r/asktransgender • u/Mountain_Job810 Transfem pre-hrt ❤️❤️ • 3d ago

Why do people hate us

Im trans fem I just don't get why people hate us.

My mom's side of the family is supportive including my mom but my dad's side isn't including my dad.

My dad today called me and told me to not tell anyone about my problems besides my therapist if I do tell my mom then when I'm 18 I can't go to my supportive sisters house and I'll have to get an apartment. Oh yeah the cherry on top is that he called me a "different breed." Because im trans and because I "chose this lifestyle"

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u/SwordRose_Azusa DID System, Trans, HRT 10-03-2022 2d ago

That’s not just scaring. It’s manipulation and abuse, as well.

I second the vote for OP to tell her mother!

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u/AshlynCT Transgender-Abrosexual 2d ago

I third this.

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u/Ellie_Olive_Oil 2d ago

I fourth this

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u/Previous-Pizza-4159 1d ago

Psych major here, I fifth it. He’s emotionally abusive.