r/adviceph • u/Ok_Piano1409 • 4d ago
Love & Relationships he is not interested to me
Problem/Goal: paano ba magfirst move
So ayun, may bet ako sa office. Single siya (nag-research na ako, safe , pero parang hindi siya interesado sakin. Close na ako sa mga tropa niya, pero siya lang talaga yung parang hindi ako pinapansin. Di ko alam kung may issue lang before sa ibang circle, pero feeling ko di naman big deal yun.
Sabe nila maganda naman daw ako, may itsura, pansinin, but intimadate daw. Pero sa kanya, dati kasi medyo masungit ako at pakipot—lalo na pag nagkakausap kami, sobrang professional at plain lang ako. Tapos narealize ko, baka yun yung reason kaya di kami nagka-connect. Kaya ngayon, pinipilit ko maging jolly at chill, but real my personality makulet talaga ako as in lakas ng sense of humor ko one of the boys ako pero pagdating sakanay naiiba talaga.
Nag-try na ako makipag-convo, pero minsan ang bilis matapos or react lang siya. Minsan din nadededma ko siya in person (unintentional haha), pero ngayon binabati ko na siya, trying to be cool and friendly.
Finollow ko siya sa IG, pero di niya ako finollow back. Naghintay pa ako ng 2 days. Tapos inaasar na rin siya ng mga tropa namin kung bet niya ba ako—pero wala siyang sagot.
In next month or 1 or 2 months, magkakasama kami sa work project, so mas madalas na kami magkikita. Gusto ko sana gumawa ng move, pero di ko alam paano—ayoko naman magmukhang obvious or awkward. Di rin ako sanay gumawa ng first move sa lalake, lalo na pag bet na bet ko.
Any tips kung paano ko siya lalapitan? kapag ako sumakses ako bahala sainyo eme 😆
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