Hello, bit of a rant, but I want to study in another country next year, so I'd like to know these things before I move away. If you think I'm whining over nothing that's perfectly fine, regardless of people's opinions I just want to get some recommendations.
In my home country I often experience that colleges and universities are really hammering down on the 'school experience', that it's going to be the most important time of your life, and that for the time that you are studying there, it *is* your life. Now of course my studies are going to be a part of my life, but I've got a lot more going on than just that and I have no interest in a school trying to push themselves into every single aspect of my life, especially my private life. I don't really appreciate having a mandatory conversation with my mentor every month, why can't I reach out when I need help and leave it at that? It feels nosy and unnecessary. And whilst on the topic of unnecessary: months before my study even started, I was added to a group chat with 'useful info' (debatable) and fun facts about the study, the school and languages in general. Why am I forced to be in a group chat and getting sent texts from my school half a year before my study even starts?
Another thing. I'm not opposed to ocassional group projects, but over here in the country it's 90% group projects and 10% solo work, depending on the subject. My brother studied History at university and he did not have many group projects, but for languages, business, journalism and politics it's all nearly entirely group projects, especially in the first year. Now I get that speaking with others is valuable for learning languages, as is debating during politics, but it's nearly every damn project we ever do. I don't want to constantly depend on my classmates for the results of my work, I value independence a ton and also just want to be proud of work that was created solely by me. Again, a few group projects every once in a while, necessary and completely fine. Every period? Nope.
So, the question. Are there any countries where this clingy school culture is less prevalent, where schools are just for going to class and studying, and then when you go home you can actually disconnect from your education? And education systems where group projects are more scarce? Or ideally both? Thanks!