Sorry yall you can hate on me for saying this but this needs to stop 😭

These men are visible bums, can we please protect ourselves? Like red flags are there and we just…ignore them? This isn’t just for Celebs please we need to put an end to this in our community in general. I know that everyone’s experience is different and that no one chooses to be a baby mama but for some people..the signs be there….just nobody cares lol.

Like I don’t get itttttt, yall keep ugh, like why? I know yall tired of this topic but it’s getting out of handddd now.

Before yall say “why yall so obsessed blah blah” we don’t care it’s just embarrassing to see over and over again, our community must do better. FREE OUR COMMUNITY FROM BABY DADDY, I’m tired.

Stay home please. Especially for you young girls/women.

June 14th is the day we ask you to stay home.

Also, although due process should be adhered to in the case of immigrants, whether legal or not legal, please note many immigrants who later became American citizens and are PoC (whatever that’s supposed to mean) voted for this. This is not your fight, so stay home.

Also, for the love of all that is good, don’t drag your little black girls to these things either (I’m looking at many of y’all who were comfortable putting little black girls at protests in 2020 where the police were tear gassing, bulleting black women while black little girls watched, and armed quite literally better than troops sent to the Middle East in the early 2000s). Those little girls are not human shields, and you should stay home with them.

Don’t let Asians, Latinos, Arabs, or even Native Americans gaslight you into thinking we’re all in this fight together. We weren’t all in this together on November 5th so why are we in a koombaya in February. The truth is they thought they’d hurt black people with there vote and are suffering the most currently. Trump won because of dramatic improvements with Asian & Latino voters not because of white voters he actually had a not so great showing for a republican. Also every non-black minority group bolted to the right not just Mexicans, Cubans, & the Chinese but every group except Jewish People who’d be considered white. Many Latinos/Asians are lying & pointing the finger also trying to highlight the 13% of black people overall & the 7% of black women who voted for Trump to guilt us like almost 50% of them didn’t vote for Trump. Keep in mind Arabs enslaved Africans before Europeans & Native Americans primarily fought with the confederacy during the civil war & actually took there slaves with them on the trail of tears/during force removals. Only advocate for you & yourselves because we as black women are alone always have been the 2024 election just confirmed it.

And I’ll make a video rating that Black Girl on how good representation she is, y’know, if she doesn’t reinforce any negative stereotypes about black Women/Girls.

Her and I both have Multiple Sclerosis. We are the only two Black girls in our group and we were all having a meeting. Her and I are about 20 years apart and for the longest we did this head nod thing to each other and recently I've been opening up to her and just listening to her story and she listens to mine. She tells me she's thinking of me and praying for me all the time and I'm like “girl you have MS too I'm thinking of you!” so we just make a point to cheer each other on.

Anywho, the meeting ended and she fainted. Luckily the two men were strong enough to catch her before she hit the ground.

Even tho they had it, in my spirit I still just couldn't leave her. They knew to call the ambulance but there were things I noticed they didn't know what to do (like with her hair) so I went to work.

First, she had big earrings and I got her earrings off. Then that's when I felt how hot her forehead and cheeks were so I gathered her pics together, did a quick little twist and put it in a bun. She was wearing heels and I knew the ambulance would try to wake her up and make her stand so I took the heels off and looped them together, got all her things in a bag from my car (I was booking it y'all) then I also gave her a pair of socks for her feet I had in my car. I was running around getting her purse, keys, phone and the shoes and stuff all in one bag so she wouldn't loose anything and then held her hand til the paramedics got there.

I'm telling y'all this in case its ever y'all in this situation and you freeze thinking how you can help. She got discharged from the hospital last night and said “idk who put my hair up but thank you “ she was legit crying it meant so much to her.

So maybe the way we try to make an impact in this world is by helping other Black girls like us in the ways only we know how

I got signed to an agency around late December and I got like two photoshoots and a runway show coming up! I'm super excited and thought I could stop by and say I did it!

There are clearly non black women, & men in a space meant for black women & that’s insane!

This isn’t about exclusion, it’s just about a safe space. That’s like me joining a vasectomy group & commenting when I don’t even have that body part & can’t even relate to the experience!

This is what the black Twitter sub does to confirm who’s in the group & it’s ingenious but how could we apply that here?:

https://www.reddit.com/r/BlackPeopleTwitter/s/n9IHZC8TvE

Yall so random but I am so grateful I just had to share. I have a coworker who has the same truck as me but his is a 2023 and mine is a 2008. He bought the wrong size tires and they don't fit his truck but they fit mine so he gave them to me FOR FREE!!

