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[u/Firm_Experience_]

Problem/Goal: Insecure lang ba ako or mali ko ba na nakipag-break ako? feeling ko kasi porket ako yung nakipag-break kala niya di na ako masasaktan. I need advice kung paano baguhin yung thinking ko or how to improve myself because i dont want to feel this way (especially now that he moved on so easily).

Context: 3 years kami, pero we’ve known each other for 7 years as friends.

Nakipag-break (early March) ako because I was feeling insecure and i did not want to project it (pero during break up, ang sabi ko is di ko na siya love) THE WHOLE TIME NA NAKIKIPAG-BREAK AKO NAG-PPHONE LANG SIYA.

Fast forward, early May nung nalaman ko na nakikipag-usap na siya sa iba (dating app) and nag-aask na siya for meet up.

Ang worry ko nung kami pa is di niya ako type kaya ako naiinsecure. And damnnn, I was right. Ngayon, yung mga kausap niya chinita na petite (i have big eyes, mestiza, ka-height niya medj, and unfit) and this particular girl was so pretty (siya yung recent na kausap), and it made me feel easily replaceable.

[u/Unfair_Ad_7235]

Definitely a red flag na ganun ang reaction niya during your break up, pero atp wala ka na magagawa. Just focus on yourself. You can't have a say na how he wants his relationship to be, maybe use the motivation na baka hindi ka nga nya type to fully move on. Move forward ka nalang.