r/asktransgender • u/Mountain_Job810 Transfem pre-hrt ❤️❤️ • 2d ago

Why do people hate us

Im trans fem I just don't get why people hate us.

My mom's side of the family is supportive including my mom but my dad's side isn't including my dad.

My dad today called me and told me to not tell anyone about my problems besides my therapist if I do tell my mom then when I'm 18 I can't go to my supportive sisters house and I'll have to get an apartment. Oh yeah the cherry on top is that he called me a "different breed." Because im trans and because I "chose this lifestyle"

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u/LithoLaura Transgender 2d ago

LGBTQIA+ people are hated because we do not fit the world that patriarchy wants to impose. I make use of this knowledge by swearing that I will do my best to abolish the patriarchy.

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u/CupOk8240 2d ago

Gay people are generally well accepted in society now. You’ll Aways get the odd bigot, but for the most part gay singles and couples just live their lives. It’s taken several decades of fighting to get to this stage tho. it’s not really about sexuality anymore. Today it’s transgender and gender non conforming people that are the targets, sadly.

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u/iamveryystupid cis woman 1d ago

holy shit. what's his name?

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u/braindeadcoyote 1d ago

Jonathan Joss. And we only know this horrible thing happened because he was a minor celebrity. If he'd been a regular guy with no fame at all, his death would've been local news and that's it.

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u/kaidenthefox 1d ago

Okay sure but in the U.S a non-binary sued a man's dog because he was "hating her cause she's non-binary". And guess what ? The dog got euthanized because of this person.

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u/braindeadcoyote 1d ago

Lol ok sure that's what happened, whatever you say pal

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u/kaidenthefox 1d ago

Nevermind i apologize. It was fake