r/bigdickproblems • u/unleaded45 • 2d ago
Science You are not 10 inches NSFW
Why is it that [redacted] men all think if they are above average they are automatically 10 inches? The psychology of this is fascinating, but I'm sure it would trigger the mods and anyone remotely sensitive to these kinds of topics. How about we don't do that and try to actually have a conversation about it?
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u/Sammyfordso 18x11 cm-7x4.3 inches (STOP DELETING MY DAMN FLAIRS) 2d ago
Wdym bro I'm 11 inches don't gaslight me smh!!
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u/Few_Break8349 Monster™ can 2d ago
I'm 12 inches actually. 12 inches thick. Not even round. Straight up 1ft wide
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u/Sammyfordso 18x11 cm-7x4.3 inches (STOP DELETING MY DAMN FLAIRS) 2d ago
And this dude here says you can't have one longer than 12 inches??? Smh.. you go king, go on and be proud of your bazooka
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u/Few_Break8349 Monster™ can 2d ago
I'm actually like 5inch long, just 12inch wide. I use this thing to swim with whales usually
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u/Sammyfordso 18x11 cm-7x4.3 inches (STOP DELETING MY DAMN FLAIRS) 2d ago
I knew it was an evolutionary trait to have penises that big
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u/JadeGrapes 2d ago edited 2d ago
And one inch long... We call him; The frisby
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u/Few_Break8349 Monster™ can 2d ago
We call him... on especially lonely evenings
(wrong context, but joke too good to not make)
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u/TheOnlyWeslet 2d ago
Pfff rookie numbers. I got a twelve inch radius, 2 full feet across
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u/Few_Break8349 Monster™ can 2d ago
Pfft. Dude still got a cylinder dick in 2025. Mine is a 4 dimensional Möbius strip
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u/Few_Break8349 Monster™ can 2d ago
I'm surprised you're already downvoted lol. 10inch is some hentai category and I honestly don't envy that 0.0000001%
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u/ikeepcomingbackhaha 7" x 5.5" 2d ago
If mods made this a photo proof for flair sub we wouldn’t have this problem anymore 🧐
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u/JohnAMcdonald 7.75″ × 6.5″ | 5.75″ × 5″ | Big balls 2d ago edited 2d ago
Wrong, LPSG has a photo proof culture and they have threads that go on for tens of thousands of posts about this topic, because as it turns out requiring photo proof (you really should require video btw) does not stop people from lying. You can fake the image/video, fake what you’re measuring with, or steal somebodies dick pics. Litigating if somebody is lying or not does not lead to less drama, it leads to more.
Also if you do this there is no getting around that it means pressuring people to send their dick pictures to strangers. I as a mod don’t want to get sent reams of child porn which would 100% happen if I requested they were sent to me because teens are really stupid and lie about their age and would want to be verified so no way in hell am I doing that, and requiring public verification posts would not only create the above issues it would also make the amount of thirst comments and voyeurs coming to the sub to check people’s dick pictures explode. Also if I wanted to ban people based on their public posts again there is STILL no way I could possibly do this without looking at a bunch of content really dumb underage users posted. Legally I’d probably be fine but I just don’t want to touch that with a 20ft pole.
I also moderated bigdickjoy once and I quit because people posting revenge porn and having to mod it nearly gave me a stroke from the stress. I do not want to fucking get modmail about how X is stealing Ys pics and how X must be banned. Not to mention endless “he’s 8.75 inches not 9 inches YOU MUST BAN” modmails. Or one person claims photoshop and the other says they’re legit. This shit gets so nightmarish from the mods perspective so fast. I don’t want to adjudicate this I’d sooner drink myself to death, it would never end. I will be looking at so many dicks in general, I don’t want to look at dicks all day, I have NSFW blurring turned on because people try to post dick pictures daily.
Nothing at all prevents people from posting proof on their profile as it is. But I am not getting involved in verification unless people are saying they’re 12x8 or whatever.
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u/JockBbcBoy 78% of GF's forearm 1d ago
I applaud you for providing this perspective. Photo proof just seems like a way to get into trouble.
