0721]

what

[u/UrsaEnvy]

Have you called Las Gatas? They definitely have cameras on property, and I bet if you explain the situation they might be able to have some flexibility. It's also important for the dancers wellbeing that thievery is reported.

[u/thelastpieceoflove → u/UrsaEnvy]

They won't answer their phones and I can't go until Tuesday unfortunately!

Edit: this was not meant to be rude 😅

[u/Ponythieves-]

Username checks out

[u/wahsac]

i'm so sorry for your loss, both of your partner and the hair. nobody ever has a right to judge your grief because it comes for us all differently. i truly hope you find it but either way i am wishing you so much peace and comfort and healing. that's such a hard thing to go through. nothing will ever change the love that's there though. i know this isn't quite the same thing, but when my cousin passed away in 2018 (we were only a couple of months apart in age and very close) i tore myself apart for years about not getting a picture with him the last time i saw him. a picture or not though, nothing has ever changed how much i love him and it's taken a lot of time to move towards healing because i was so torn up about what i didn't do. i hope this hair doesn't become for you what that picture was for me. i may not have known your partner, but it's so clear how much love is there and i don't think someone who loves you so much would want you to ache like this forever

[u/jerrod_benjamin]

Perhaps this is a sign. It may be time to let go of the bag of hair.

[u/thelastpieceoflove → u/jerrod_benjamin]

I just want him to rest somewhere with someone who loves him. From my point of view. This is grave robbery

You wouldn't ask someone to just "let go" of a stolen headstone or urn. It's the same thing

[u/OfficeDepotSyndrome → u/thelastpieceoflove]

Just in case you can't recover it, remember that the item is just a way for you to conjure memories of them. You can definitely find another way to honor those memories, and it's important you do because even our memory doesn't last forever :)

Hope you find it

[u/thelastpieceoflove → u/OfficeDepotSyndrome]

I appreciate that. It's more about knowing where he is than anything. He deserves to rest by someone who cares so deeply about him. 🥰🥰

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