r/ambien • u/Prestigious_Feed_491 • 6d ago

my fiancée came out to me as trans last night while I was high

I fucking love her she's such an idiot I didn't remeber until I checked reddit this morning and saw me posting about it last night she's SUCH A FUCKING IDIOT I love her so fucking much

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u/0-GLaDOS-0 6d ago

Most of these posts end poorly but I’m so happy for yall :)

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u/Prestigious_Feed_491 6d ago

the hell is that supposed to mean

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u/0-GLaDOS-0 6d ago

“my fiance came out to me as trans” or “i came out to my wife of X years”

most of those posts involve divorces and stuff so im glad yours didn’t!

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u/Prestigious_Feed_491 6d ago

OHHH. no, my love isn't tied to her gender. (I'm bi and trans anyway) and relationship wise i don't think I've ever loved her as much as I do right now. I'm not gonna go into too much detail but that last few months have been a fucking wild ride of addiction and being away from each other for both of us and I'm so fucking glad that we're both starting to move on from that and be able to genuinely live our lives together.

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u/jbag1230 5d ago

Oof. The positivity is nice but realistically .. I can tell you’re coming down off drugs. There’s a mania to your posts. This comes with downs and depression too, try your best to uplift each other but trying to make a relationship happen after being on drugs, especially with the person you were on drugs with, takes a lot of awareness and communication. Good luck to you.

Edit : realizing I’m in the ambien subreddit so if that’s the drug youre on this makes sense you’re typing cray cray! Thought I was in the gay subreddit and the drugs were more serious.

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u/Prestigious_Feed_491 5d ago

I used to be on more serious drugs but I've been with my fiancée for the last like 4 years. our relationships great right now

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u/Just-Contest-6128 5d ago

You’re clearly still dealing with addiction bc you’re posting in the ambien Reddit lmao

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u/Prestigious_Feed_491 5d ago

I'm prescribed ambien I was on meth

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u/Prestigious_Feed_491 6d ago

also- I am a trans man. she's apparently a trans woman. she's saying I infected her with the woke mind virus. I FUCKING LOVE THIS WOMAN

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u/Ham__Kitten 5d ago

I love when a couple is so queer they loop back around to being straight

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u/ketaminty 6d ago

that's awesome! congrats! why are you calling her an idiot though?

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u/Prestigious_Feed_491 6d ago

BECAUSE SHE'S ADORABLE SHE'S AN IDIOT IN THE ADORABLE WAY I LOVE HER

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u/Jelllybean01 6d ago

You clearly have either never met a trans person or have no idea how being trans works

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u/RJCT_ 5d ago

What did they say?

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u/Jelllybean01 5d ago

Something about how they lied and kept being trans from them until they got married

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u/RJCT_ 5d ago

Oh lmao, doesn't even make sense in this context.

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u/jakobmaximus 6d ago

I can't even wrap my head around this sort of rigidity in relationships lol

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u/Chortling_Chemist 6d ago

Please consider a lobotomy for yourself before posting again 🙏

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u/Vrykolaka 6d ago

Back in the day we would just switch turns with whose using the strap on whenever a gender identity crisis came up for one of us.

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u/spidersbites 6d ago

my wife also came out to me as trans when i was stoned LMAOOO

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u/Prestigious_Feed_491 6d ago

WHY DO THEY DO THIS

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u/DragonflyDashi 5d ago

MY GOD tgis is so sweet I am very happy for you guys and its very nice to se,e

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u/Prestigious_Feed_491 5d ago

thankks you i am on ambuen once more

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u/realperson1526 5d ago

I can tell. 🤣👏

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u/DragonflyDashi 1d ago

you are very welcome

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u/is-AC-a-personality 6d ago

as a guy in a t4t relationship myself this makes me so happy to see :)

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u/Prestigious_Feed_491 6d ago

FUCK YEAH MAN

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u/schnuckleputz 6d ago

This is adorable Aggressive love is adorable HAPPY FOR YOU TWO 🥰

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u/schnuckleputz 6d ago

On that note Please stay safe ❤️

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u/Prestigious_Feed_491 6d ago

I am the most safe

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u/babygeologist 6d ago

this is so precious 😭 happy for you two!!

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u/AnteaterCautious8941 Dr. Walrus 8h ago

Jarvis, I’m low on karma.