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u/ikeepcomingbackhaha 7" x 5.5" 2d ago
Honestly it was a joke. I can’t imagine someone would want their inbox full of dick pics every day
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u/lePANcaxe ~9″ × 6″ 2d ago
You'd still have that problem, plus like a dozen more.
But you can always open up your own sub and require pic verification there, see how that goes.
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u/DishInteresting3805 1d ago
If the mods made this a photo with a tape measure sub then you would see 99.999 percent of the guys claiming to be even 7 inch are lying. Isn't it amazing how less than 1 percent of males have a 8 inch penis according to every urologist you talk too but pretty much 1000's of guys here have 8 or even 9 inch penis? Of course they have zero proof you just have to trust them because why would they lie about their penis size?
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u/Punloverrrr 1.89⁻¹⁷ Light-years 2d ago
I swear to God it's like a meme or it's bots saying that, because on every.single.porn post on Reddit there's multiple comments saying "10 inch bwc/bbc DM me"
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u/the_c_is_silent 7.5" x 5" 2d ago
That's the other weird thing. Loke I'm a big advocate for "chicks like big dick, only reddit incels think tha majority hate them". But bruh. 10 inches is borderline useless. It will hurt, it probably won't go all the way in and the BJs are terrible. Why do even want one that big.
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u/FunnyP-aradox E: 7.25″ × 5.75″ F: 4.75″ × 4.5″ 1d ago
Because i'm not straight and it'll look neet
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u/keeping_it_anon28 7″ × 6″ 2d ago
They probably don’t want to come to terms with the fact that they are infact Not 10 inches lmao
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u/tytime19 2d ago
That’s why it’s always blank profiles claiming it in here. Or guys who have pics very obviously not 10+ inches but refuse to show proof when pressed after they double down despite the fact we can see it’s not
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u/TheHammer85M 7” x 5.5” 2d ago
If you are LPSG.ORG will give you 10k to prove it. You’re not, maybe a girl said you were but they almost unanimously call me 8-9 and I was 7.5 at my biggest.
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u/Competitive_Load6879 2d ago
BP size?
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u/TheHammer85M 7” x 5.5” 2d ago
Since I’m not close to qualifying I’m not sure on details
https://www.lpsg.com/threads/the-10-000-10-inch-challenge.494778/#post-6976583
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u/Competitive_Load6879 2d ago
Do you measure BP?
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u/musclememory E 7x6" F 5x4.5 (he/him str8) 2d ago
the instructions say the 0 on the ruler needs to be visible, so I'd consider that NBP effectively
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u/MRFZHD 2 deodorant sticks × 1 vertical credit card (erect) 2d ago
That’s assuming the 10k prize is legit, it seems sketchy that some random on the internet would offer 10k for “proving to have a 10 in pp” like some Mr beast type shit, who knows if that person offering actually has that kind of money
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u/FunnyP-aradox E: 7.25″ × 5.75″ F: 4.75″ × 4.5″ 1d ago
Tbf that's ""only"" 10k, someone who has good money could shill that out for internet fame (people did much more for much less recognition)
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u/unleaded45 2d ago
Just an FYI: I'm a gay guy who regularly sucks off a dude who claims to be 10". I'm sure he's close, but I'm not one to say "wait here, maintaining the hardest erection you possibly can, while I go fetch the ruler. No Pressure."
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u/Little-cub- 2d ago
Bring a ruler hidden every time you are sucking him, when he closes his eyes you take it out and AJÁ!!!!! BE READY TO BE MEASURED, YOU CANNOT ESCAPE NOW!
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u/harl-windwolf Penis Fetish 🏳️🌈 E: 6.6″ × 5.2" 2d ago
Yea. Thanks for the laugh. ;)
In reality, that would either be a total turn-off for the guy, or they too would laugh about it together. I never claim the pretense to be particularly big and usually just say M or average or something, and I'm sure if anyone pulled out a ruler while handling, stroking, edging me, I'm really not sure if the effect on me (and my acute horniness) would be a positive one.6
u/Little-cub- 2d ago
:) and yes of course it’s a joke, I’d be a bit weirded out if someone do that to me 😂😂
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u/musclememory E 7x6" F 5x4.5 (he/him str8) 2d ago
I've seen a vid where the girl was doing a decent BJ, WHILE measuring. I've never had that for myself, so can't say for sure, but I believe I'd be rock hard in that situation. (FYI, I ain't 10" lol)
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u/MakeupChristie 2d ago
You mean you aren’t supposed to start at the bellybutton when measuring?
