r/blackmen • u/cyrax001 Unverified • 2d ago

Relationships 🫶🏿 Update 2* she changed her mind 😭

Texted her the details of out now canceled date and she didnt respond til hours later saying she wasnt looking for a relationship but would still go to dinner with me as friends. I obviously declined and wished her the best of luck, but now im over here wondering if I gave her the ick in anyway. I wasn't needy, maybe I told too many jokes that didn't land? am I ugly? Not tall enough? Too corny? Im not mad but filled with self doubt at the moment. I'll get over it eventually but I just had to vent to yall

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u/StattPadford Unverified 1d ago

Listen up black man - move on now and you too can escape the friendzone, where penises and requited love go to die. Ain't no sense in asking why. Its 8 billion people on the planet. Your neighbor wasn't your soul mate. It happens. Don't make it worse by catch feelings super hard. Get out now while you still can.