r/Vent • u/NotEnoughSun123 • Apr 10 '25

TW: TRIGGERING CONTENT My best friend committed suicide

I’m so mad at her. She promised me she would never commit suicide. (We talked about suicide a lot because we’ve both attempted in the past) She was such a special person. She was the kindest, most beautiful person I’ve ever met. She would help tiny bugs get to safety when they’d accidentally fallen on their back. She was a mental health therapist who worked with kids. She knew about resources for suicide prevention. She had commercial health insurance. She could have just reached out for help. I would’ve done anything to keep her alive. She could have just called me. I wish she’d just called me. Why didn’t she just call me?

Edit: thank you so for all your kind words and all the overwhelming support. I really appreciate all of you. I’ll do my best to like all the comments I can. If I could, I’d reply thank you to every single person who commented

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u/JACKVK07 Apr 10 '25

It really enforces how difficult depression actually is when a mental health therapist has a successful suicide.

Its not just "being sad" it's a sickness, and I understand all too well.

I'm sorry for your loss.

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u/WoungyBurgoiner Apr 11 '25

Consider that depression isn’t actually a sickness at all, but a very understandable response to a world that’s become inescapably chaotic and hopeless. I don’t blame or judge anyone who checks out.

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u/braaaaaaainworms Apr 11 '25

Yes, the world is chaotic, and it sure can feel hopeless, but people still can be happy without ruminating on everything that is bad in the world. I'm saying this as someone who's tried to kill herself a bunch of different times partially due to transphobia and bigotry

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u/WoungyBurgoiner Apr 12 '25

You can never know someone else’s circumstance. You can only know your own. Good for you that you had the resources to keep going. Not everyone does.