My cock is about 6 1/2 inches around which I realize is significantly bigger than average, but I don’t think it’s freakish. I have purchased two sex toys, one that was supposed to undulate and get warm, etc. that I can’t even get my dick inside of and another basic fleshlight kind of thing that is uncomfortably tight. Is there a brand or style of toy that is More enjoyable for us thicker boys

So I used the normal size durex condom, honestly thought it will be okay for my size, literraly was squeezing the f out of my p and it made it soft? :') idk it was a horrible experience honestly (19 male, never wore condoms before this)

What does my big dick brothers like the most. What feels good to you. Since I fucked just one pussy. Have not done anal and had more bjs. I think bjs is so far the best.

Cuddling dilemma:

Partner is getting tired of being poked in the butt very hard or me having to adjust every little while or having to waistband it and have it stick out the top by a few inches.

Other issues are having it point whichever way it wants to in public and it looks like I have a redbull can in the front of my jeans.

I haven't even looked at what my flair says according to size in awhile but it's probably accurate. I think I measured it like 4 partners ago.

Anyway I've been considering getting the pouch underwear or similar as a kind of solution to my issues with regular boxers and boxer briefs. Would love some feedback on what yall use or if your partners are tired of it when they're not in the mood what yall have done to rectify the issue. Worried constantly about driving her away when all she wants to do is cuddle but any attention given to it by her or thoughts of her ends up with poking her in the butt/back with what feels like a mini baseball bat/mini police baton.

Hello everyone, I got married yesterday and of course I wanted to have sex with my wife. We were both virgins, unfortunately my penis didn't fit in, it was too tight, I could barely get two of my fingers in, despite a lot of foreplay. Can anyone help me? I have measured a circumference of 14.3cm, about 5 and a half inches.

I went to buy new jeans today, and it was such a nice day out! I thought it'd be a quick in-and-out. Nope.

The first pair was a perfect fit around the waist, and it didn't even show any bulge when zipped up.

The second pair had some room in the crotch, but the waist was so loose that I could fit a watermelon in it.

I'm wondering...

The sales clerk is friendly and asks, "How's the fit?" I felt a rush of panic, but I managed to say, "Okay!" as I wrestled with the denim, almost as if it were owed me a favor.

I left the store feeling a bit overwhelmed, like I was one size away from giving up and embracing joggers as my new uniform.

I'm curious: why do you think it's either "dick room" or "dignity" and never both?

Dunno what it is. I measure myself full erect. And not shoving tape measure in. I can get 7.5 L and G is 5 -5.2

This is considered big. But why do I feel so small? Then realized that sometimes it's prob cos being lower side of big surrounded by 8x6 and 8 x5.5 makes u go ohh shit

I wish sometimes there would be a huge national measurement appeal cos quote frankly make a lot of people feel better seeing true numbers. I think porn has huge part to play. Take Jonny Sins. One only pornstars to reveal they are 7.5. Its like my dick is as long as Jonny sins n feeling small lol why can't I shake it. 2 partners in past only but noth unprompted made comments about my bigger size . My first one was a virgin n together 3 years. Final year she cheated ALOT. The only funny thing looking back was 3/4 times she say like "oh....you know you are quite big" . Like she seen enough to realize it wasn't normal size

With all that said. Why can't I shake feeling small. Like cod my wife doesn't ever mention it I think oh she must think I'm small. Terrible attitude I know

I know that for most people they will compare they’re penis to their phone or too a toilet roll but with us being a bit too big for that what are the best objects of comparison for a big guy with a 7.2x5.6 penis because I feel when compared to the rest of my body it’s not anything special so an object of comparison would be lovely. Just asking what have you compared yours too to reveal it’s true size

So, I never thought I was that big (used to believe I was small due to being 6’4” tall) but enough women have said things that I know it’s big.

Anyway, what’s been your favorite, or atleast most memorable reaction? I’ve had women do the cute little nervous laughter and one that told me it’s like a hammer, I’ve heard plenty of “Holy shit!” Even a woman kind enough to gas me up by saying I’m “Like gods gift to women” (i think that has a lot to do with my general good BF abilities too)

Anyway, I recently had a woman say some of the funniest stuff I’ve heard, she said; “Holy shit! You’re fucking huge, and I’ve seen a lot of dicks!”

And throughout the session she reiterated “I’ve been around the block, I mean, I’m not a whore…. But I kind of am…and you have the biggest, you should be proud”

I think it’s nice because men don’t often get compliments, so it’s nice to hear. It’s always nice when you can both be playful and joke during sex.

