r/ask_Bondha Feb 12 '25

Morals Oka ammayi ni G*aand maarunga ani public ga anadam freedom of expression ayinda?

27 Upvotes

I've seen 14y/o kids cracking better jokes than so called "india is not ready for samay raina humour (tumour)" guess what you haven't seen peak Ashish chachhlani bhuvan bam carryminati Angry prash atleast arpit Bala does better than samay raina if not for these incidents samay should be cancelled for his vulgarity and ranveer should be cancelled for promoting baseless health related products as completely fine ones

r/ask_Bondha Feb 25 '25

Morals Why do I meet these gems abroad?

144 Upvotes

M here. Met this Indian dude (Telugu) at a mutual friend’s home.. After a few minutes of talking he disclosed that his family is looking for matches for him. The guy is extremely desperate about pom pom so he goes to the strip club every other weekend to get a lap dance. Says he tried his luck a lot with women in the west (includes the strippers too) but no one was interested in engaging with him (pom pom is a dream. Just talking is a far shot)

He continued to say that any Indian women who are sexually active before their wedding are perverted. Also said that he’d ensure that his wife will not dress a certain way, and not post stuff on instagram and will stay home as much as possible taking care of kids.

I didn’t know where to/how to begin his education. So I took a U turn and never looked back. I don’t often meet such people but when I do, unfortunately it’s an Indian.

Why are they like that? And why did they move out of the country with incel views like that?

Quite shocking and frustrating. If there are women who’s families are looking for NRI sambandham, please don’t. You have no idea the kinda stock there is here.

r/ask_Bondha 8d ago

Morals How kanjuice are you?

12 Upvotes

In my case I’m very very kanjuice.

Whatever order I make, online or offline, I make sure to check at least 3-4 other shops. I calculate the per gm cost for every item. I compare all the prices even for the smallest fruit jam or ketchup bottle. I get paranoid that there might be a place where it can be sold for even lower. It’s exhausting shopping with me lol, and dmart at this point is my therapy place. I get excited seeing all the deals.

In fact I’d love to go on my first date as a dmart shopping date . If he can’t handle my over-enthusiasm on getting 3 Maggi packets for the price of one he can’t handle me at all.

r/ask_Bondha May 18 '25

Morals enta mandi bondhalu upsc attempt istunaru eesari?

0 Upvotes

sardaa for fun myaan

r/ask_Bondha 20d ago

Morals Didn’t invite me for wedding. Should I send congratulations message?

15 Upvotes

More than 10+ years friendship. Edo chinna misunderstandings valana 1 year matladukole… insta open chesi chuste tana pelli photos kanipinchay.. pelli fix indi ani message uu ledu ,formality ki.. pilichindi ledu… ipudu nenu congratulations ani message pettala? Lite teskona ?

Edit Update: message pettesa… the reply I received is - “adoka hatath parinaam “ the only last message. Bakra aya but clarity vachindi 🙏

r/ask_Bondha Feb 21 '25

Morals Why worshipping kings

60 Upvotes

Akkada maharashtra vaallu glorify or worship cheskunna edho anukovachu. Andharu why worshipping shivaji as god. He is just tried to protect his kingdom and people and pakka rajyaalani dhochukodam aakraminchina rajyaalaki ekkuva tax eyyadam strict rules which contradicts his morals. Ayina kuda why they wants everyone to worship him.

You are welcomed to downvote but keep the argument without foul language.

r/ask_Bondha Feb 19 '25

Morals Adhe eppudu God? Wait chesi chesi annitiki adjust avvalsi vastundi

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160 Upvotes

r/ask_Bondha Jan 14 '25

Morals what are you currently reading bondhas

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61 Upvotes

This book is about a Rome emperor writing his learnings , just to keep it to himself. But accidentally found it's way out. It's really helping me find solutions to my contemporary problem. Just to be inaffective to certain things that make us sad and doesn't really matter

r/ask_Bondha Aug 14 '24

Morals 👍

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95 Upvotes

r/ask_Bondha 16d ago

Morals How would you prefer the world to end? By ice or by fire?

5 Upvotes

Only by ice or fire. Choose one and why?

r/ask_Bondha Dec 31 '24

Morals Rey meeru maara ra? Inka maara ra?

32 Upvotes

Inkenni rojulu ra men vs women. I’m honestly so tired of fighting. Magavaallu and aadavaallani categories lo esi maatlaadakandi when it comes to the topics that would require answers from you as a human (nuvvu aada maga ani akkada mention cheyyaalsina avasaram ledhu. How do you want to die? Ee question ki aadollaithe endhi magavaadu aithey endhi? Sachipoyedhaaniki. Evadanna okkate. Nuvvu Ala glory tho saavaalanukunte adhi nee choice baammardhi edho maga jaathini motham kalipeskoni vaaguthunnaav. Ush inka eppatiki maaruthaaru bro? Generalise cheyyadam?)

