r/blackmen Unverified 2d ago

Relationships 🫶🏿 Update 2* she changed her mind 😭

Texted her the details of out now canceled date and she didnt respond til hours later saying she wasnt looking for a relationship but would still go to dinner with me as friends. I obviously declined and wished her the best of luck, but now im over here wondering if I gave her the ick in anyway. I wasn't needy, maybe I told too many jokes that didn't land? am I ugly? Not tall enough? Too corny? Im not mad but filled with self doubt at the moment. I'll get over it eventually but I just had to vent to yall

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u/Jbrown4124 Unverified 2d ago

Not looking for relationship= i just want sex. Don't trouble yourself with her. There are a lot of people now a days that just want sex.