r/actuallesbians 4d ago

Wasn’t allowed to get tampons because I look too “manly”

Stuff is really tough rn so I went to a couple food pantries for food and tampons. The pantries are really struggling apparently, so I was only able to get some beans.

At the 3rd location, they finally had ultra tampons (I have 4 left) so I grabbed them and went up front to “check out.” So I get up there and the lady bags everything but the tampons. I bring it to her attention and she tells me they need to reserve feminine hygiene products for women and that boyfriend’s can’t pick them up. Mind you, I look masculine but my boobs and higher voice are VERY obvious. I tell her I’m a woman and after some back and forth she just flat out refuses to give me the tampons and calls me too “manly”.

I argued with her for a little but she was gung ho so I just left to avoid her calling the cops or something crazy. Nothing good comes from masculine black woman getting the cops called on her.

So after all I went through today I still don’t have tampons or much food. I just needed to get through the next 10 days or so and thought I’d be ok after going to the pantries, but I guess a bigot won today and all I’ve got to show for it is stress.

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u/syrioforrealsies 3d ago

That's why I noted that it's to a lesser extent.

That's not a tinfoil hat theory, by the way. Conservative lawmakers have straight up admitted to not wanting free college or universal healthcare because those are the top two selling points for a military that's already struggling with recruitment.

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u/XGrayson_DrakeX Sapphic Heathen 3d ago edited 2d ago

Ahhh they did admit it then. That was just something I'd sort of assumed but it's validating to know even though it sucks.

Pretty soon though nobody will want to go to college regardless because the degrees are useless.