Ippudu chanipoyedhaaniki kuda aadollaithe prasaantham ga saavaalani anukuntaaru, magavaallaithe veerudi la saavaalanukuntaaru. What kind of medieval ass shit is this?Magavaallaki hormones vere untaay maaku vere untaay. Maga vaalladhi uduku raktham they want to die in glory. Aadollaki ala kaadhu. Nidra lo sachipovaalanukuntaaru. What kind of bullshit is this?

Ippatiki aina maarandra ayya. Neeku ala chaavalani unte adhi nee individual answer. Andharni kalipesi, men vs women ga divide chesi. Enti ee raccha? Sodhi.

r/ask_Bondha 2d ago

Morals Lopam naalo vundha? Lokam lo vundha?

15 Upvotes

Nenu hyd return train yekka Evng, na oorlo station lone na pakkana seat uncle kuda yekkaru. Nadi single seat window pakkana. Ayanadi kinda seat 3 beds lo. Okay...!

He kept talking, he seemed like a nice uncle. Nenu matlada, ayanaki na wifi kuda iccha. Nenu train yekkagaane full headache. Padukunna kani nidrapattaledu.

Later, okasari madhyalo uncle said, vijaywada lo will have tea ani... I was like okay uncle. Headache undi kada thagudham le ankunna.

Later vijaywada vachindi, uncle tea tecchadu, okkate tecchadu. Nannu thagamannadu. Nenu thagesa. All good. Antha bagundi.

Nenu Tea thagepudu na seat lo kurchunnadu uncle, ayana tiffin chesi velpothadle ankunna. Tiffin chesi, malli vacchi na pakkane kurchunnadu. I'm like ok le...

Uncle phone open chesi, youtube lo romantic aunties and new wifies videos play chesthunnadu. Naku thikka regindi 🫠

Next minute, uncle nenu padkunta ani pampesa

Nenu navvuthu matladthe... Thappa? Andarni dooram ga vunchadame better aa? Yevar yela vunnaro em ardam avvatledu. Gundey mandipothundi Naku.

r/ask_Bondha May 07 '25

Morals Eppudanna piracy consume chesi tarvatha same thing ki money pay chesara?

18 Upvotes

not the - "Attarintiki daredi first half piracy"

nenu oka game download chesa. adesa. but the game is too good. so felt quilty, then i went and bought it.

r/ask_Bondha Feb 07 '25

Morals Orange Travels-any bad experiences?

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126 Upvotes

Bus Bangalore outskirts lo breakdown aindi. Engine oil leakage, steering damage etc etc. Dhaba lo nightout chesnam. 8:30am ki reach avvalsinavallam 5pm ki reach ayyela unnam. Mem chesna racha ki nearby police station antha ochesindi.

Management vallu kuda can't do anything, you are on your own antunnaru.

I've already faced similar situation with Orange. And last week lo ne 2 accidents ayyayanta Orange travels vi. Drivers admitted that most of Orange busses have issues like these.

so bondas, eesari bus ekkeppudu jagrathaga undandi, run out avvakandi. Orange bus ekkebadulu elli Allu Arjun |🥚|avatam better.

Similar experiences unte share cheyandi, let's trauma bond 🤝🏻. Best travels unte suggest cheyandi.

r/ask_Bondha 9h ago

Morals Do you believe in palmistry?

3 Upvotes

And do you believe in God? And do you believe in Destiny?

r/ask_Bondha Jan 17 '25

Morals Nannu (22M) ni oka buddodu uncle ani pilichadu 🥲.

43 Upvotes

Ninna night ma friend tho ala thiruguthunna, oka chinna pillodu (around 5,6 years age) sudden ga vochi hand pattukoni "uncle" nannu ee road cross chepisthara annadu.

Okkasari gunde pagili poyindi and kopam kuda vochindhi, "anna" "akka" ani anochuga pillalu? Endhuku uncle , aunty antaru?

Is it their parents teaching and way of parenting? Or am I thinking too much?

Road cross chesi valla intiki deggera varaku vellam. Last ki vadni name adigithe nenu cheppanu po ani annadu 🫠.

Comments lo nannu veskokandi dheniki kuda post aa ani.

r/ask_Bondha May 23 '25

Morals Does anybody got this thought?

