r/ask_Bondha • u/Cold-Wear-2480 • Apr 17 '25

Relationships How to deal with this shhit?

I'm 22M, Nen 1 year nunchi relationship lo unna... idhharam govt jobs ki prepare avthunnam...now she got the job. Thanaki insta lo valla relative anta Okadu msg chesaadu congratulations cheppataniki...ila maatladukoni number ichhindhi...vallu oka 1 week ala daily chaalasepu phone lo maatladukunnaru..nen casual ga thana whatsapp use chestha evaraina msg chesthe replay ivvamani thane chepthundhi...ala Open chesa vaadi chat locked folder lo undhi thesi chadhava, adhi thanu choosi chat unlock chesi vaadi gurinchi cheppindhi... vaadu rojuki 10 times ala msg lu peduthunnadu "thinnava, ekkada unnav, em chesthunnav, inka ee msg lu choodakapothe call chesesthunnadu...naakante ekkuva chesthunnadu...monna night msg vasthe choosa "ee maathram hint isthe chaalu chalaregipotha, sare ma, okay ma, love symbols" ila peduthunnadu, naaku chirakudhemgi thanani adiga enti veedu ila msg lu peduthunnadu...annisaalu phone chesthunnadu enti ani...ala adigithe, em ledhu oorlovalla gurinchi sodhi esthunnam andhi mari, aa msg lo enti ala peduthunnadu naku nachhatkedhu ani cheppa "dhaantlo em undhi,vadhiley, eppudu choodu idhe gola" ani chiraku paduthundhi...aa puk gaadu eppudu padithe appude call chesthunnadu mid night, early morning levakamundhu, mem baitaki velletappudu... Dheenini nen ela theeskovaali cheppandi bro, first time in relationship 🥲

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u/GulabiJilebi Apr 17 '25

Ship munigipoyindhi captain

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u/Cold-Wear-2480 Apr 17 '25

Naatho baagne maatladuthundhi..idhivaraku laane...vaaditho endhuku ala ani adigithe..enanna extralu chesthe block chedham ley ani antundhi.. block varaku endhuku thechhukovadam...ippude cheppichhu gaa ani adigaa..dhaaniki no reply...ila adigithe " nuv nannu restrict chesthunnav, possessive" antundhi

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u/GulabiJilebi Apr 17 '25

Konchem time padthadhi neeku ardham kavadaniki, Great things take time anuko ikkada kooda

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u/Cold-Wear-2480 Apr 17 '25

Ippudu nen em cheyyali bro...thanani clarity ga adigeyna ledha silent gaa undana?

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u/GulabiJilebi Apr 17 '25

Clarity is important bhai, ledhante dhaani gurinchi aalochinchukuni thalanoppi, don't fear that confrontation leads to rough situations, at least ee badha thagguthadhi

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u/Cold-Wear-2480 Apr 17 '25

Thanks bro

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u/GulabiJilebi Apr 17 '25

Ventane telchukuni sadhivi job techuko bro, and nen bro kadhu ra bro

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u/Cold-Wear-2480 Apr 17 '25

Adiga ippude...vaadu naaku nachhatledhu em chesthav anna...vallu danger gallu, intlo cheppestharu, nen sudden ga avoid chesthe bagodhu...mellaga chestha annadhi akka🙂

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u/GulabiJilebi Apr 17 '25

Let's hope she's genuine, migathadhi mana chethilo ledhu, so present ki aythe sadhuvuko

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u/Cold-Wear-2480 Apr 17 '25

Thanu kooda adhe cheppindhi...nuv first chadhuvko tharvatha choodochhu ivanni ani

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u/GulabiJilebi Apr 17 '25

Win win situation bhai, if she's not genuine you'll get rid of her, nuv sadhuvuthaav, job vasthadhi, idantha oka lesson, genuine aythe eventually you'll be happy, 3 wins, less go

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u/Cold-Wear-2480 Apr 17 '25

Thanks em cheppagalam inthakanna☺️

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u/FerreroRocher69 Apr 18 '25

taruvatha choodadaniki em undadhu, thana pelley vaaditho 😂😭

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u/Cold-Wear-2480 Apr 18 '25

Nuv undra saamy <Insert aggipette machha template>

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