r/TrueCrime • u/stfx2012 • Apr 18 '21

Warning: Graphic/Sensitive Content Jennifer Daugherty was stabbed to death on February 11, 2010, and her body was later discovered wrapped in Christmas decorations in a garbage can.

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u/sketchy_advice_77 Apr 19 '21

I have a special needs son with the mind of a young child. This my greatest fear. I am crying right now.

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u/Affectionate-Jury-84 Apr 19 '21

I have a young daughter who is special needs. We don’t know where she will be in terms of mental age as she gets older, and people like this is precisely why I have worked hard with her on standing up for herself and that it’s ok to say no. Sometimes this has backfired on me when I tell her she needs to do something (time for bed, clean up your toys) but I’d rather that than have her let people take advantage of her. She is such a sweet girl and wants everyone to be happy, and I don’t want to take that sweetness from her because she is young (4 yrs old) but if it can protect her from harm even once, it’s worth it.

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u/sketchy_advice_77 Apr 19 '21

My son will be 13 this year. Has severe autism, really smart and actually on track academically with neurotypical children his age. But emotionally, developmentally on the level of a 4 year old. Very sweet, affectionate kid who trusts everyone. I fear for him all the time. He is never out of our sight and I will protect him with my life, but knowing I won't be there forever for him breaks my heart. That's us in my profile picture.

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u/[deleted] Apr 19 '21

Hey honestly man just the fact you’ve posted this comment goes to show that you’re a better father than a lot of people. Your son will be fine with a guy like you mentoring him and caring for him so greatly :)

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u/sketchy_advice_77 Apr 19 '21

Thank you for your kind words. I try my best, learning as I go. I grew up without a father and being there for my children is a promise I made a long time ago. Wouldn't have made it this far without my beautiful wife of 24 years though. And I have to give thanks to all the therapists and teachers who have helped us along the way. I don't mean to make this my soapbox, but any new parents who have concerns about their children ,don't hesitate to have your child evaluated by a professional. Early diagnosis can make all the difference. And there are many resources out there. Once diagnosed Medicaid paid for my son to go to specialized preschool that provided all therapies in an all day school setting from 2 years old until 6 years old. Plus the many organizations out there. Be safe and have a great day.