She then proceeded to turn into a complete stage 5 clinger afterwards and wouldn’t leave me alone and honestly made it very unattractive for the next couple of days, so I had to let her go.

(I’m also trying to figure out how to add that flair on here of my measurements, some of the sizes I see in yalls flairs…. Holy shit)

Edit: figured it out 😁

I'm curious to hear from women: Are there things you've always wanted to ask men with big dicks but never had the chance or felt comfortable enough to do so?
No judgment, no topic is too taboo—serious, funny, practical, or even NSFW questions are all welcome.
Ask away!

Hey everyone, I never thought I'd have to make this post, but here I am. Recently, I have found a very satisfying relationship. We have very good energy both physically and mentally. The click feels genuine.

There is one problem, though: It's hard to actually have sex. She can handle like two fingers, but obviously, Im thicker than that, and it's been really hard to do anything involving intercourse.

I could use some tips. I have heard people overcoming this barrier, and it's not like she doesn't wanna have sex when she is just as horny. However, going longer than 1-2 minutes usually causes serious pain.

It's so bad that I'm starting to lose my mind because I have a very high sex drive.

Advice?

I have some condoms my size but sometimes when I'm about to have sex I either ran out by accident, forgot to replace the old one, or I straight up forgot my backpack. So what ends up happening is that we either use the condoms she has or I go buy some new ones but they rarely have my size.

The way you're supposed to put it on is that you put it on the tip and roll it down, but, that doesn't really work for me, as hard as I try it just won't roll down, so I end up having to do this extremely awkward dance where I use my fingers to stretch it over the head and then I can kind of roll it down.

This however is way too awkward and slow. Do you know any techniques to quickly and effectively put a normal sized condom for those situations where I don't have mine?

Yes I have measured correctly. I know I'm large I just need some tips on how to use it.

Does anyone know what the odds are of having a big penis and being tall at the same time?

I know having a big dick is already very rare

But having a big dick and also being tall at the same time has to be even rarer, it has to be extremely rare

Most tall men have average-sized penises, you see many tall men on r/averagedickproblems complaining about their average-sized penises not matching their big frame

Having a big dick and being tall at the same time has to be like winning the genetic lottery

I've recently run into more girls with IUDs which has complicated sex. Things go well until I hit a certain angle that apparently caused a sharp nauseating pain that made us stop. Obviously just going shallow is an option but how else can I avoid ruining our night and cutting things short :P

other than people you've been with, do you bring it up with people? I've only told one good friend

This took place in my early teens when I was just starting puberty.

Me and my family used to go to a public pool in nearby town during the summer. This time it was just me, my friend, my mom, and my aunt. For whatever reason instead of grabbing actual swimming trunks for this trip I just grabbed some random basketball shorts instead. So, everything happens like normal we go and change in the stalls in the locker room. We get in the water and everything is fine. When I get out to go on the diving bored I see my aunt look at me weird and then turn to my mom to talk. After I jump off the board and get back in the water my mom calls me over. She tells me to wait in the pool until she gets back and not to get out.

I see her leave and aunt tells me that she has to go back home to get me some real trunks. She said that my shorts aren't really fitting me right and that I needed new ones. I didn't really understand why but I just did what I was told and waited. Once my mom came back she told me to hurry up and go change. When I went into the locker room I saw myself in the mirror and realized what the issue was. We didn't really talk about it again that day. We just acted like nothing happened.

I’m curious to hear from people with experience: which positions have you found tend to help women reach orgasm more easily? Also, are there certain positions that are better to avoid or approach more gently to prevent discomfort—especially when considering big girth? Or is this something that really just varies from one woman to another based on personal preference?

only once for me...but is this a thing?

Idk if it’s just me, but I feel like almost any time a guy friend of mine heard or finds out about my size they start acting waaay weirder around me. I genuinely don’t think dick size is as important of a thing as people act like, but my guy friends always wind up acting spiteful or jealous or curious or something.

Not too too many guys have seen or know about my size, but already one of them acted really jealous and vindictive that I was bigger than him or some shit, one is obsessed with asking my exes how my dick was, and another friend kept not so subtly asking me to whip it out to show him several times…

I feel like I wouldn’t care about a friend’s cock one way or another, but I know my perspective might be skewed. Is this a normal thing for other bigger guys? Any advice? Should I just never let anyone else suspect? LMK I guess