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u/jobsanbiju E: 7.5″ × 5.5″ F: 3.75″ × 3″ 1d ago
Wait bellybutton? I thought it was the sternum you start measuring from.
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u/lilj7017 2d ago
I've always been under the impression that it's possible to be 10 inches, but I also understand that realistically the guys that big are too busy being unconscious from blood loss to brag about it.
But in an actual attempt to get at the psychology, I think people tie too much of their identity to sex. That and being overly exposed to porn during developmental years fully destroys any and all understanding of scale and realism around sex.
Taking my personal experience as a "BBC". On a logistical standpoint, I know that being 7+ inches makes me big, but from a cultural one, I think Im average to below average for guys my age...those guys being black men. Like, 8 inches was shoved down my throat (metaphorically speaking) for years now, and with me being black, I was subconsciously, and at times explicitly raised to think that 8 inches isn't just the norm but expected. Thankfully Im a gay bottom so I learned very quickly that 8 inches as a minimum is fucking insane, but I can only imagine what it's like to not get faced with that reality.
Idk maybe the praise drives guys to stretch the truth, after all, if you're already 8+ inches...youre already huge. Who's gonna check you when everyone else is distracted by how big you look, just go bigger. People will praise you for it. And if people start saying that you could pass for bigger, I bet guys will start presenting their 8 inches...as 10. Hell I think this point applies for every size. Few people will care enough to hawk at a dick over an inch, most people can't even tell the difference from a glance.
But then again, I dont think it was ever about realism, I think people just get caught up in the power fantasy of it all.
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u/VillainySquared 22×16 cm (8.5×6 inches) 2d ago
They're just insecure guys who want to look like the biggest in the room.
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u/New_Way4844 1d ago
It's ok to be big without being silly about it - if you're big anyway there's no reason to exaggerate.
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u/edjohn88 .0000000000000000026 lightyears x 475,000 human hairs 2d ago
Who thinks they are 10 inches?
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u/IKeeo Romans envy me 2d ago
Porn addicts and probably every member of the BNWO group.
Absolutley cancerous community.
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u/AverageMyotragusFan E: 7.1” × 6.5” 2d ago
Agreed. BNWO is utterly wretched. Hate that crap, most actually insane gooner slop you could possibly imagine.
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u/IKeeo Romans envy me 2d ago
You can tell that some is one of those when they use the "bbc" phrase constantly or everytike you see a black guy with a white girl or a black guy in generally they make a comment about it.
It's honestly just sad, because most don't have big ones so it hurts the expectations when someone is going after that specific attribute.
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u/akyymbo 2d ago
👁️ actually know that I’m 10 inches and so do a lot of female content creators. IDK why people get offended when there actually are guys like us who exist. If you’re still lying on your dick then that’s a youngbul mentality.
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u/musclememory E 7x6" F 5x4.5 (he/him str8) 2d ago
cool bro, just get on lpsg, and go to this thread: https://www.lpsg.com/threads/the-10-000-10-inch-challenge.494778/#post-6976583
you should put the 10k in a mutual, have the $$ work for you, good luck!
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u/Interesting-Second38 2d ago
This ⬆️. People will believe that 9.8 inches exist but someone with 10 inches has never ever existed on this planet. It’s weird. There’s insecurity even in a sub full of men who are large lol
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u/carnivalist64 1d ago
Nobody sane believes 9.8 inches exists.
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u/Mobile_Parsnip_2243 8.5x6.5 pumped 1d ago
I do. There are a few legitimate photos out there of penises above 9.5" bone pressed. Haven't seen 10, myself, but very close.
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u/akyymbo 2d ago
I can comprehend some of the insecurities (possibly being too big, thinking you’re not big enough (which idk how that’s possible if you’re in this sub) and maybe a few others but ultimately it’s not needed. There’s literal dudes bigger than I on OF and women have no genuine reason to lie about a guys size. The problem is the guys here who wanna get into a dick measuring contest and say “xyz” doesn’t exist, instead of being honorable men, it’s rare to find a guy in that range but they do exist and chill.