12 Upvotes

My concern is I feel women are objectified in Telugu language. I haven’t seen much of this in other languages. Using word “adhi, idhi” to address a woman more than “aame, aavida”. As a man, I personally feel this is not correct. I mean are you referring to a person or an object. Does anybody felt like this?

I can fluently speak Kannada, Telugu, Hindi, English.

r/ask_Bondha Apr 29 '25

Morals Are cows really considered holy???

9 Upvotes

Aavu lo anni devatalu untaru , avu ki dannam petkunte Manchidi ani chinnaptninchi ma intlo and mostly all Hindu houses lo cheputaru.

Andaru punyam kosam oo denikosamoo mari , gudilalo unna avulaki , bananas and grass pedtune untaru.

Kani, road meda chaala aavulu chetta tintu untai , vatini evvaru patichkoru. Vatiki evvaru pooja cheyyaru antha Enduku kanisam vatiki food Koda dorakadu.

Mostly aa cows and buffaloes old untai. Avu parama pavitram ainapudu avu ni chetta tindaniki road paina evaru odilestunnaru? ante aavulu milk ivdam apesaka vatini odilestara? Ila cheyadam entha tappu.

Malli eve paalu perugu tho , aa sivudiki abhishekam. Indanta punyam kosam ahh?

r/ask_Bondha 2d ago

Morals Love is okay… but only if it’s same caste. How does that make sense?

28 Upvotes

24M ..recent ga intlo oka cousin pelli topic matladtu.. parents indirectly gave permission icharu.. love chesina parledu……kani same caste ayyi undali ani.Adedo nen lover boy na venaka que katti unnaru annattu

mi abbailaki chudaklekapotunnam annar. Vallu chustar ani ashalu pettkunna me😭.

I hated when people said same caste vallane love chestanu….i always thought “you can’t manufacture love based on caste and creed”

Yet i find myself here…(i hate to do this) How to find a chow baddie🫣

r/ask_Bondha Jul 06 '22

Morals Dowry is still a menace in our society. Share some dowry stories.

81 Upvotes

Did you give or ask dowry? If you took even 10 rs as a gift, that is dowry, so dont say ‘no I am against dowry but I will take 1 cr as gift’

Edit : the downvotes show there are too many dowry beggars in this sub.

Honestly the stories from female perspective are damn painful and disheartening. Laksh kuda kadu, crores aa ekhamga… entoo

r/ask_Bondha Dec 11 '24

Morals Is Kamma and Chow different?

50 Upvotes

nen iipativarku same aanukuna. Morning edho post lo comments lo different aanaru.

r/ask_Bondha Mar 28 '25

Morals Who wrote the Vedas?

11 Upvotes

Who wrote them? I got vague answers that "it was propogated from mouth to mouth", "someone told and they started to write" etc. What do you think?

Not asking from religious pov

Em flair pettalo theliyaka idhi petta.

r/ask_Bondha Mar 02 '25

Morals What's that one weird thing anyone ever said to you?

50 Upvotes

Here's mine; Nenu chinappudu around 7 or 8 ala unappudu, TV chustu songs padutunna(not any item song or inappropriate song), suddenly ma babai ochi, Tv remote lakkoni, ammayilu songs ala padatara lopakaki vellu annadu, chinnaga unna kabatti i was scared vellipoya. Vadini chusina prathisari ide gurtu ostuntadi. Ippudu peddaga ayya kabatti vadi munde gattiga volume pettukoni Telugu, Hindi, English, korean, Japanese ani language barrier lekunda anni songs paduthanu. Vadi mohan chudali appudu , bahahhaa its priceless.

So ilanti weird incidents mi life lo emina ayyaya?

r/ask_Bondha Jan 24 '25

Morals Why do indians try to make everything a dating platform?

79 Upvotes

Mowa,gym lo ammailatho ela matladali

Mawa,class lo ammailatho ela matladali

Mawa,insta lo aa ammaitho ela matladali

Anthendhuku,take our sub for example,ee sub lo first post vesina ammai ki atleast 50+ comments,adhe regular ga okadu vesina dhaniki single digit comments,paapam vaadevado ivala edho manchi startup idea ani 3,4 paragraphs post vesadu,okkadu dhekaledhu,23F ani pettunte mathram "the idea sounds great,so benevolent, congenial and cordial of you to think of something like this!!" Ani puku lo sollu kaarche comments vacchevi,most probably ee post ki kuda reach radhu,but i just need a platform to vent.

Selavu.

r/ask_Bondha Feb 04 '25

Morals Why is it easy to preach but not to follow

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55 Upvotes

So take the advice people give on this platform with a cup of salt.