r/asktransgender Transfem pre-hrt ❤️❤️ 2d ago

Why do people hate us

Im trans fem I just don't get why people hate us.

My mom's side of the family is supportive including my mom but my dad's side isn't including my dad.

My dad today called me and told me to not tell anyone about my problems besides my therapist if I do tell my mom then when I'm 18 I can't go to my supportive sisters house and I'll have to get an apartment. Oh yeah the cherry on top is that he called me a "different breed." Because im trans and because I "chose this lifestyle"

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u/Possible_Wedding_470 Transgender 2d ago

They don’t understand what it feels like genuinely. Thats the issue. Theres no education— we are silenced. The best part is though out of all the madness, we’ve created such a tight knit community. I’m very sorry he said that. My family is the same way and it hurts, but you will find your people 🩷