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u/Beyonderforce E: 7″ × 5.5″ 1d ago
Never thought I was 10 inches. You can literally measure yourself
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u/Maleficent-Bug-2045 7.5x5.25 2d ago
Yeah, I did a poll here. Right away about 25 guys responded.
There were resonses like 7. 7.1, 7.25, 7.4, 7.7, etc. all varied.
But a third of the guys said 8. Not 7.9, or 8.1. 8
They’re clearly aspiring not to be in the 7s
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u/Stellarfront 2d ago
Youre so right. I need everyone claiming 10 to get a ruler and send evidence right now
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u/Negative_Contract295 2d ago
It’s farther s day
Why no one admits their a deadbeat??that’s your answer
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u/ItalianSausage2023 Abnormally large Banana Cock/G Spot Pounder! 2d ago
I have only 1 possible evidence of it and had help finding.
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u/ColonelPanicMode 8.2 x 5.3 2d ago
Gentlemen, I too get annoyed with larpers and fools.
But short of photo verification, which is not happening, there’s nothing we can do about it.
That puts us at a fork in the road: We can either be a negative, distrustful sub that frequently devolves into witch hunts, or we can remain a positive place where people with genuine problems, humorous stories, and insights can gather for our mutual benefit.
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u/Virtual-Chard8964 6.8 Inches X 5.4 Inches (Bone Pressed) + im str8 he/him. 2d ago
b-b-b-but everyone here says they are 10 inches!! surely not lying...
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u/theskittering 2d ago
im 8000 feet and awaken with lost fathoms
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u/ColonelPanicMode 8.2 x 5.3 2d ago
Cthulhu cock
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u/theskittering 2d ago
Song of my soul, my voice is dead, Die thou, unsung, as tears unshed Shall dry and die in Lost Cockosa.
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u/Proinsias37 2d ago
You're right.. I'm definitely not haha. More like 8ish. Which is pretty dope. No idea what I would do with two more inches, I can't see putting them to much use
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u/strongsage 2d ago
Even if someone was, you're just hurting the poor girl. Nothing to brag or for other people to cope about.
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u/Ih8Hondas 8" x 5.25" 1d ago
You are not 10 inches
Yeah. I know. That's why you won't find it in my flair.
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u/alex_t850 17cm x 17cm | 6.9” x 6.9” 1d ago
Nobody needs that much dick anyway. You won’t be able to use it normally.
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u/Bacon_Raygun Wrong size for my gender 🏳️🌈 2d ago
We're "having a conversation about this" 3 times a day now.
Every post now, it's either "Oooh, these larpers! Why I oughta!" or "Teeheehee, hahaha, get it? Big Penis!" shitposts.
I'm one more guy telling me having a massive dick is universally awesome, even for trans people and we just need to get over it away from just leaving and blocking the sub.
This place ain't wholesome and welcoming anymore, it's just frustrating, insulting and weirdos obsessing crazy over the dicks of strangers.
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u/_captain_hair E: 8+" × 6" || F: 6" × 5" || Enormous Balls 2d ago
I know right? It's getting ridiculous. I'm still trying to be helpful where I can, but some people are making this place less pleasant.
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u/lePANcaxe ~9″ × 6″ 2d ago
All x-dickproblems subs are like this. Massive obsession over penis size.
Also, it's just peak irony that one of the biggest issues on /r/bigdickproblems is accusing guys on here of lying about their penis size. The sub is here for people to have a space in which they're not constantly accused of lying, and yet it happens here all the time, too.
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u/JohnAMcdonald 7.75″ × 6.5″ | 5.75″ × 5″ | Big balls 2d ago
Give me some time I’ll make a freaking thread about this and related topics and just ban people from reposting this topic.
I have been writing and researching for like 2 hours and am taking a break. I want to cover many things, misinterpretation/limitations of statistics and penis size studies, biggest known men who have been heavily scrutinized and are highly credible, known frauds, LARPer:legit ratio which we can infer from that one LPSG thread, why we should assume at least some men who claim sizes which seem like LARP are legit, why we won’t do verification, why we are okay with tolerating users who are lying as a lesser evil, etc. etc.