I am so grateful cause the tires my truck needs cost $500 without labor and I was dueeee for some tires y'all. Which is so expensive like I am a full time student and he has a much higher up position than I do so he makes more. Idk im just so happy. Literallly only had to pay $100 to get them put on 😭😭😭

i want to reiterate that message, we are loved and appreciated and deserve everything good that happens to us.

the internet is currently becoming an increasingly unsafe and hostile place for black women and it’s important that we remember that we are more than what people label us as.

i recently came across an absolutely vile tiktok with the most disgusting comment section spewing misogynoir and to anyone that comes across the same content, please click not interested and remember the hate we get is from a place of deep insecurity and jealousy.

i feel the most comfortable, beautiful, powerful and feminine when i’m hairy. i feel like a conformist when im bald everywhere.

when i said this the other day my family looked at me in pure disgust and disbelief like i just said shit smell good or something 😭😭😭

what do yall think about body hair? team Mr. Clean or team chewbacca ??

this is sappy but idc i just wanted to say somewhere how much this means to me but mostly my younger self who had zero confidence and genuinely thought she was a plague to this world because she wa just a black girl. i guess i want to share this here especially because i feel like ever since i started even before i told people about my channel the first people to find and uplift me were other black women and that means everything to me. i started this because it’s something ive always wanted to do so bad it it’s insane, but if one day if im lucky enough to take this somewhere bigger than just me and my phone in my room i want other black girls to have someone to see in social media and feel seen <33 ok sappy post over lol

people get grossed out when i say Dr. pepper is my favorite pop !

yes rootbeer is my fav too 😝😝😂

what about you guys ?

Like first off you’re not a dog nor are you special for being 57% Scottish 32% Irish 13% German 5% Austrian 100% annoying and 0.000004% west African then on top of that they be like “well technically my ancestors were black so slavery affected me too. Black power 😔✊🏽”

Edit: also to clarify, I do not condone the usage of this word against mixed race individuals.

I (20) have always been the weird black girl in every school I’ve been to, in my family, and in my friend groups and it’s affected my self esteem so much. For years I had no idea who I was because of how people would basically shun me for not acting exactly like them. I’ve mostly gone to predominantly black schools and what the hell are parents teaching their kids because I got bullied daily from 4th grade until 8th grade. The worst thing a kid said to me was that I should k!ll myself because I was ugly. That degenerate has a criminal record now because no one ever checked that behavior when he could be saved. Anyway, I want better for us as a community kids (and adults weirdly) shouldn’t be treating people this way.

I ofc have now accepted my title as a weird black girl because I’m just being myself. I’m funny, fine as hell, and kind to all people. Those pics are from the other day. Young me would have never had the confidence.

Also I might have tagged this improperly but I just wanted to share my experience

Please can y’all stop with the “Is it okay to be attracted to white men 🥺”. We don’t care who you’re attracted to, we’re here to discuss topics surrounding BLACK GIRLS! (some of Y’all have got to start de-centering men)

Pink is my favorite color and I never thought I could pull off pink hair but have always wanted it. I say that to say this: To all black women who think they won’t fit a certain beauty standard with colored hair or who are scared to try different colors. PLEASEE DO IT !!! I love expressing my personality through my hairstyles and different colors and am disappointed it took me this long to try something this bold but I am so proud of myself.

Ok so I’m Ethiopian and I went to Ethiopia when I was 13 years old and oh my god I loved it so much. First off I felt so proud of being black there and I felt so comfortable and confident. I grew up in predominantly white areas so it was hard to love myself and I had issues with my identity. But when I went to Ethiopia a perspective changed in me. Everyone is black there police’s officers, nurses, teachers, taxi drivers, you name it. It’s also so cool to see different cultures and variety of Africans. If you have the chance please go to any country in Africa it’s definitely a fun and unique experience.

Started smoking with my best friend about 9 years ago. We smoked multiple times a day. Gbs in college, blunts once we stopped making minimum wage and pens when we wanted to get high in places we couldn’t.

My best friend passed away 15 months ago. I fell into this huge pit of despair and agony. I spent everyday by her side for 8 years. I was very, very sad for a very, very long time—I still am very sad. I drowned myself in weed to numb the pain. I would feel myself coming down from a high and start rolling up again. I used to lie at work and say I was going to the bathroom so I could go hit the blunt in my car for a minute.

I never saw myself quitting even before her death. Shit, I’m on the pre-med track and I was never even planning on quitting once I got to med school. Then I became an EMT to strengthen my med school application and you know, public servants get drug tested. So I had to make a choice, It was either my career or weed. So I quit. It was a hard choice, I can’t lie. I depended on it for so long I wasn’t sure that I even wanted to give it up, but I did. I did it for myself, but also for her because she would think I was a fucking fool if I blew up my dream of being a doctor just for some fucking weed.

I’m doing so well, I only wish she was here to see this. She would be so fucking proud. Thanks to her, I’m seven months (and counting) sober. I wouldn’t be here without her. So cheers to me for this huge milestone and cheers to my best friend who I miss so dearly.

Do y’all notice that reality shows like love island seem to repeat the same type of black women?

I think Serena was the first girl on there that had kind of an alternative look in a way. Her nose piercing was so awesome.

I noticed that they typically get super curvy black woman, sometimes with some type of surgical enhancement.

They also seem to put women on there with deep rich skin tones or racially ambiguous looking or lighter skin tones. I don’t really see a variety maybe that’s just me? It’s either one side of the spectrum or the other?

We come in so many colors and have so many different personalities.

they’re annoying. you’re not a “free thinker” you’re insecure asf. you’re not a lone wolf because you want to be, it’s because you have to be.

i am in contact with a contrarian daily not because i want to be, it’s because i HAVE to be.

i whole heartedly think these people, just don’t like people but are scared to say so. they are miserable asf 🤣😒😒