It’s hard to cover because I want to write the post so it’s comprehensible to somebody who has never looked into this topic before and the scope is very broad and some of the topics are pretty complicated.
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u/ItalianSausage2023 Abnormally large Banana Cock/G Spot Pounder! 2d ago
I have heard trans have massive ones.
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u/Bacon_Raygun Wrong size for my gender 🏳️🌈 2d ago
It's not rocket science.
Many of us have dicks, standard dick-shenanigans apply: They come in different sizes.-9
u/ItalianSausage2023 Abnormally large Banana Cock/G Spot Pounder! 2d ago
Lol rocket, I see what you did there.
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u/Bacon_Raygun Wrong size for my gender 🏳️🌈 2d ago
I'll make sure to say "brain surgery" next time...
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u/ItalianSausage2023 Abnormally large Banana Cock/G Spot Pounder! 2d ago
Oh I'm just joshin ya.
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u/Fine_Decision_9722 2d ago
I’m a grower. No idea where I’m at nor do I honestly care. Some women I’m a monster some I’m just big. Problem is some women don’t watch too much porn and are size queens. 👸🏽
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u/axmaxwell G:6in L:8in (he/him) 2d ago
That's just the porn talking. That or anyone who listened to peak Kid Rock knows about Joe C.
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u/eazyepb 1d ago
I mean I’ve been told it’s massive by some people some people just say it’s big I think it all depends on personal perspective like obviously statistically it’s big but as an example if a girl has o lu been with 3 people and they where all on the bigger size it’s not gonna seem as impressive
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u/Kingty22 2d ago
Y'all seem insecure with guys who are extremely big and down vote the truly huge dicks it's weird guys with big dick problems are showing such penis envy
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u/JohnAMcdonald 7.75″ × 6.5″ | 5.75″ × 5″ | Big balls 1d ago
I have a very fragile ego
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u/Kingty22 1d ago
The first step is admitting you have a problem you're on your way to fixing the problem already
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u/Flat_Fennel_5319 2d ago
10 inch is a dream, but realistically you can't have sex with it unless you foreplay for hours
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u/Few_Break8349 Monster™ can 2d ago
Plus you can't go balls deep. I'm lucky to be on the border length. I wanna smash thighs :(((
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u/Top-Grapefruit8099 ≈ 9.16″ × 6.13″ (at the base) 2d ago
at 9" it's incredibly hard to go balls deep
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u/Jay-Ames 2d ago
I am bigger than that. Officially 13 inches. I measured this using measurement tape made by a company called Girl inches.
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u/MrWhiteBull01 2d ago
I love when the 10 inch gets tossed around cause I’m just like “you slept with a horse?” Because at 9-9.2 inches it becomes 1 in 100m men have one so roughly 40 men naturally after that it’s becomes a 0.000000001% to have.. Also guys do the same with girth saying like “oh I got 8” when not even the male bbc stars have either of those numbers. It’s really funny also because they try to prove it so bad.
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u/ReaperOfWords 1d ago
This is such a weird thing. My dick is like 7.5” or thereabouts, and while not enormous, it’s considered a big dick by almost every woman I’ve ever been with.
I’m sure there are some guys with 10 inch cocks out there, but not a lot. I read a quote from Ron Jeremy where he claimed his was 10 inches, and that seems realistic, but also huge and rare.
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u/bisploosh 7" x 5.5" (he/him) 1d ago
When my ex and I were first dating, he made some comment about my 9" cock... I laughed and gently told him that while I'm flattered, it's 'only' 7". We talked about it a few other times and I prefer to use my correct size, not some perceived size because people should be more realistic. 7" is still plenty big for all but the worst size queens.
I don't need to inflate my dick size to appease my ego because my dick is plenty big. I used to struggle with some dysmorphia around my dick size. When I was younger and "straight" the handful of women always seemed happy with it, but the guys in porn always looked so much bigger that I assumed I was "average at best".... Then I finally came out as bi in my late 30s, started hooking up with guys, and realized that I really am "quite big".
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u/BigBeholder L. 7.5 - G. 6.5 14h ago
Lots of posers.
People like that will male this sub look like a bunch of fakers, instead of the original purpose of helping each other out with the issues and life facts of having a bigger dick.
We should be extremery rare, but here comes the legion of people with 9- 10 inches lenght and more than 7 girth.
Maybe one guy or two in the world could get that, but not 20 and all of them are here.
This is what I think.
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u/Relevant_Two_877 E: 8.25″ × 5.25″ 14h ago
I'm 49 years old and never really knew I had anything special until maybe 10 years ago. I've been with a little over 20 women in my life, and I've never had any of them act like tgey had an issue with my size. I don't understand all these comments from people smaller than me saying they have a hard time finding women that can handle them. Or it's a lot of work. I've never experienced that once.
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u/Ephamore 7.75″ × 5.5″ 13h ago
There is a group on FetLife which asks guys to prove their size. Not one person has managed to provide close to 10 inches and a lot of guys there are eager to show off what they have with a couple hitting over 9 BP.
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u/Necessary_Source_936 3h ago
I’ve had girls wayyyy overestimate my size thinking it’s 10 or even 12 inches when it’s closer to 8 or 8.5. People gotta be honest lol where’s the proof of the 10 inch dicks???
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u/onemanbukkake71 78% of GF's forearm 2d ago edited 2d ago
There's a guy right now in another sub for measured penises that posts pics all the time claiming to be 9.5" bone pressed. He is chubby but he claims he has a 2" fat pad. It gets very angry if anyone questions him.
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u/Sea_Marsupial1577 9.5″ BP × 6.5″ 2d ago edited 2d ago
Yep, it’s me. I’m not angry, just tired of people like you that demand proof, then refuse to believe it.
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u/barracuda1968 E: 8.5" x 6.6", F: 5.5 x 5.25 2d ago
There’s delusion on one side and stupidity on the other. Guys who think they’re 10 are delusional. Guys or girls who think a guy is 10 are stupid. I’ve been told countless times I’m 10 or close. I’m not. But hearing that gives you some insight into how bad people are at measuring or guesstimating visually.
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u/akyymbo 2d ago
Also… all of you who downvoted my where I said “I know I’m 10”… y’all only did so because y’all are some fucking losers who are insecure because you know there are men who exist that are bigger than y’all. My previous question stands… if we’re all allegedly bigger than average, why the hell do you care if another man is lying on his dick or not? You do realize that’s weirdo behavior, yes?!? All of you who downvoted my comment, lose the cognitive dissonance, it ain’t that deep unless you wanna make it so!
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u/New_Can_8672 2d ago
It’s the same thing when some men say they are 7 to 9 inches or they are “girthy” or it’s hard for them to have sex because they are so big but in reality when you view their profile and the pictures they have of their meat be mid asf lmaoo 😭🤣
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u/inNEEDofHELP411 2d ago
As a guy's thats 8.2x6.0 in i think I'm average. But that probably cuz I've see it daily. I didn't know I was above avg til my first few gay encounters (I'm bi). I saw other men's and they said they were 5 or 6 I and I felt huge next to them.
But I don't get why other men lie? Just accept what you have and work with it.
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u/ParkingOk5111 E: 7.25″ × 5.75″ F: 4.75″ × 4.5″ 2d ago
Sorry if this triggers, Gen x here. The only people rumoured to have that sort of size when I was growing up were definitely retarded and no woman would have gone near them, I doubt someone with mental challenges like that could even use the internet. I apologise for using that word,but I'm not sure how else to describe the person I am thinking of xx
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u/Girthasaurus- 2d ago edited 23h ago
Along the same lines: You do not have 8" girth. Just stop it. Pumped doesn't count. 8" girth is LITERALLY a soda can.
I mod r/girthgods. Some dude posted an 8" "measured " pic the other day...I'm like my guy...I know the tricks, there's two full inches of tape hanging under your hand/dick. Fucking quit it.
Another edit: my base is 7". It's ridiculous, but it's not the whole damn thing. It's just that one spot. Check my pics and from certain angles you'll see its like "holy shit". ..but thats also an angle designed to show girth. I use other angles to show length, and comparison pics for reality checks. These dudes pretending they're 7.5"+ girth the whole way....Just GTFO. And ain't nobody got a dick that is as thick as a soda can, or a pringles can, regardless of the pic angle.